Should I give up on the girl of my dreams?
We're both sophomores in college and I used to hang out with her like 3 or 4 times a week for 2 months. We flirted all the time like crazy but I never could get the courage to kiss her. About a month ago we talked about dating but she did not want to because she said that we fought to much and the fact that she had a bf last year and wanted to be single in college for awhile. So after that talk, we obviously grew apart a little bit and did not hang out as much. One Friday she calls me up and wants to hang but I tell her no and then she tells me how she could not wait to see me that night. When she gets to my party she shows up with some dude and starts making out with him and just eyes me down right afterward. I find out the next day from her roommate that she brought him over to make me mad. We both said some things to each other that night that we should not have but we have moved on and at least talking now. She still calls me up and wants to chill but I am reluctant because of the fact I know she is hanging out with the guy she brought to my house. It sucks because she is one of my best friends here and I will always have feelings with her. She even told me that I would be the first person she came to for held and trusts me completely. My questions are: If she does not have feeling for me why would she want to make me mad? Why can she not go a week without talking to me? She knows I like her a lot and I know I am in the friendzone with her but do you think their is anyway I can get out of it? I know need to back off and let her be with as many guys as she wants but I wanna keep chasing her cause I care about her so much. Since the first night I met her I knew I would not stop going after her until she was mine. I am going to have fun and meet other girls while she is meeting other guys but still everytime I hang out with her I am going to try and put moves on her. Do you think this is a lost cause or should I keep chasing the girl of my dreams?
Will I get the girl of my dreams?
So far I got everything I have but still I feel unhappy and the reason why is because I need to be in a relationship to be happy as I was as a little kid and the girl I really wanted only in my dream is a girl who is loving, kind, beautiful, smart, and funny, a girl who likes hollisters, a girl who likes video games, a girl who likes soccer, swimming, baseball, and running, a girl who is either 20 or younger but not too young, a girl who is Catholic, a girl who is white, a girl who has brunette hair, blue or black eyes, who has cute lips, beautiful eyes, a wonderful body and more importantly who likes me for who I am but that's in dream but in reality it doesn't come true, so what must I do to find the right girl for me to love and grow a long time?
How to get the girl of your dreams?
I'm sorry, but basically 'man up and go for her' is the only solution that has any hope of getting the result you want (getting the girl). Girls, especially teenage girls, like guys with confidence, and have been culturally conditioned to expect a guy to make the opening moves. If you think waiting around, hoping that she's going to come to the realization that you're a wonderful guy, and just throw herself into your arms is going to work, then you're going to feel the pang of unrequited love yet again when some other guy comes in and sweeps her off her feet. To get what you want in this world, you have to be proactive. Ask her out. She may say no, she may say yes. But if you let her slip through your fingers without trying, then you're going to regret it the rest of your life. Believe me, I know that the possibility of rejection is terrifying, but without any risk, there can't be any reward. I spent the better part of my teenage years too terrified to ask out the girl whom I was madly in love with, and I have regretted it every day since we graduated, and I never saw her again. Trust me, you don't want to live with that. If she says no, so what? There will be other girls. You just got to play the numbers, keep asking girls out, and eventually one's going to say yes.
How do I find my dream girl?
Socialise yourself. The more you know people the more probability to get a girl which you dream of. There is someone for you just that you need to meet her someday. Go hunting, and when you find one there will be another long journey. Just remember live your life your chances of getting a girl of your dreams will be more if you live a life to fullest because a girl wants to be with a man who has a life in which she can enjoy and be part of not a life of a dreamer who just waits and does nothing to get what he wants to achieve.Good luck.
Will I ever have the girl of my dreams?
Don't give up on finding the girl of your dreams.This girl might not be right for you, but someone else might be.Make sure you respect her and don't pressure her into anything.A lot of girls like men who are focused on their careers. Do whatever you feel is right and don't forget to have a little fun and just go with the flow.Be confident and don't worry so much about being in a relationship. Once the worry goes away and you focus on what really matters to you, things will fall into place and who know who might come into your heart.Never give up and just be yourself. Don't change for anyone.
How to get the girl of my dreams to notice me?
there is this girl that goes to my school (highschool) and i have a couple of classes with her. SHE IS BEAUTIFUL! possible one of the prettiest girls ive ever seen. she doesnt even notice me, literally she never talks to me, or even looks my way! i dont wanna seem wierd by staring at her o anything, so i just try to play it off, but on the inside i jut want her to notice me so bad, i want to talk to her, and develope a friendship with her.and the worst part about this situation, is she seems to love my best friend! whenever my best friend is standing somewhere she'll approach him and say something like " hey", or "Watchu doin over her", and although ive never said it to him, im getting extremely jealous, and angry with him. i think she likes him! but if she starts relationship with him, I WONT BE ABLE TO TAKE IT! WHY DOESNT SHE NOTICE/ TALK TO ME?!!!! HOW DO I GET THE GIRL!!!!!!!
MEN: What is it like to lose the girl of your dreams?
I woke up from that nightmare and found another one. I married the new girl and have not looked back since. She's the real girl of my dreams. Only a DOLT would brood over love lost. I was a 21 year old and figured out she was a worthless piece of toilet paper. I only think about her when I'm taking a dump and think about how much better I feel having that loaf away from me.