How can I boost my self-confidence after starting a new job? I feel like I'm not good enough.
I just started a new job, and let me just say, I am feeling exactly the same. Please, know that you aren’t alone in this!What has helped me has been being honest. If I don’t know something, or if I need to be taught something a second time, I speak up right away instead of just faking that I understand something. I’ve been trying to be patient with myself so I don’t stress out too easily. I think the more stress and pressure I put on myself, the slower I learn something. I’ve been trying to be kind to myself in the process and not treat myself like I did in high school-which was destructive and impatient. I also try to remember to do everything from a place of rest, instead of pushing through until I allow myself to rest. This makes EVERYTHING so much easier.Hey, and also remember that you got the job, and that means you already have their confidence. Someone saw something in you that they liked and then they thought you were good enough to be hired. How flattering! Be confidant that the individual way you see things, think things and create things is VALUABLE. Which makes you valuable.The logistics of a new job take time to learn, but you are already a valuable person, that doesn’t need to be taught. Plus, most people can relate to being in the exact same shoes as you, there is more kindness and grace out there than you may think.You got this, keep your head up. :)
Wicca-- Are there any spells to help a friend gain confidence?
Please be open-minded I know what my religion is and I don't care if you don't like it. Well, she needs more self-confidence. I have her permission already.
How do I build confidence and establish myself in a new job?
Check your clothes n dressing, it should be appropriate, should merger with your office crowd.Get to know ALL your bosses n also your junior's, because they are your all the key's.Be part of office politics and gossip, but from distance never get involved.Do weight lifting and short term high intensity aerobic exercise. It will give you physical and hormonal boost.Confidence is nothing but fear of something. Identify your fear, get Rid of the fear, automatically your confidence will boost.Enjoy life.
How do I stay confident in my new job with bad body odor?
First, ditch the soap. No soap. Hear me? No soap! Instead, scrub your pits with water and a washcloth. Yep- that simple. No soap. Just a good scrub down with water and a washcloth. Soap strips the pits (even really natural ones) and can even trap odors in. You don’t want that obviously. The only exception I have found to the no-soap rule is the Morrocco Method line of shampoos. Their products DO work well as pit-stink-removers and do not create an environment conducive to odor build up. Once or twice per week, use a mild sugar scrub with some essential oils mixed in. Sugar scrubs for this purpose are not complicated. Just grab a little oil (coconut oil, almond oil, grapeseed oil) and mix it with some organic sugar. You don’t want it oily but you don’t want it too dry either. 2 parts sugar to 1 part oil is a good balance. Add a few drops of your favorite essential oil (this brand is cost-effective in a sugar scrub) and massage the scrub into your pits for 60-90 seconds. Rinse and pat dry. Do not use harsh, chemical laden deodorants or antiperspirants. Deodorant is easy to make yourself or you can choose to use a more natural one. I like the deodorant recipes from Scratch Mommy and It Takes Time. If you would prefer to purchase a great natural deodorant, try the ones from The Hippy Homemaker, The Moody Sisters, or Primal Pit Paste. If you find yourself in need of a mid-day touch up, you might consider carrying cotton balls and a small container of lemon juice or vodka. Rub your pits with a little bit of lemon juice or vodka and it takes the smell away. Apple Cider Vinegar works well too but I find it to be a bit irritating. Take detox baths in magnesium flakes or Epson salts. Get the sweat out in the tub and let the toxins run free!
How do I feel confident at a new job right after being fired from my last job?
The new job hired you because they felt confident in the skills you bring to the company.They see something in you that you haven’t seen in yourself yet. Trust your expertise, the previous door closed so this one could open.Do not self sabatoge yourself. You are qualified to handle the position you have been placed in. Show up and show out!