How to get my boyfriend to stop being a jerk?
I would say his behavior is based on his lack of desire for you, and is trying to get you to break up with him. Some guys will basically b***h about every little thing until it drives their woman crazy so she dumps him, leaving her to do the dirty work of separating you guys. He's too much of a coward to break it off himself, so he's trying to get you to do it for him. I don't see this as any sort of constructive criticism, or character building for you, so i would get rid of him before you go nuts. Now if you honestly truly love him and don't want to lose him, I'd recommend trying to give him a dose of his own medicine. Get him to cook, clean, whatever he doesn't see fit, or just b***h about everything until he does it, then when he's crazy tell him you'll stop if he stops. Definitely unorthodox, and I don't know if it would work, but if he truly cares for you he'll see the error in his ways and stop and make it up to you.
Wy are my parents such jerks???
So the past months my parents mostly my mom have been complete jerks like my mom has always got a negative comment my dad just ignores me when i talk to him and so does my mom they get pissed when i stay in my room and play video games and when i dont they just watch tv and dont say **** and and my mom always says im being rude and myolder brother in his twentys still lives at home and brings friends over when ever the **** he want and i cant even ******* have a friend stay the night but any ways my teacher emailed my mom to let her know i needed to turn something in and ive been doing good and my mom takes it way too serious and grounds me over the phone and ruins my whole school day which i dont like school anyways and when my mom gets home i try to ask why is she grounding me and she wouldnt answer she just ingnored me for a minute or too then she comes up with some fake exscuse "your attitude" how the **** did she get that i only talk to her on in the morning and when shes home she watches gay ******* shows she cares more about those then me i sware and then she wouldnt even let me go outside to shoot basketball by myself and she ignores me all night and my dad thinks he knows what hes doing by threatning with a belt and im 16 years of age and im just ******* pissed and i got no other way of taking my anger out excelt for this so someone explain to me why are my parents assholes???
Should I become a jerk, to get a girl friend.?
NO!! Being a jerk is a major turn off. Try not being too nice and weak, but don't be too aggressive to where girls don't want to be around you. Good luck.
How do I change my reputation of being a jerk to being nice, when I've worked at a place for 5 months?
Change your self first and your reputation will follow. There is absolutely no shortcut to this problem. It will require patience, persistence and gratitude. Gratitude, I say? Yes, because the jerks I’ve known have NO appreciation for the people around them. It is all about them. They might even be likely to be more concerned about their reputation than how their behavior and their attitude affects it. Spot these tendencies in yourself and change the things you know you can change. It may not be a quick fix but it also won’t be long before you notice people appreciating it if you are diligent. It may be well to begin by practicing kindness on people outside of work so that you are more rehearsed in it when you get to work. Good luck!original question: How do I change my reputation of being a jerk to being nice, when I've worked at a place for 5 months?
Why do women want the nice guy, but date the jerk?
Just look at the link below: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap_FQDku21ayIESJBFHxr67sy6IX?qid=20070705101227AASnQsp So why is it that most guys like me can't get dates? (without them cheating with the jerk)
How come only jerks hit on me?
I'm 18 and I'm a virgin and I'm the 'good girl'. I'm smart, have never done drugs or been drunk, I'm attractive, etc. The only guys that have been interested in me were shallow jerks that just wanted to have sex with me and viewed me as a sex object because of my body. I HATE that ****. I don't meet people off the internet but I put an ad on a dating website out of curiosity and a bunch of smart, nerdy, and nice guys responded to me. They were guys that were majoring in pre-med at the university nearby to become a doctor, geeks that read classic novels, future engineers, and just the really cute innocent nerdy guys that I actually WANT to date! I want a guy like that so badly. How come in person jerks hit on me but on the internet geeks want me?
Why Do Atheists Seem Like Jerks 98% of the Time?
Don't get me wrong, its not like I outright hate anyone who's an atheist. I know many people who are close friends and good people who are Atheists. However, why is it that I fine the bottom rung of Atheists, the scum that put bad names on them, trolling around the Religion & Spirituality part of Yahoo! Answers? Or anywhere in general? It seems like any time I try asking a question that even mentions God or has to do with God I automatically attract at least 5 guys who either insult me, completely ignore my question and just say something like "God doesn't exist", etc. etc. All around they act...jerky. I mean I really don't care what your belief is, if your a Catholic, fine by me. An Atheist? Fine by me. Just don't go right out and insult me because of my beliefs. So I ask you, why do Atheists act like this? Why do they find the need to insult people on their beliefs even if other people tolerate theirs (I mean they do realize in olden days they would have been burnt at the stake or something, right?)?
I’ve known very smart people who come across as jerks but are really just awkward & insecure who try to cover it up. Do you think this could have been Steve Jobs’s issue as well?
The problem is that people are complex, and behave differently with different people in different situations at different stages in their lives.You can say that Steve Jobs was a jerk, or that he was kind, or anything else, depending on who you were, and the time in Steve Jobs’ life. In each case, you would most likely be correct for that particular interaction at that time, but no single picture captures the complexity of the individual.This is not just true of Steve Jobs’ but of every individual. A normal person who is not a sociopath is capable of self-reflection, will usually think “I wish I treated that person better, and had more patience”, or “Gosh, how could I have been such a jerk; I really feel awful about that” or “I handled that situation well, and even though I have not talked about it, I did the right thing”.The general picture I get of Steve Jobs is that he was frequently an arrogant jerk in his younger years, but that he became more moderate and tried to be more thoughtful and compassionate as he got older. Most people are this way.I have read a few excerpts from Lisa Jobs’ book Small Fry, and when Lisa was young, he said some things which were truly hurtful. As he got older, fell ill, and came closer to death, he tried to be a better father. I interpret this as his way of saying “I’m sorry for some things I did and said, and want to leave you with better memories of me.” Of course, the media is only interested in the terrible things he said in when he was younger.My interpretation is that it is too easy to isolate terrible things he said in his youth, and we should not judge anyone.No one is qualified to judge others.