Do guys lose interest after sex?
Not in my case, i wouldn't but never had sex before.
How can I get back the interest of a guy who lost interest because I was overly emotional?
You can’t change your feelings simply because they don’t jive with one person. The reasons and triggers for your emotional response in any given moment are deep-seated. Emotions are also your guidance system. If you pay attention, they will help you navigate through the challenges of life.The question you need to ask yourself is how do you feel about your emotional reaction to whatever it was? If you believe it was an over-reaction, unwarranted and it is not serving you well, then look to understand the emotional triggers and work on resolving those.This is for your benefit not his. Maybe this guy’s only role in your life was simply to show you the area you need to work on, to make you an emotionally stronger person as you face bigger issues in life? Maybe you are not meant to gain his interest again- even if you change. You’ll have to accept that too.You decide what you need to do for your own higher good. If he is meant to be with you again, he will, regardless of whether you change or not.
How do I regain a guy's interest?
Well as I am a myself a 'guy' I would like to suggest you that if you really loved him but he absolutely didn't then ….. you should forget about him. And if you want him to come back to you or again take interest in you. You should show him what a big mistake he had done by losing you. And how would you do that ? By showing your inner quality which anybody had never seen. Your inner beauty. That you are unique. Extraordinary! etc.Well this is the least you can do. But after all that if he not gain interest in you, you should forget about him and focus on your carrier , passion ,interest etc. Afterall I shall give you a tip- ‘he is not oxygen you can live without him”.
Why do I lose interest in guys so fast?
Either you are a hopeless romantic and doesn’t feel connected to every random guy or you are a female version of a fuckboy!Caution: Dont hurt anybody in your losing interest game!
Girls: why do you like to be ignored to gain interest in a guy?
The more you ignore a girl the more she will like you .. And the more you try to be realistic or straight forward with a girl the more she is afraid of you and doesn't want you anymore? I'm not making this up. I'm 19. When I was in highschool i got approached by MANY MANY girls and I never took a chance because I wanted a serious long term relationship. Whenever I rejected a girl she became more interested in me and always chasing me she gave up. I've been told that I'm good looking and attractive. Personality comes first to me really so its not my top priority to find a hot chick. Now that I'm in college, I thought things would be different but no girls are still pathetic and childish. I tried to approach some of the girls back and as soon as I approach them back they change their mind and lose interest in me! Even I messaged a girl from high school that used to like me and she never messaged back. Why? I have no idea. But I know that she used to kiss my butt last year. There is nothing wrong with the way I approach. At work I'm getting promoted and everyone likes my personality. Same thing two girls like me at work and I keep ignoring them. I tried to communicate with this girl and she is so nice and my age. Whenever at work she looks up to me and respects me and compliments me all the time, I do compliment her back. However, there isn't once I tried to call her and she answered or text her and texted back immediately or even texted back. Whenever I lose my interest in her she tries to steal my attention and whenever I try to approach her she loses interest. For instance she had an interview at a well-paying company and I decided to call her to check if she got the job and she didn't answer or text. Last week we talked about this and I told her that I'm happy for her and im gonna miss her and she hugged me and she said she will keep in contact with me and all if she quits our current job and she was so nice when we talked. I called her today she didn't answer or call back and I know that today she's off and I know she is not busy and at home. Why? NOBODY KNOWS! How pathetic is that? Why isn't there a girl who just wants a straight forward man and is not full of drama and is looking for a plain guy?? This is so saad!
Does a guy lose interest when his girl gains weight?
You need to do the smart thing, and ditch this loser. It's his fault you are fat for taking you out of the game for so long and settling you down and if you had been single, you would have worked out more. How dare he! You want to be with someone who lets you enjoy life and eat what you want to eat. Think about it. If you stay with this loser and god forbid get pregnant, then you are stuck with his child!!! Then if you're fat, it's all his fault and he will still be mean to you!!!
Why do some guys mistake kindness for interest?
I'm a good girl, classy lady with manners, and naturally just a nice person. I don't go out of my way to gain others' approval (therefore be super nice to them); however I'm just an easygoing person with a down to earth attitude. I'm not a big flirt at all and as I get older I am aware that I do need to restrict my kindness somewhat. Bottom line: there's no reason for me to be a b*tch if I don't have to be one. What's also surprising is that guys also tell me how they're a bit hesitant in approaching me bc of my looks (???) and when they find out i'm a "cool girl", they relax but that's when it sucks bc it's there when they assume I'm interested. (I'm not gorgeous but I am "feminine" and like to take care of myself). We could be talking about basketball, me giving them "crap" bc of a team they like and they're hooked. I look back at what I say and do (even ask my close friend for non-biased advice) and i really don't do anything that would make them think or feel this way. For ex: A guy friend was introducing me to all his guy friends and I wanted to be a good sport and say "hi", talk w. some people. I talked to this one guy, had that basketball convo (as mentioned) above and he's hooked. I thought he was just a cool friend to hang out with but within 24 hours, texted me and kept the convo goin for the whole afternoon, added me on facebook, left me a comment that had something to do w. my basketball preferences, givin me compliments here and there (typical, predictable game btw haha) and for the whole week, I was so busy w. work and my major and when i texted to him back he said, "i was beginning to think you disliked me." OUCH. I like him as a friend but how did he think i was interested in him, already? I barely know the guy! Luckily, I responded back w. a "I'm friendly to all my friends." He also decided to drunk text me and ask me when we would go on a vacation together? :/ And please don't encourage me to go for this guy. I've FINALLY learned my lesson in settling and getting w. him would be like getting back w. my ex (he's like his twin... everything about him). Advice? And how to prevent this in the future? I guess you can't really prevent this but i don't wanna be a mean b*tch about it... be grateful for all this?
When a guys loses interest can you ever get it back?
Don't let it bother you. If he really had feelings, why would they have disappeared so quickly? The feelings could still be there, or he could have gotten over it & moved on.. It must have been hard on him if he liked you while you dated another guy. That would have drove him mad. He might have wanted to start being friends with u for a while before starting to date you, maybe he thought u wouldn't date anyone else & felt betrayed when u did. I'd guess coz u hurt him, he wouldn't be running straight to u after ur single again. He'd want to be distant coz he doesn't want to get hurt by u, and maybe he wants you to think he doesn't want you. Guys don't like to admit if you've hurt them. Give him some time. He's already dealt with you choosing to see someone else, so it's only fair to be patient. If you rush things with him you could be making a huge mistake. There's only one way you're going to know how he feels about u, you have to spend time with him & read the way he behaves around you. Is there a way you can spend more time with him? Do nice things for him & help him out a bit. Don't be a flirt just yet, but atleast reignite that friendship! With time, you can overcome the weirdness & get past it for good. Afterall, a boyfriend is meant to be one of the most intimate friendships you can have. Once you're comfortable around eachother again, don't be afraid of ruining the friendship, just step it up & start dropping hints & flirting. Don't let this guy's feelings & actions toward you control your life or linger on your mind for too long. Make sure you have your own friends, your own things to do & your own goals. Then atleast if things don't work out with him, you won't get hurt & can move on & find a nicer guy anyway. Goodluck.
Do guys lose interest if g/f gains weight in relationship?
Ok so here is the deal. Me and my guy have been together on/off for 8 yrs. We were really good up until about 2 yrs ago when I gained about 30lbs. I was a size 5/6 in the beginning now I'm a size 10/11. No I haven't had a baby or anything I just quit working out since I graduated and got on birth control. But I carry my weight well b/c I am 5'10, nevertheless, you can tell the difference. My b/f hasn't complained or anything but things have been different between us since and he's not around that much. My question is since we've been dating for a lonngggg time, I dont think he would expect me to look the same way that I did when I was 17. Does weight gain make a difference to guys? Do guys tell their g/f that she needs to lose weight? Why hasn't he said anything? Shouldn't guys still love his g/f the same even if she packs on some pounds???