Im scared of popular people at my school!?
Well, one little thing, THEY'RE HUMAN BEINGS. LIKE YOU. There's nothing wrong with them just because they're "popular". Don't be scared of them! Heck, if they diss you or be mean to you in any way, just tell them this, "Look, I did'nt choose to do this with you guys to be friends, I chose to do this so I could get a good grade. I'm not concerned whether you like me or not, I'm concerned about my school work. Ok? So if you don't like me, whatever. If you do, great! But this is Schoolwork, not drama." Ok? Don't be scared of them, if they get physical, get there asses suspended. Alright?
How do you make people fear you in school?
If you mean respected, I’ll give you some tips, first of all, don’t go along with jokes, don’t talk too much, always keep things that don’t need to be said to yourself, reduce your interaction with those who you don’t know. It will soon start taking the effect in which people won’t really have the gut to joke around with you or even bother you. Also try to sound sophisticated but not like a know it all. But I doubt you want people to fear you in school, it’s not good to be the person everybody fears, you’ll become an outcast and that will lead you towards a dark path. Be yourself, be serious but not too serious.
I'm scared people will bully me in the new school year, what should I do?
Do you have experience with this in the past? If so analyze this experience and then start building protection.Keep friends close- alert school administrators- there are a whole host of ways to protect yourself- hard to be specific without more details.Speak to your family if they’re potential supports and allow them to guide you. Join some groups at school where you can make new friends in a smaller environment.Learn some relaxation techniques- fear has a way of growing if it isn’t somehow managed and balanced.Exercise like you never have before. Before one of my first jobs I used to run for 5 miles a day to calm myself. It worked. Work out- take a class in self- defense.If you feel you may have an anxiety disorder- speak to a professional although they will likely try some other ideas as above before trying meds.Good luck
How can I not be scared about people looking at me at school because I’m on crutches?
I sympathize and have personal experience being teased in school.I know school is hard on kids who are different in any way. Expect to be teased and called names for a while, and expect someone to move your crutches and play take away or hide and seek. I’d prepare for this by asking your favorite teacher what you should do if problems arise. If you don’t want to talk to a teacher, ask your parent to call your school’s vice-principal for advice.I think the best way to deal with this is by being prepared to be teased and noticed and recognize that the reason is kids can be nasty and their words, although they may hurt for a while, will mostly be forgotten by them and by you.About 15 years ago I had problems walking and was worried about how my coworkers would react to my using a cane and later a small electric scooter.For the first day or two people were curious, my friends asked me why and said kind things; just about everyone ignored my cane after a day or two and many became very helpful opening doors, carrying heavy objects, etc.Eventually your crutches will be ignored and, I hope, not needed.Good luck.
I think im scared of people?
It sounds to me like you have a combination of low self esteem, lack of confidence, and also agoraphobia (fear of going out). All of this means you're very anxious. You probably feel you're going to explode from all the tension every time you go out! Is there anyone, like a parent or older relative, you can talk to about this? I think it would be in your best interests to get an anti-anxiety medication to help you through this difficult time. And people don't hate you! There's nothing wrong with you that people shouldn't like you! What likely is happening is that your fear and discomfort is projecting onto other people--they pick up that you are feeling discomfort, etc., which makes them uncomfortable too. It's a vicious cycle! But there are ways to get yourself out of this uncomfortable situation! Good luck!
Why am I so scared of going to school?
If you're still in high school or grade school and you're feeling this scared, please speak with someone you trust about your fears. Your fear is likely a signal that something is not right.If you're scared when you're thinking about going to post-secondary then, as Trudy says, everyone gets apprehensive when you're about to embark on a bold, new life-changing path.All post-secondary institutions have a student counselling services to provide you with psychological and study skill support.Another way to approach this is to regularly visit (if you can) the institution you plan to attend. Familiarity with the campus and its services will go along way to easing your mind. (Use the sports facilities, go to movie, use the library, have lunch, use the campus as a hang out.)You might also consider doing pre-university credit courses at your local college to help you build a bridge to the big campus. Consider speaking with someone you trust, who has gone to post sec, about your fears.But no matter which path you take to get there, please don't let fear prevent you from getting where you want to go. Good luck.
Scared to wear nice clothes to school?
I'm scared to wear nice clothes to school. Most of the people wear dull, boring clothing and never dress nicely, they mostly wear hoodies and the girls dress slutty. I'm scared to dress differently because people might think I'm trying to hard or will ask why I'm wearing them. Does anyone else feel like this? Please don't say "don't care what people think" that doesn't work for me. Plus, I'm starting highschool in a new school filled with new people. What should I do?
Why are people scared to talk to me?
everyone at my school seems to be scared to talk to me? i went to high school this year thinking i would make friends and what not but i still got my same friends as i do now than i did a long time ago. (nothing wrong with that, i love my friends) i just thought i would find a best friend or boyfriend, which i didnt and still dont have. i usually wear black(NO im not emo/goth) and have long black and blonde hair. im really nice and all my friends say im really funny. im not fat either. im not ugly. so why does no one new want to talk to me??
I want to make a YouTube Channel, but I'm scared people at my school will find it and bully me. What do I do?
Hummmm….What you could try is going under a pseudonym. So adopt a name like Angela Smith or Pete Brown or some other name. Check white pages for ideas. Get a new email account for only your youtube activity. Make sure this email is not used for your regular business activities but just for your youtube account under your pseudonym.Ensure that this contact information is shared only with the cosplay friends and cosplay community. Unless it is directly to do with cosplay then really you don’t want your information given out.Remember that haters are going to hate. You have got the right to practice your creativity in private in all honesty no one has to know. You also have the right to display it. You could try initially doing a few videos and seeing how they look. Remember you get better with practice. Look at what other people do and learn from them. When you feel confident enough then post. If you are not that confident run it past a couple of people who do make videos and see what Constructive critiques they can give.Remember that haters are going to hate. Also remember that they are not really producing anything anyway.I watched a video with a researcher called Brene Brown (she does stuff on vulnerability). She was talking about this quote from Roosevelt“…“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;…”the wo/man in the arena - Brené BrownSo you are in the arena as apposed to your likely bully school mates who are in the cheap seats (doing nothing - cause they are too chicken too). Welcome to the cheap seats.This is a personal opinion and not a professional answer.
I'm scared to wear contact lenses to school, what should I do?
Yesterday, I just got my first pair of trial contacts and I want to wear them to school tomorrow. Although, I'm scared what people are going to think about me. I have always wore glasses since 6th grade, so people get used to seeing me with glasses. But what I am scared the most are people comments and their thoughts. I'm scared that they are going to say that I look weird and I know that many people are going to comments, which I hate if they are not my friends. I hate it when people comments on how I look if they are not my friends. And I am scared of what the teachers and students are going to think of me. I am scared that they are going to make fun of me. And since I've been wearing glasses for a few years now, I get a tan line of the glasses. So how can I make it not visible by tomorrow? Will makeup help cover it? If so what makeup will help cover the tan line from my glasses? It's pretty noticeable, I have the tan line on the side and top of my nose and on the side of my temples.