Does the father cat know his kittens?
I think it likely varies from tom cat to tom cat. We have a big Maine Coon tom (Kano).Here he is with one of his kittens. (Aslana)For the first few weeks after they were born he didn’t pay much attention to them and he treated the new mother with suspicion. When the kittens were ready to leave the birthing box we put them in a cage so they could explore safely without getting into too much trouble.He soon started to spend hours each day playing with them through the cage.When the kittens were old enough to go free range he shared his favourite sleeping place with whom ever joined him.He taught them to use the scratching post.He would groom them.Seven months on, here he is last night with his daughter Bellatrix.The other interesting thing is that at about three months old the mother of most of these kittens came back into heat and started to hiss at her own kittens, numerous times I saw the Kano protect them and administer some justice to the Queen.In conclusion, I am not sure he has the concept that the kittens were his but he certainly loves them and protects them. Father of the year we joke.Edit: thanks to all the upvoters. This is my first answer with over 1k. :) We kept two of Kano's kittens. Here is a picture of them eating together. From top to bottom: Aslana, Kano and Bellatrix. The red tribe we call them.Also one picture of the lovely Queen Zhadi.
Help me with Mad Father PLEASE?
You need to get the lighter and lighter oil To get the lighter go to the reception room and move the chair to the left below the cabinet. Go on top of the chair and get the lighter. Get the cutting knife there too. Lighter oil: Go the bathroom and stay next to the box. Open it using the cutting knife. Go to the basement and BURN ALL THE MONSTERS!
My brother opened my box of chocolates and helped himself to my favourite ones. He said it's because I didn't open it for 2 weeks. When I got mad, he said I'm overreacting. What do I do?
That younger brother is just like me : the youngest , pampered child at home. My childhood was filled with moments of stealing my sisters share of chocolates which she stored away like you.How many more years will you stay together? Maybe, few more years when you all may go apart so love him , cuddle him, kiss him & inform him how important those chocolates which you stored are for you. Let him know that he had his share & he ate away your share too. Once he understands, he will never touch your chocolate box.
I found out that my father in law is cheating on my mother in law with a woman I know. Should I tell my husband? Or should I just forget that I even found out?
I’m not going to give advice, as it could be the wrong advice. But I will tell you what I would do in your situation…If I found that my father in law was cheating on my mother in law, I’d sit down with FIL and tell him that I know what is happening. I’d let him know that being in this position makes me uncomfortable, and that he needs to do something to fix it.If he refuses, I’d give him an ultimatum - either he tells his wife, or I tell my husband who, in turn, will tell his mom. Most women would prefer to be told straight up by their cheating spouse, rather than by someone else. If he still refuses and the responsibility lands on me, I’d take my MIL out for coffee or lunch, and will break it to her gently. Then I’ll let her know that I’ll be there should she need to talk, and that this information will be only between me and her - I won’t breach her trust. It might help if you have evidence of him cheating, just in case she asks.Not only will this be emotionally painful for your MIL, you, and your husband, but your FIL has also opened up the risk of sexually transmitted diseases/infections, so once it’s all over, she’s going to need to get tested.Not all marriages end after cheating. My husband had an affair and we are still together, 2 years after I found out. Marriage counseling is a great help. It teaches you to open up and communicate with your partner in ways that both of you are comfortable in doing so.Let her know that you’re there for her, and that if she needs anything, she should call you. She’s going to need a support system in place, whether the marriage ends or not.I’m sorry you’re in this situation. It can’t be comfortable for you.
Why did Malfoy blame Harry for his father getting arrested at end of Order Of The Phoenix when it was the ministry that sent him to Azkaban?
Draco blamed Harry because Harry had publicly named Lucius a Death Eater in the Quibbler interview published a few months earlier.Although the Ministry was unwilling and unable to act on the information relayed in the interview, it was the first crack in the Ministry's near total blackout on what was going on.Even the actual events in the Ministry - and here including the presence of Lucius among the Death Eaters - were not publicly understood or reported. But with the Daily Prophet's reprinting of the Quibbler interview, it was widely accepted that Harry's word was true, and that the Ministry now off-handedly accepted Harry's version of events.In the chaos, the Fudge administration actually fell, and very little was communicated about what happened in the immediate aftermath of the events at the Ministry.Obliquely, this can only be gleaned from the first chapters of HBP, where it should become clear that the Ministry had made a mess and was unable to clean up after itself, much less to run a credible campaign of public relations or awareness. Which is to say that hardly anybody had a clear idea about what the Ministry had or had not done. And all of this is a lead in to the coming, and ironic, failures of the Scrimgeour administration which will fail precisely because it concentrates only on public relations.In and amongst all of that chaos, Draco must find an adequate face on which to place the blame. In the ruins of his own family's reputation, the responsible party has both a face and a name. That name, just to rub some salt into Draco's rather open wounds, is now “the Chosen One.”
Can my parents open my mail if I live with them and am 18?
I am 18 and I still currently live with my parents. I recieve bank statements in the mail and my parents open my mail saying you still live here your mail is for us to know about. I do not permit them to open my mail but they get to the mail before I usually can and they do open it and get mad at me about my financial matters and I want to know what I can do about this.
When my dad gets mad he says really mean things to me. Is this normal?
It’s not because we are older and a parent that we become mature and considerate. There are plenty of adult bodies with emotional intelligence that froze in childhood.Your father is pushing you away from him. He is alienating you with his behavior. You are being forced to withdraw from the affection you may have had for him.Is this his intention? To what extent are you responsible for this anger? I screwed up plenty as a teenager and my parents would get angry at me, but not to the extreme that you mention. I resented their anger even though I had to admit that i had failed.The advantage of a creative mind is that it’s easy to think outside the box. Instead of being hurt by his comments you could go on the offensive. Two ways stand out. When you see the conflict brewing, you pull out pencil and paper. You mark the time and date at the top. When he says something mean you say, Stop. And you write it down. You get him to repeat it so you are sure to get it right. Second approach is with a smartphone. The verbal abuse starts and you turn on your video recording to capture your dad in full blown anger. Store the clip on your computer and keep them all.Another approach: you ask, “Dad, do you love me?” And every time he says another mean thing you ask him again and again, DO YOU LOVE ME?If he gets even worse, then you know that his problem is Serious. Definitely seek other family members or the school counselor as a way to deescalate the situation. Is your mother subjected to the same treatment when they disagree?Are you old enough to consider leaving home and getting your own place to stay? Grandparents or family members might let you stay with them for a time?Time heals (but not always in the way we might like. You and your dad may remain alienated and without contact until he dies. He lost a son and you lost a father.)