How do I get over this stress in high school?
I'm in high school right now, but there's so much pressure. My parents expect me to get a 4.0 and stuff, but I have AP classes (college lvl courses taught to high school students), plus clubs and sports. I'm trying the best I am, but there were times where I went kinda crazy. I was easily angered and yelled at people whenever they talk to me. I have 2 weeks to pull up my grade by 5%, and there's this mid-term exam that could screw me up. I can't handle the stress anymore. My parents are depressed and saying that I'll never go to a good university with my current GPA(3.7). I've tried head-shotting the teachers I hate in shooting games where I name the characters and I've tried to relax and play sports, but nothing helps with the stress. What do I do?
How do I get over a high school crush?
I believe others have given some good advices.but from your question I think you already think it's not going to work out,and what you're looking for is a way out of the feelings you have for her.well,many believe humans are instinctive emotional creatures that at best can only forget how they felt for someone and that it's unavoidable to continue your life without having some emotional scars left.but I think not, and i find it far from truth. in my opinion if you're still unable to get over her,there might be some reasons for that,and you should ask yourself a few questions in order to resolve them.first of all, I think we can't let go of our crushes,because we have seen positive qualities in them that we haven't seen in others. why? putting aside the fact that each person is unique, i believe when we fall for someone,we stop looking at other people and start seeing more and more positive qualities in our crush, and that's when she becomes a temple for you,she becomes so good that in your head you logically reach the conclusion that no matter how hard it's gonna be and how long it's gonna take, she's gonna be the only one that's worth trying for.you are convinced that she's the only one you can ever find what you are looking for in.but the only base that you can build a relationship you'll want with all your heart on, is one that both sides want each other and are willing to know each other deeper and deeper. so, If yo know that she's not gonna love you back,and you see some truth in what i said, then i suggest something;start observing other girls' behaviors.how they act,how they look,try to watch that and you'll see that many things you considered unique about your crush,are not as unique as you thought,and that way,the temple you have made from her,would start to crumble ,and you'll see that although you liked her, but if she's not loving you back,then you can let go and go on,for now you see that there can be other chances of happiness for you,to find someone you will love,and she will love you back too, and that only such a relationship is worth trying for and suffer for and be patient for. hope I could help in a small way.if you want to ask any questions,just comment, I'll be just glad to answer.
How do I get over missing out on high school?
Do steroids so you get the acne, drink a bunch and make some really bad decisions and bring a stranger home, do some shrooms, hang out with a bunch of queen bee type girls so you get the stuck up “I’m better than you” type bullying. Send a bunch of naked pictures to people. Do everything you can in your power to dissapoint your parents… Yeah, I did none of these in high school. But I know several who did lmao. (high school kind of summed up.)If you were homeschooled and have an education, well, that’s awesome. You did miss out on social situations but some things you’re better off not knowing. ( I went to school with a star from 16 and pregnant for an example) If you didn’t get an education (diploma or GED) it’s really never too late. I have inmates who are getting their GED at 50.You want a more relaxed ‘high school experience’? Go to college. Much better time, way better people.
How do I get over bad high school memories?
See the main part to get over anything is to face it even how horrible is to face but you must do it . Once you are ready to face anything you will be ready to have that i dont care feeling and believe me that is the best part . I know that is very very difficult but if you cant reach that stage you wont forget the memories . Like you have to practice that thing for example when you get one you say i dont care! And thats how you move on..Best of luck :)
How to get over high school bullying?
I graduated high school 2 years ago and I still have psychological problems from all the bullying I received in high school. I'm a male who was constantly being picked on by girls for being ugly. Which was weird because I look in the mirror and see a average looking guy. Anyways It really screws with my social anxiety. I can't talk to girls my age because I assume there going to insult me. I can't work on group college projects with girls my age because I think there going to call me ugly. I can't ask any girl out on a date because I think they all hate me. I Know these feelings are irrational but It's how I feel. I just don't get it? Why do girls hate me so much? I know I don't look like Ryan Reynolds but I didn't think I was ugly. Every day I hear someone calling me ugly in my head and it's making me depressed. Is there any advice someone could give me? Thanks
How to get over regrets about high school?
Right now think about what you are doing in your life. Are you distancing yourself from living in the moment and consider what you will regret about this time you are thinking about high school. You only get the present and the future is not guaranteed and the past is gone. Think about you today and what you might regret when you are thirty if only you had done it today. We spend way too much time out of the now . I do this and should not speak for others. You can become a high school teacher or counselor. That is a way to remain in touch with this age group , attend proms , be involved in high school your entire life. Your twenties are when you are getting your career going and usually dating so you have these years to decide a direction and who you want to be. It is a wonderful time and no unlike high school . Join clubs in college, join civic groups, volunteer. All of this is about being engaged in life. Good luck.
How do you get over a High School break - up?
Take it as it comes. Don't jump in with every answer to every questions. Things might change. And you are in high school. Relax. You dated for two months. I'm sure you liked each other but you'll get over it. Hang out with some friends, get your mind off of it. When I think about the relationships I had in high school, I realize how much I over-estimated them. There will be other boys. And it'll only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just be kind, don't treat him like you hate him. But if you do hate him, which it sounds like you don't, then distance yourself. Don't let him in your life, it's not worth it. Just be kind. How do you not get jealous? Don't look at his myspace. Just don't let yourself look. Or remember that you did that, and you know what it's like and you weren't happy... so rationalize it. If you talk to your guy friends, does it seem slutty? God I hope not. Having guy friends isn't slutty. If it is, then some people have some seriously big problems. Just do what you are comfortable with and what you think is right.
How do you get over a high school crush?
This is always a hard thing as your highschool crush will always be a what if question. I think if he hasn't responded to your feelings he is probably just trying to be nice to you by not saying he isn't as into you as you are to him. Just be cool with him and do hang out with him this summer...maybe just do a group thing as he might feel uncomfortable being alone with you. He probably thinks the same as you...that you will both be going in different directions and that it would be easier to not start something now as it could hurt when you leave. Just go slow with him but definitely hang out with him this summer, you never know you could stay in touch with him cause if you think about it it would be better to have him as a friend than nothing at all....right?!?
Ways to Get Over High School Drama?
I can not forgive an old friend. When we would fight and she usually would not let me defend myself. She'd find ways to leave or end the argument once I would begin to point out her wrongs. Anyway, if I ever complained about her being a b*tch to me my sister would say, "you should not be mad at her, you know how badly sleeping with the guy she liked hurt her." She'd tell me to apologize. I would feel guilty and put up with her B.S. Since I never truly got a chance to defend myself, I am still angry. It has been almost 6 months since I have seen her but I get pissed all over again. I think of all the crap I endured from her and she does not even want to talk to me anymore. This is the core of why I am still angry. What should I do maturely?
How do I get over social anxiety in high school?
I think that shyness, social anxiety and lack of self-confidence often caused by underlying fears.Below is my little essay on overcoming fears. I wish you the best.Back when the human personality was being formed on the African veldt, taking a risk meant risking your life. Go check out what's on the other side of the river, You might be someone else's dinner. Stay out late in the day to try to catch another antelope, it gets dark, you don't make it home.Human beings are hardwired to avoid risk, and the mere thought of risk creates primal fear.These days, we still tend to have the primal fear reaction when presented with risk, even though our lives are not at stake. More often than not, our fears are meaningless and useless.I think by and large most peoples’ lives are dominated by fear, caution, and being comfortable. Unfortunately, the best lives, the most exciting lives, the lives worth living are the ones where a person surmounts their fear, sets aside caution and quits caring about being safe and comfortable.Fear and shyness cannot hurt you by themselves. Fear is a feeling. It is a message from deep in your brain trying to keep you safe. Safe from a saber tooth tiger maybe, or a caveman with a club.Fear is VERY RARELY useful anymore. Unless you are walking on a high cliff or facing a guy with a gun, fear is useless.It is uncomfortable to feel fear. We think it means something. We treat it like it is important. We need to start treating fear and shyness like the obsolete, antiquated feelings that they are.The only way to make the fear messages quiet down is to ignore them. And the only way to ignore them is to set a goal, feel the fear, and complete the goal.COMPLETE THE GOAL. NO MATTER HOW IT FEELS, COMPLETE THE GOAL.I wish I had a pill for this, but the only solution is TO COMPLETE THE GOAL.