How to tell my friend she's rude?
when she is rude, tell her to stfu..simple right?
How do I tell my friend she s being rude?
Ok so My friend Sends me long Paragraphs Everyday About her Crush, I d always try to reply with long paragraphs aswell but when I need her advice , or help she Just says "O" or "Ok" or "Yeah" and so now every time she texts me I say the same thing or ignore her I still wanna be her friend but she s starting to annoy me , she never let s me talk unless its about her problem and its really really ANNOYING.. I don t wanna get her mad but she s making me mad ... How should I tell her she s being extremely RUDE.? Please Help me All recponces will be read :)
How do I tell my friend how rude she is being?
Ok, I have a best friend named Kate and lately she is being SUPER RUDE to me, and I didn't do anything. Ok, to start off, we both made a pact to stick together when we join the field hockey team. Like we would be partners and sit together and stuff. Now whenever we have practices, she'll like point out what I have to do and she tells me all these obvious things that I ALREADY know! She treats me like a piece of crap that's stupider than anything when I know how everything goes. She only has one more day of practice than me since I handed in my physical one day later. And she makes it out like she is an expert when she didn't play field hockey ever. Second, she keeps on preaching how high school is all about meeting new people and I agree. But she took it too far today at a pep rally today and she was standing behind these two extremely snobby girls that would talk behind Kate's back in a snap. Then i asked katrina where we should sit and she said she cant just "sit with me" and she motioned to the girls? And im like WTF cant you see they arent your friends just cause we play on the same team? And we only joined this week and she makes it like shes bffs with them. then during the whole pep rally she barely talked to me and sat with her other friends. A whole bleached down and to the right. So what do I tell her? Not to ditch a friend when you have no right to? I mean no offense everyone talks behind her back and Im nice enough to hang with her and never say anything about her but now shes making me. what do i do? plz help we have a practice tomorrow morning and i dont want a fight i just want her to stop =(
How to tell my friend she's mean to me?
there comes a time in a relationship or friendship when u have to let the person go. most of ur friends will not be there to the end. sit with her and tell u you dont like how's she is acting towards u and especially disparaging you in front of others is not acceptable. if she doesnt change then there are plenty of people you will meet in life who will treat you with respect. it will be hard especially if she is very dear to ur heart but u can either **** there and be miserable or move on. u seem like a genuine, likeable person and i'm sure u willbe ok finding real friends.
How do I tell my mom that she is being rude?
Mom needs to do some maturing. It's possible she doesn't realize she's rude - after all, if this has been going on for 20 years, and no one's said anything (gee, because of HER feelings) then she may not be aware that there's a problem. Now that you and your husband are expecting (congratulations!), you need to sit with her, perhaps in a neutral place like a restaurant, or even a bench at a park (better, if she tends to the melodramatic), and tell her that while you love her lots, now that you are starting a family of your own, you need her to be a good role model to your child(ren), and to ease up (if she just can't go 'cold turkey') on the comments. Sometimes people tend to speak, not realizing how their words affect others. If she does have an issue with this, then you're going to have to be the grown-up, telling her in no uncertain terms that she needs to stop the comments NOW because it makes you uncomfortable and bothers you. If everything revolves around her, she might need to hear that her comments make her look petty, which might be the catalyst for her to alter her behavior, so she will still be the center of (her) attention, but for the right reasons. Don't threaten to keep her away from the baby, that will just make things worse.
How do I tell to my bestfriend that she is hurting me with her rude behavior towards me?
In my humble opinion, she is not your bestfriend if you have had to post this on Quora.A bestfriend is usually a person that is not blood-related but relates to you as if you were family.The reason family is separate from strangers is because we don't have to fully conform to the societal norms of communication. Which limit us from expressing ourselves.For example: Heartlessly wishing good morning to avoid awkwardness at work versus stumbling out of bed and burping in front of momIt seems like you are in a situation where because you care about this person, you don't want to confront her about your feelings. While this is nice of you, it is not what you should do if you want a healthy relationship with another human.Being honest is the way to talk.So to not corrupt how genuinely you tell her what you need to regarding her rudeness, I will advise you just one simple thing:Be honest.
How do I deal with a friend who is rude to me?
I think that many people unintentionally come across as being rude, it is a defence mechanism, maybe your needs as suggested in other posts, a little reminder, that they are being rude, but never lower yourself with being rude too, an argument could come about, so be polite and try to be understanding, approach the person and ask if there is an issue or something you said or did that has made them hostile and disrespectful towards you, if that is not the case and you have approached it objectively, then you have to ask yourself, if this friend is indeed a friend. Take a break and put a little distance between yourselfs, do not be at their beck and call, or give them the brush off a few times that you have plans or family commitments, maybe they will approach you and ask you what is wrong and then state your case, that you are not putting up with the rudeness, that you want to be treated with respect, isn't that what friendship is all about, not making someone feel awful, as I am sure you do, you deserve to be spoken to in a civil manner, and if this friend doesn't understand that then I think that it will not work long term, if your passive and not stand up for yourself, despite your good intentions in the friendship, then it really is not a friendship.
Was my friend rude to me?
Are you paying for the room? If so, I think you may have a problem. If you aren't "good enough" to be introduced to this dear friend, but "good enough" to pay for the room then prepare yourself to spend this trip alone as those two go off together. It is something I suggest you deal with before the trip. Either invite the two over for tea at your place and secure your position as part of the group, or just return any gifts you've bought and cut your losses now.It may actually end well, but your instincts are telling you something. Listen.
I dont know how to tell my friend to stop being rude?
Tell her "I really don't want to be friends with a person who teases be about my acne and stuff. You probably don't mean it but it's just... harsh.. well to me. Also I don't like how you call me a b**** and a wh***. I'm really sorry but I really do want to be your friend it's just that it hurts... you probably won't understand but that's ok. The thing is your making me mad with just everything. I really really really do want to be your friend but I really hope you stop. I'm sorry if I sound like i'm being rude though I hope we can still be friends?" Edit: Something more rude jsut a bit more "Okay look, I hate it how you tease me and stuff you may think it's funny, but not to me. I really hope you stop and if you don't then you jsut don't, but I can really do without a friend like you. I don't need anyone who teases me and etc. Your not worth it. Your mean and harsh it's jsut the truth but maybe you can change and I really hope you do or else I don't wnat to be friends with you anymroe I can't take it. I'm sorry if this makes you feel horrible but this is how I always feel. You wouldn't understand because I never tease you do I? I don't think so. Thing is I hate how your so harsh towards me and sarcastic it actually hurts if you know what I mean, but I want to be your friend and if you keep doing this to me, it's really not worth it"
How to handle rude "friends"?
I have 2 people that used to (up until now) be my best friends. One of them will only call me lately when it seems she needs something or has no one else to do anything with,she still says to people i'm one of her best friends. How? The other one always calls me and wants to do stuff but not when she is with my other "friend". She calls me every night to say how much she doesn't like her. This is very confusing. College is now done for the summer and my one friend who normally still hangs out with me came home to visit. I called her to see if she wanted to do something and she said she was with my other friend and they didn't even invite me along. We used to all be friends and I understand people grow apart but I feel like I'm being ganged up on. To my knowledge I haven't done anything wrong to either of these girls or made them mad. How should I handle these very rude suppossed "friends"