How can I get over jealousy of my girlfriend having a best friend thats a guy?
Ok. so there is like this dude that she works with. and on her myspace and everything it says he is her bestfriend and stuff. They hang out alot especially now that they work together again (they used to than the both left and now they got a job back together).....like the dude isnt a bad kid its just he says things to her on myspace comments saying I love you I will see you later boo boo....just bs like that that irrates me for some reason to like the death of me at those moments I kinda wish that kid didnt exist which is wrong for me to think that way. One day her status said in love with my secret lover (his name)....and I go pissed only because a friend came to me at work saying he saw my gfs myspace and was thinking she was cheating on me. I mean its bad when my friends are thinking she is cheating on me or something which she isnt she would never do that. The main thing is, Is how do i get over this jealousy. I love her alot and I dont want my dumb feelings messing everything up
Jealous of my best friend?!??!!!?
Okay, so I have a best friend, she is in 5th grade i am in 7th, but i skipped a grade so pretty much, im in 6th and she is in 5th. We are like BEST FRIENDS and ALWAYS hang out. So, we just got this new neighbor she is in 5th grade, and my friend was hanging out with her the night before my b-day (which is 2day =)]] and on e-mail or 2day she never called or e-mailed saying happy b-day!! >:[ because she is 2 busy hanging out with her NEW best friend!!!! and i hate our new neighbor, she thinks she is SO cool and stole my BFF!!!! how do i get over this jealousy? or learn 2 like the new neighbor, or anything?? thanks in advanced!!!
I'm jealous of my friend?
Okay well I've always been writing poems for about like 1 yr now and then we had 2 write one for English and my friend wrote one that was pretty good and now shes joining the same website as me and is putting them up! but i guess I'm also jealous because shes showing all hers to our friends and there saying how good they are but i could never show my friends mine because I'm scared of what they would think and yeah. she's also posting this stuff on FB and MSN saying stuff like i wrote blah blah blah poems 2day, like i shouldn't be jealous of my friend but i am especially because it was supposed to be my thing and its kinda pissing me off. sorry its long but any advice on how to get over this jealously or w/e?
How do I get rid of jealousy from my best friend if she is doing well in her exams than me?
I totally think being jealous is a normal human behavior. You envy your best friend, because she scored well. It suggest to me that you scored lower than her, which is the reason behind this.Frankly,it is frustrating sometimes,how one scored well or did well in exams or any spectrum of life than you, and we think we had given our best how can they do so good. It is totally fine to think all that.But,the point is ,is it good thing to do? Investing your energy on thinking about how one did well than you? I don't think so,why? Because,we all do our part to achieve something it maybe marks,some milestones or any other things,but some of us succeeded in that some of us don't.This becomes the reason for dissatisfaction, jealousy, depression.How to get rid of it? Think about how can you put this energy on something which is more fruitful. Like,in your case don't ruin your equation with your best friend and try to be competitive rather than being jealous.Competition with your self is best thing you can do, you can improve your todays performance by recognising weakness.And if you try doing this, your energy will divert into something more productive and your equation with your friends also remain fantastic.
How to stop jealousy of friends having other friends :(?
So I have two very close friends, and I consider one of them my best friend. But we were on a Skype call the other day and one of my friends acknowledged the other as "her best friend" and the other one did the same... while I was in the call. this might sound really childish to get jealous over but they so blantantly make sure that ik that they like each other more than me. i honestly had enough of it but i still love them to death and don t want to stop being friends with them?? any advice
How can I get over being jealous of my friends in relationship?
Hi! Thank you for your open honesty towards this topic, and wanting help! It takes courage to admit jealousy, and I am proud that you are seeking help before that jealousy manifests into pride or hatred. It is hard to see all your friends in happy relationships, and feel like the third wheel that is trying to not be jealous of them, yet I encourage you to stay strong and supportive for your friends. I was in the exact same boat you are in right now, but God has helped me to overcome and not become jealous of my friends that were in a relationship. God has taught me how to love my friends that were in relationships without making it feel awkward that I was the third wheel. I started to learn how to be happy in my singleness at the same time of being happy for my friends that they found love. It is a great feeling to see how happy your friends are in their relationship, and be supportive for them both, instead of being jealous because that hurts you, and your friends. I strongly want to encourage you to stay strong, and wait because it is better to wait for the one you are meant for than to jump into a relationship just because everyone else is. I will be praying that your jealous won't continue and that you are able to defeat it! One last thing, enjoy your time as a single person, because it is a gift.
How can you tell when your best friend is jealous of you?What are all the possible signs? ?
when your best friend is jealous of you, you can see that clear in his eyes, the tone of his/her voice, and in his / her reactions when you tell him/her about your success, or something good in your life.on the contrary, this person can take of you the best opportunities that could come to you in your life. i had a friend that i considered my best friend but actually she liked me only when i'm failed but when i achieved any progress in my life whether in studies or job or someone like me, she started to be very jealous she gave me bad impression about this person, try to ignore my sucess, and sometime she stayed away from me. she liked to talk only about her sucess, her best doing and ignore mine,and when i asked her a piece of advice i felt she doesn't want the good for me, sometimes she didn't tell me if someone said good things about me, try to hide all the good news or the information that could help me in my future. first i said that it's a normal feeling - that every one can fell this feeling- but step by step i asked myself why i should be with someone who hates the best for me and like my failure. someone who hates to see me happy with my boyfriend, and hates to see me achieve any progress in my practical life so, i decided to stop this unbalance relation because no one can give without taking especially in the friendship , you need someone who care about you, who likes the best for you and meanwhile you give him / her the same feeling .if you don't have the same reaction between you and your best friend,you have to evaluate this relation and don't waste your time and feeling with someone who doesn't deserve them.with your best friend you aren't in a competition -who is the best -
How can get over jealousy because my girlfriend has all guy friends?
It is completely natural for you to have feelings of jealousy if she spends most of her time around male friends. Though she may be completely trust worthy you may still feel suspicious which may in turn pout you into a bad mood (which you will project onto her.) One of the first things you need to do is sit down with her and tell her exactly how you feel. Don't tell her that you don't want her having male friends because you would be unfairly limiting her, just explain to her how you feel. The next step is a big one, you need to work on slowly trusting her more and more. Jealousy arises because you do not know for certain that she will remain faithful. The biggest part of a relationship besides love, is trust, without it you cannot hope to have a successful relationship. You will constantly be at war with yourself because you are not sure whether she can be trusted. While it is hard, remember that you cannot limit her friends but you should not bottle up your emotions, do not make her feel as if she has done something wrong, but also let her know that you don't want her to ignore your feelings about it. You need to work on your trust with each other and soon enough these problems will fade away, allowing you two to become completely at home with one another. Good luck :)
I am jealous of my beautiful friend that gets a lot of attention. What should I do to stop feeling this way?
First of all, you are allowed to feel your feelings but don’t let them rule, run, nor destroy your life or your friendship. To stop this, feel and be grateful about who you are and what you have. Yes even if what you have seems little and who you are seems not so great at the time. Looks do fade, character is forever, personality is forever, talent is forever, love and kindness can be forever also. You are unique in yourself and what you can offer that your friend may not, both of you are unique and special in your own way. You might look at models a lot of them in the recent years, many are not classically beautiful but they are models. So why not create buzz in yourself and around your talents. Are there talents you have that your friend does not? Can you dye your hair a funky color or start wearing a style that makes you stand out in a unique way next to your friend. Try to get some attention for yourself but do it in a classy way and don’t compete but rather highlight your best attributes. Have you thought that perhaps your friend might be a little tired of all the attention also? Would you really want to be bothered every time you go out to the store or to get gas in your car or to make a run for ice cream because you are so beautiful people stop you wherever you go. This is why famous people have body guards and can’t really do anything or go anywhere, like a normal person is able to do. You rather loose your freedom with some of that beauty plus there are bad sides to beauty that you might not think of. One of those being jealously, envy, and people not ever taking you seriously if you are too pretty. Men treating you like an object, possibly. Employers questioning your skill set because they see that there may be a problem with hiring overly attractive in certain jobs. You are more relatable to the majority of people when you don’t stick out like a sore thumb. So, pretty people still have problems just like everyone else. Just be yourself and don’t be too worried about all the attention your friend gets.
Is it normal to be jealous of my best friend?? HELP?
it's totally normal! i'm the same exact way. i get sososo unneccessarily jealous when she's hanging out with another friend. especially if she didn't invite me. (which usually doesn't ever happen, but it has once or twice) this is what i do.. when you get all jealous take a deap breathe and think to yourself she's your best friend she's never gonna leave you or love any other friend more than she loves you. and if she does, then she's not a true best friend. just keep reminding yourself that there's nothing to be jealous of because she chose you to be her best friend. i know it's hard sometimes, but just try :)