How do I get over a bad heartbreak and seeing that person daily at the workplace getting involved with another coworker?
How to?Very easy. Or maybe not. But certainly not impossible.There is one solid reason to get over this particular situation if you rethink again and again:-He did not choose you. He is fine to see you go through the entire episode of their chemistry and HE CHOSE SOMEONE ELSE.We tend to feel sad because we never imagined our loved ones with someone else. But start doing so.Speaking from personal experience, when i came across a similar situation, I had a moment of clarity. This was extremely needed.Suppose you forever thought of your ex lover as a great man/woman and felt sad that it ended so badly. Then you would’ve lamented over the same topic over and over again and it’s better to end up in a mental asylum than this. So for starters you can:Thank your stars that you were able to witness the bitter truth of life.You’re obviously special so you got rid of a parasite. No offence.Do some shitload of experiments with yourself and see yourself land on an extraordinary place like never before.You’re good looking. Trust me you are. And you can do a lot with those looks than just keeping it limited to camera selfies.You obviously have a fantastically working mind which basically gives you a lot of time to think about those unwanted people. Use it wisely.Lastly and most importantly, don’t forget to write about your journey on Quora. :)
Why do men tend to write/sing very kind love songs whereas ladies tend to sing very negatively about men? ?
Good observation. You don't suppose its something to do with pop music being influence by 40 years of: "I believe that women are the more spiritually advanced sex" Erica Jong, Washington Post, December 6, 1992 "God knows how many women already have no use for their men, who are all too often idle and incompetent both as wage-earners and around the house, uninterested in the children and hopeless in bed" Germaine Greer, Independent (London), Dec 8, 2001. "All men are rapists and that's all they are" - Words of the feminist character Val in Marilyn French's (1977) novel 'The Women's Room'. These words encapsulate similar sentiments expressed by many influential feminists e.g. the following quote... "Intercourse is the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women" Andrea Dworkin (1987) http://faculty.uccb.ns.ca/sstewart/sexlove/dworkin.htm "Men are the enemies of women" – Professor Ann Oakley (1984) in 'Taking It Like a Woman'. “If life is to survive on this planet, there must be a decontamination of the Earth. ... a drastic reduction of the population of males" - Professor Mary Daly, from a 2001 interview with What Is Enlightenment magazine [referencing] Mary Daly, Quintessence...Realizing the Archaic Future: A Radical Elemental Feminist Manifesto, Beacon Press, 1998. Beautiful lyrics, eh? No surprise there is so much proud misandry in lyrics today.