Stuck in friend drama, what do I do?
Personally, if I had two friends and one of them came to me telling me that she was having an affair with the boyfriend of our other friend...I would drop her instantly and tell my friend. You shouldn't have been scared to tell her because if your friend would've thought you were lying to her then it's her own stubborness that would hurt her. I do think one has the loyalty to others close ot let them know when they are being deceived or mainpulated. Also, reason why I drop my other friend would be because if she was so easy going about sleeping with her friend's boyfriend and to top it off come tell you....who's to say she wouldn't do the exact same thing to you? She is 16...she knows what she does. Anyway, that is behind now...on to the matter at hand. You should try to contact your friend through voicemail, e-mail, the quite famous texting, or any means possible and leave a brief message that you need to talk to her. Once you get a chance to talk to her, you need to let her know that you are concerned about her because she is such a close friend to you, otherwise you wouldn't be getting into her business. Continue telling her that she was ignorant the first time around, she didn't know how Charlie was. But if she commits the same mistake again...she won't be ignorant or blinded any longer...she will just be stupid. She is going to continue following in the wrong steps. She learned something from this...keep her friendships and boyfriends apart and she learned that the other girl you two are friends with is not even worth being friends with. If she takes Charlie back, then she shouldn't be shocked if he hurts her again. Tell her you want to prevent this because you don't want her to be hurt.
My best friend is such a drama queen?
Just walk away from the bullcrap and tell her politely to woman the heck up! And ask why she acts like a Drama Queen???? Then give her a T- shirt saying biggest DRAMA QUEEN ON THE UNIVERSE... jk jk hahaha that would be funny though but don't do it.
Tired of dealing with my best friends drama?
This is a bummer of a situation. It really drags you down to get barraged with someone else's problems all the time. I know this would be very hard for you to do, but what I suggest is you explain to her that both of them are your friends, and you don't like to see either of them unhappy, but you can't listen to her talk about it all the time. It puts you in the middle of a situation you over which you have no control. There are things in your life you can control and things you can't. How you react to her whining is something you control. Her whining, however, is not in your control. You may have to decide if her bellyaching is more trouble than the friendship is worth. That may sound harsh, but knowing that HE is also your friend and still going on and on about him means she's not considering how you feel. Friendship needs to be a two way street, or one of you will feel abused.
My friend is a Korean drama addict. How do stop her obsession?
First of all I don't think being addicted to kdrama is wrong. I myself am addicted. Second, instead of you its your friend who should evaluate and take action regarding the fact that time s/he is spending on KDrama is disturbing her/his other realms of life, like relationships and professional and personal goals. The burden of regret is only your friend's to bear. We should properly count the hours we spend on watching our beloved series and reflect what all we could have done in those hours. What all we could have accomplished in relation to personal, professional and relationship goals. After all this has been thought through if the conclusion we come to points towards regret then we should make changes in our binge watching habits.There is a way to not give up on your drama and accomplish your goals too.Start collecting them. There are ways to save streaming videos offline. You will need external hard drive. You'll have to pay for it. That's the trade-off. After its offline.. you can watch it later whenever you want. Delayed Gratification is the key here.We need to remember that there has to be a balance. Search for a way to it. There is almost always a way.
My ex best friend keeps starting drama!!!!!!?
My ex friend won't leave me alone. After I chewed her out over her accusing my friend of something, which I knew wasn't true, she keeps starting drama. Me and my friends usually sit at a table outside. She decided to sit at the table while we were there. At first, I completely ignored it, until she started fighting with my other friends. We both got in trouble for me yelling at her like I mentioned before, so we have to stay at least 15 feet away from each other at all times, so she left shortly after. The next day, my theatre teacher mentioned we are doing a musical and there's a stripping scene in it. Her new best friend talked about how they should audition for that part and she said, " I don't wanna strip onstage, Ali should do it though. She's naturally a slut." Then today, she came to the table again, and because she was there before me, I had to leave. My friend was yelled at by her, talked **** about me, and she constantly stares at me and my friends. She keeps on blaming me for starting drama, but I'm trying to ignore her. She keeps on coming to me and starting problems. I need help!!!!!!!!!!!
My friend won't stop texting me?
So like 3 days ago my friend had her heart broken since her crush got a girlfriend. I did all I could to comfort her and tell her it's alright but now she won't stop texting me about it! I'm not a person who likes to text so I often don't reply to some text messages I get so when I don't reply to her she would just keep texting and texting to the point where I'm getting at least 6 text per hour! Now don't think of me as a bad friend because i was with her the whole way through I even went to her house and comforted her when she first heard that her crush was taken. So how do I get her to stop texting me so much? I just can't take it anymore I want to talk about something other than her relationship drama!
My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who causes drama, what should I do?
I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months. Since we've been together, his best friend has been an issue. I'm cool with my guy having a female best friend, but this girl is a high maintenance drama-queen. In the past, she's used my boyfriend for money and manual labor. Things like mowing her lawn, buying her cigarettes, and giving her money to go on a trip. Not things that best friends do, things that boyfriends do. All of the work, none of the sex. I know a big part of this was my boyfriends fault, for going along and giving her everything she wanted. We almost broke up. But, we talked about it, his other friends agreed with me, and he's set boundaries with her. Boundaries she agreed to. The last month or so, things have been great between me and my guy. My boyfriends' birthday is coming up. This girl threw his b-day party last year, so I messaged her through a social networking site(we're "friends") about the guest list and to see if she had any ideas on what to do for him this year. She won't open my message. Tried to IM her, and no response. I don't need this girl for much. She knows how to throw a party, and I would like a little co-operation. Should I try harder to reach her? Should I do my own thing without her help, to the possible detriment to having a good time? And bigger picture, what should I do about the situation in general?
What do you do when a friend's drama becomes too much?
First off, you probably have enjoyed this drama to some extent or you would of called it quits long ago. It's always a little fun to have a dramatic friend, but yes they can become draining after awhile. Resources is not what this train wreck is looking for...she is looking for a someone who will listen to her stories, and take her side....keep in mind it is all about her sympathy and her being the victim. There is not much room for her to hear that she needs to stop this behavior and take control. She has choices in life but, decides to take the wrong road....and this leads her to all her problems. She is the one creating these problems! But this does not make her look like the innocent bystander, and how dare you!! right. So with that being said, remember the old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. She won't be mad for long, because who else does she have that will listen to her pity parties....because once someone starts the party, they like to invite everyone! And you are more than likely on her top two list...I am sure she doesn't have too much more than that who will really give her feedback, or stay on the phone with her long once the violins start. You will never lose this friend, because she needs you to listen to her drama....or she would not be a very happy victim. Number one thing to do is: When she starts her day time drama story, simply tell her that you understand that she is upset....but you have already given her advise that she did not take...and lets not discuss this again. Cut her off! Every time cut her off! She may find herself with little or nothing to talk about. Remind her that you like to think positive, and don't care to be around negative thoughts all the time...it brings you down. This should only have to be said once. If she is a true friend she will see the light if not she will be a victim again.