I hate my parents. I want to run away. What should I do?
It just depends on how old you are and how willing you are to live through absolute shit to make it on your own. I wouldn't suggest running away unless you are being physically/sexually abused. It also depends on your personality. If you're a self motivated, make your path kind of person then no matter what I think you can make it.I basically ran away on my own when I was 16 and my life has been so shitty. It took forever to improve my life. It took forever to correct my credit. It was hard to go to college while working two jobs. But now I'm 26, working on my bachelors job and have a good job and a stable/ much better than one would expect place to live and I met someone amazing.If you do chose to go on the route of living on your own, I would advise you the following:keep good relationships with all people because you never know when you may need assistance.If you chose to be in relationships, if you get a gut feeling that someone just isn't right, stay away from that person. There are many evil people out there that can harm you and even kill you.If you choose to have sex, use protection. It's extra hard for people with kids to become successful without the assistance of others- I'm sure it's possible but it's your body and you can prevent unwanted pregnancies.Unless you're like dying, do not go to any hospitals because the bills will fuck up your credit so bad.Don't get fancy with your meals. Learn to live/eat cheap.Also before you run away, have a vehicle, in case you have to live in your car for a while.I wish you the best!
How can I get rid of jealousy and hatred from my mind?
Jealousy is a state of mind that makes you feel highly insecure and uncomfortable. When it turns intense, jealousy becomes an evil passion that can cause serious harm to yourself and the person to whom it is directed. It is a normal gnawing feeling that may affect many, even close friends some time in life. What you may do is to bless (in your mind) that person whom you are jealous of, whenever you think of that person. Also, pray for that person and be happy for that person’s success and happiness in life. I know it is not an easy job to do that, but it works. You will be able to do it if you try. Soon you will find your jealousy giving way to love, peace and joy welling within you. You can get additional help from this link: Overcoming JealousyPS. For those who consider themselves agnostics or atheists, praying to God is not easy. What you may do (may I suggest) is, say this, "God, I do not believe that you exist, but if you are out somewhere there please bless xyz (the person whom you hate or feel jealous of)
How do I get rid of my hatred for humanity?
I have a deep deep hatred for pretty much everything. I hate everyone, and I mean that. I have no friends because I have insulted them in the worst way. Any potential girlfriends? Oh I have told them stuff no rational human would ever say to a woman. I don't want to be like this through :( My hate is so strong it's taken over my life, I don't even know what love feels like. When I say I hate everything, that's not an exaggeration, I literally do. How do I stop this?
How do you get rid of hatred and anger in your heart if it only acts like a poison which takes you over? The hatred of life and the world so to speak.
In reading your question, I can feel your hurt and disappointment and it seems as if you also believe you have no control over what happens.One of the very hardest lessons for a child to learn is that ‘life isn’t fair!!’True, Life is not fair.Life isn’t personal.Life isn’t fair for anyone.Since that is true, it is wise to notice when something is going in your favor and to actions on your own behalf, not so that you might disadvantage others, that you may advantage yourself.Notice that you chose the emotion ‘hate’ instead of ANY of the others on the wheel.Maybe you feel ‘sad/mad/scared’, all of which are understandable when you are not feeling ‘peaceful/powerful/joyful’.When you were younger and events happened, you had opinions about those events. Whether or not you misperceived the event (common) or just didn’t understand the range of your options/actions to the event, (even more common) here you are, have having spiraled downward into angry helplessness.There IS a way ‘up and out’ …. this author has shown the path for getting to where you would like to be if that is something that appeals to you.You are right about anger being a ‘poison that takes you over’.You can stop that now for you will have the knowledge and ability to take you back and into a life where you get to make choices in your own favor and to achieve goals of your very own.
How do I get rid of the hatred that's eating me up on the inside?
The only way is to forgive her or she'll plague your mind forever. It's best not to give an individual so much power over you and your happiness. If you try to ignore her you'll do the exact opposite so just stop replaying the past and focus on the present. Even if she is a b i tch in the present just as she was in the past, move on with *your* life.. something she shouldn't have the least bit of control over or even so much be apart of. She's made it clear she doesn't want to be friends, now you don't have any ties to her. Except for the fact that she's a bit like the paparazzi for you; obsessed, crazed and deceitful. But she won't accomplish anything by spreading false rumours.. All she's spreading is her own hatred and bitterness and those who are gullible and naive enough to believe her will become hateful and bitter themselves. Anything hurtful she says to you also falls under the "false information" category. She's only saying those things out of her hatred and bitterness, and the only reason you feel hatred and bitterness is because you believe her. You believed in false relationships, because really if someone out there was able to break up any sort of love that was shared in that relationship with hate, was that love all that strong in the first place? And you believe that the opinions of her little hateful, mindless minions actually matter. Which they don't. Think about it, what did you really lose? All you lost in your life was a bunch of hateful people.. Is that really bad? You've been ridden of negative people, the only negativity now is that which is within yourself. So just forgive her and forgive everyone because they can only hurt you if you let them have that power, otherwise they're only hurting themselves. And that's sort of sad isn't it? How by trying to hurt others they're ultimately only hurting themselves? Not only that but they're surrounding and indulging themselves with one of the most destructive things, hate. They need all the love they can get because they're severely lacking it. Anyways now, you're not apart of that so surround yourself with love.:) Things and people you love.
How do we get rid of greed, hatred and ignorance?
start at home. sell everything you own and give the proceeds to charity.
How can I get rid of hate and jealousy?
The meaning of life comes down to but one thing - To Learn. What if you had a magic genie who could give you anything you wanted, instantly & always. How long before life lost all allure & vitality such that it was no longer worth living? Exactly. Obstacles are placed in our way for a reason (the meaning of life thing).Here’s the most powerful operating principle in life & then how it’s powerfully affecting you here - What you focus on expands. The more you focus on these negative feelings the more they expand & the more you attract & magnetize still more - in addition to feeling horrible & frequently as well. These are neural pathways embedded in your unconscious composed of negative emotions. The good news is they can be rewritten. Consider it a sign to attend to the underlying principle underlying all Psychological heath - paying attention to your emotions as they come up & positively dealing with them. Doing so can resolve virtually all issues but it is very much like building a pyramid, building the strong base on which to build a life sometimes goes up slowly - but soon enough it goes up very quickly indeed. There is a reason why nothing is a better predictor of all levels of the deepest happiness & prosperity in life then successfully developing ones emotional intelligence with real passion. You need to now start looking for all the beauty there is to see in every situation you encounter & everyone you meet. It will take creativity & passion - but what of any worth doesn’t? It really is an adventure that will pay off so unspeakably profoundly in & of itself, as well as with all future greater challenges it is genuinely incredible. Like all adventures they are not easy fun - but definitely exhilarating & for as high a good as exists. It really is a choice & an exciting one. You can already feel what’s coming from the effort thus expended.