Getting through a hard time in my life?
I'm 20 years old and am going through a really hard time in life right now and cant really figure out what to do about it. It all started last year my girlfriend of 4 years left and i still haven't been able to get over her at all. I haven't even had a single date since then and I'm starting to think ill never find love because I don't think anyone will ever want me. Second I don't really have any friends at the moment in my life and am having a hard time finding friends. I'm a social person but don't seem to fit in anywhere I've looked, people like me i just don't belong anywhere. I really don't know what to do with my life, I'm in college but I think I'm only sticking with my major is because I don't really have any interest or talent in anything and couldn't know where to move to. I'm unemployed without a car right now and that doesn't help much either. I'm starting to get really depressed and just not wanting to wake up anymore, I just don't see a reason. I visited a therapist just to find out I don't have clinical depression and there wasn't anything they could do to help.
Does everyone go through hard times in life?
Omg, yes. EVERYONE has hard times. I'm currently in remission from that lovely "C" word - cancer, although the chemo I had will effect my body until the day I die. I grew up dirt floor poor (literally), and a minority and am still fighting stereotypes to this day. I've lost five very important people in my life from cancer, a drunk driver and a simple accident. I was once homeless - seriously, I lived in a rented pop-up camper. I had to scrimp and save and work for everything I have ever had and have to this day. Good thing I'm a fighter... Some things you just can't hide. You are probably more emotionally sound because you don't bottle it in like those "other" people. You shouldn't be embarrassed, you should be commended. Good for you being so open, that is a very respectable trait that many people lack.
Why do people go through hard times?
Nobody’s willing to give up comfort now for greatness later. Everything in life has to be cheap, fast and easy.Cheap, fast, easy.Nothing worth having comes easy.Nothing worth having comes fast.Nothing worth having comes cheap.If you’re not willing to walk, you’ll never run a marathon.If you’re not willing to write, you’ll never publish a book.If you’re not willing to sit on the floor, you’ll never have an office.If you’re not willing to cook, you’ll never eat healthily.If you’re not willing to get up, you’ll never make your dreams a reality.If you’re not willing to go to the gym, you’ll never be fit.If you’re not willing to turn off the TV, you’ll never read.If you’re not willing to go on an actual date, you’ll never find love.If you’re not willing to press publish, you’ll never know if you’re any good.If you’re not willing to show yourself on camera, you’ll never become a Youtuber.If you’re not willing to wear old shoes, you’ll never have new ones.If you’re not willing to practice the piano, you’ll never give a concert.If you’re not willing to save money, you’ll never have peace of mind.If you’re not willing to travel, you’ll never go places.If you’re not willing to invest, you’ll never be rich.If you’re not willing to work, you’ll never make money the way you want to
I am going through some hard times, and I don't know what to do. Who can help me?
Tough times are the moments in your life that will not only test your mettle, it will help you evolve and grow to become a better, stronger and much more rounded individual.As far as “I don’t know what to do” - believe me when I say this - You DO know what to do. Because there is no one else on the planet who can adjust, adapt and understand your situation better than you. It is all about you digging deep down to find the answers.Whenever you feel you do not know what to do - do this:Take a notebook and penGo to your room where you sleepMake sure it is quiet and that there is no one to distrub youTake a nap or meditation for 15 mins. Do not exceed beyond the 30 minutes markAs you are going to do sleep or meditate, remind yourself what the problem is or ask yourself what the question isStating this or visualizing it - go off to sleep (or meditate)Once you wake up, open your note book and write down all the thoughts that come to your mind - even if they make sense or don’t make sense - just keep noting them down.Once you completed all the things to do - you have a list of things to do that your mind has suggested to you.From here - decide what you should do next.Finally, The question WHO CAN HELP ME? there is one and only person who can help you - and that person is YOU. Only YOU can help YOURSELF. Don’t depend on anyone and do not expect anyone to help you. Because when you help yourself - that is where the results will come in and manifest itself.Keep this in mind - NO ONE cares when you are down and out. And that is when you have to show the world what you are made up off. So go out there and take charge of your life.Loy Machedo
What is a good country song about going through hard times in life but getting through it?
Craig Morgan- This Ain't Nothin' (beautiful song imo) Rascal Flatts- Stand Lady Antebellum- One Day You Will Rodney Atkins- If You're Going Through Hell Taylor Swift- Change
How do christians enjoy life through hard times?
Prayer. Family and friends to fall back on. I'm going through a time when I don't have many friends, and it's a real struggle for me. I'm quiet and shy, and I'm a little socially awkward--I don't make friends very well. I've been really depressed lately. To get through it, I've prayed to God a lot. I found a few people (my family, my boyfriend, a couple people I was friends with) to help get my mind off of it. I'm not sure what you're going through (if you're going through anything), but keep going! You'll get through it. That's another thing that helps me: hope. Faith. Trust in the Lord that he'll help me. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
Why does God allow us to go through hard times?
Haven't you heard the saying, "that which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger". It strengthens us immensely. It causes us to humble ourselves in prayer and seek his guidance.