How can I stop being so sensitive?
Usually when criticism effects you so negatively it can be traced to a low self-esteem. I love how you worded this...you realize its your weakness...so many people would blame others. Find some things you ARE good at and spend your time doing them or improving skills you are proud of. Take a college class if you are old enough. When someone says something negative, try to seperate whether its personal (negative about you) or just negative in general. A lot of people are just flat out negative and do not realize how they sound to others. Do not feel too awful about being sensitive. The world needs more sensitive people...so try turning it to you advantage by developing empathy for others and being sensitive to their needs.
How do I stop being so sensitive?
I'm a 16 year old girl and am very sensitive to criticism. Even when I make a mistake and someone corrects me, I am hurt inside because I feel that they don't think I did it the right way and they think that I'm stupid or something. Even when I really know that they're just trying to help me, I still feel offended. Usually I don't say anything and just go with what they suggest, but on the inside I feel like I'm no good because I couldn't do it the right way the first time. I know I need to get over this. But how?
How can I stop being so sensitive?
I m a female and I m such a big cry baby, literally. It s frustrating and I hate it but it s how I ve been all my life. My parents and my peers have always told me I need to grow a "thicker skin" if I want to be content, which I suppose is true. My personality is that I m an extremely caring person, I like helping people, making people happy and often times in friendships or especially relationships , I notice that I tend to put their happiness before mine. I m not very good at taking criticism. The other day at work my boss accused me of something I didn t do and while talking to him about the situation, I began to cry, for example. I cry about everything and it s like I can t control it. I cry when I m happy, I cry when I m sad, I cry when I frustrated or when I m extremely angry about something, I cry. I don t know what to do about it or how to stop it. I don t want to be seen as a weak link or not taken seriously because of this. Crying just seems to be my automatic reaction to all of my emotions, whether a big or small event occurs. Anyways, any advice as to what I could do about this would be helpful. Thanks!
How to stop being sensitive to jokes?
So I'm a 19yr old very goofy and sarcastic guy. I have a close group of 4 friends who I met all individually and we all ended up being great friends together. When I first met them individually, we would crack jokes on each other (sarcastic insults) and go back and forth all the time and had a great time. Now, when we all hang out together, everyone pretty much gangs up on me and jokes on me. I sort of feel like I'm being singled out and targeted. I've talked to 2 individually about this and they all say that they're just joking and I need to stop taking it so seriously ... but I still do. The thing is, I still have a great time with all of them individually, but just in a group I hate being the scapegoat. I know they're just joking, I just need to be able to realize that they aren't targeting me, they're just kidding. Any suggestions as to how I can stop taking everything so seriously and feeling hurt?
How can I stop being so sensitive as a teen?
I doubt that anyone can actually change their personality all of a sudden, personalities can't be altered by a switch, unless of course you want to be a part of MK-Ultra's program.Being a cold person myself, I think I am obliged to talk about this. Just like you, when I was a kid, till my mid-teens, I was a highly sensitive person. But after that, I started getting colder. It's experience that changes you.Mankind would've never evolved if they never took risks.If you go through a tough time, you may notice a change within yourself. For example, it could be something like feeling incompetent and worthless compared to your peers. Or you may have been neglected by a lot of people, bullied for quite a while. Things like these will only want you to distance away from people in general. And facing these problems for at least years, in my opinion can make you cold.But if that all is too much, I can give you a few steps to being a cold person;Start avoiding meaningless conversations.If someone insults you, don’t insult them back unless you have a really great comeback. Just say “okay” or ignore them, without showing any expression.Be void of needless emotions. Have control over your emotions, don’t let it control you, you ultimately control them.Don’t give people unnecessary respect unless they actually deserve it.If someone jokes, don’t laugh. Don’t sat anything.Try putting up a neutral expression whenever you can.If someone hates you, it’s not necessarily your fault. But don’t hate them back, but don’t show any sign of liking or forgiving them either. If they were to die, even if you knew them, they die and it’s of no concern to you.If someone smiles at you, don't smile back. Ignore their smile or walk away.Try not to bring up trivial matters.What others think about you is their business, not yours. Relax.
The head of my penis is sensitive..... how do i stop it from being sensitive?
The head of your penis is supposed to be sensitive. That's why your foreskin is covering it over when you don't have an erection. You want to protect and preserve the sensitivity because when you come to having real sex, the amount that you are sensitive is the amount of pleasure that your going to feel. That sensitivity gets translated into major feel good with subtle slippery sliding action like takes place in real Love making. A Lady's parts become really slippery with natural Lube when she's ready for you to penetrate, and store bought lube can be used to make her parts feel better for her during your touch. That helps things to be more slippery. You will in the long run have better control too because of the detailed feelings that you have in being able to tell how far along you are and the reaction so that you can decrease your speed or angle of stimulation and stay at a steady state until you Lady is happy, then you can increase and come through to pleasure yourself. Bottom line, you want to work with what nature gave you as no mistake, and preserve and protect your sensitivity as much as possible not try to damage it. It's exactly what you want for real Love Making. Once you start Making Love, your sexual processing center of the brain also averages the feelings and build the correct interpretation of them for the best pleasure levels. Don't touch or rub on it dry, don't let the shower head spray on the head of your penis, and keep the foreskin closed between washing and sexual activity to protect you. If you masturbate, keep the foreskin between your hand and the head of your penis, and if you want to do some direct contact, which you don't need to because of your good feelings level, use lots of Lube and light touch. It's best to keep direct touch for real Love making. Edit.... Humans have such a tough time accepting that what nature gives you here is what your supposed to have and works best. We right away start trying to mess with it and change things through lack of understanding or thinking that we know better. We have way too many messes going with nature and the environment already. Hope it all makes sense now. Your fortunate to have all of your parts still to be able to have that high level of feelings. Take care Man! Me! :- )
How can i stop being a sensitive pisces girl?
Everything hurts my feelings. I dont always show it but it hurts a lot. I hate showing my feelings to people so i usually act indifferent and cold but I could be hurting so badly inside. No idea how I can change this? The smallest things hurt my feelings and make me want to cry. Like my capricorn bf sometimes he is too busy and I believe him cause I seen it with my own eyes he is too busy with school and work to spend his time with me sometimes and I get really hurt and upset and sometimes cry about it alone at night. I take everything as a rejection and get hurt and start being self-pitying. Once he told me he was busy and he needed to sleep because he was working like crazy at hospital and I wanted to bake cookies with him and he said that, so i took it as rejection and started crying to myself in my bed. How can I become more emotionally strong and not cry about every little thing?