How to stop being shy around guys!?
like whenever I see an attractive man instead of flirting or smiling or look at him, I do the complete opposite! or if I smile and give "the signal" if I notice the guys is getting closer to me to talk to me I try to avoid him, (by looking down, pretending that im doing something else or talk or text on the phone.) like today at work I saw a very attractive customer omg ! so handsome and we were both looking at each other and when I walked around to my cubicle while I was talking to my customer he turned around to look at me, then he came back and was waiting for someone to assist him. the customer rep that's sitting next to him took care of him and I felt that he turned to look at me again and I didn't even look his way! like really!!!! I don't know if i'm scared of guys or what ! but I've lost a lot of chances to interact with potential dates because of my shyness.( and its not that im Mrs. Queen of ugliness lol, it's just that I tend to make myself unapproachable ) Help plz!
How to stop being shy around cute guys?
Okayy soo im pretty shy around cutee guyss.. . all my friends are guys ... and like im never shy around any of them and i can be myself around them bt when theres a cute guy i gett extremely awkward shyy andd waayy nervous forr exampleeee..:P i met this boy freshmen year(ima junior now) and he was really cool and we would laugh and joke around and what not and text all tha timee bt then my friend pointed out how hott he was n then i started seeing it... and now icant even speak to himm like i dont even think when im around him i hatee it.! OHH ANDD ANDD AND ... theres this boy in my enlgish class and hes pretty cutee and my friend is always telling me to make eye contact with him and i cant...! i think what if i look ugly what if my hairs messed up or my lips are chapped orr someething! and he sits rright across tha room from me so we get a pretty good view of each other and im like always staring at him! haa. and once i thinkk he tried to do tha eye contact thing with mee.... andd... i made an extremely weird facee and like was freeaking outt. Ughh soo idk maybee you can give me some advice on how i can stop beingg so shyy and awkward.. or maybe some of your own personal experience with thisss. well thankss for taking time to read thissss. i hope i can get some good advicee.. :)))<333
How can i stop being shy around guys??? 10pts.?
well if i was you i would start to act myself around him, that's the only way you'll feel comfortable and he'll feel comfortable, don't try too hard because some people can sense that. I'm a guy and i used to be really shy around really cute girls but then i found out if i act myself around them they won't think any less of me, so now its easier for me to talk to girls.
I'm too shy around guys?
Mash'Allah this is just society telling you shyness is bad..but what does Western society know?? follow the wisdom of Allah Subhanhu wa Ta'ala, the example of the wives (radi Allahu anhum) of the Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) shyness/haya is a BEAUTIFUL trait to have and you can never be too shy sister it might be strange in this dunya today and to disbelievers but Insha'Allah Ta'ala you'll be rewarded for it in akhirah it's a beautiful trait to have sister - don't lose it!! As'salamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuhu *'feeling normal around guys' <- this is Shaytan playing with you, first it'll be comfortable, then confident, then flirty.. i'm not being extreme.. i'm just saying it's not a bad thing to be shy! EDIT: and not to sound dramatic but this is a true story..i used to be shy and not know how to talk to guys and then went on this science on month program thing that was mixed and tried to interact with guys and lost all my shynes and then guys would try to flirt with me, etc etc Astaghfirullah .......so please sis, i know i'm being dramatic but it's very easy for Shaytan and this dunya to trick you into losing this precious characteristic, but dont change for no one (except Allah Subhanhu wa Ta'ala)
I am a gay guy who is shy around other guys, how could I stop being shy?
Whenever I see a cute guy I would tremble a little and look away when he's looking at me. I can't even make eye contact when cute guys talk to me. What can I do to overcome my shyness and be more confident?
How can I stop being shy around attractive guys?
Maybe what's happening is that, since you're "confident and extroverted" you're used to being in charge in social situations, or at least not vulnerable, and something about attractive guys is causing a fear response. The most generic reason I can think of is that everybody feels vulnerable when they like someone else. The liking becomes a way to hurt you. If you don't care, then you can't be hurt, but if you do care, then hurt is possible. A less generic reason is that some people, usually girls, are taught to believe that it's wrong for them to like boys, because that's something that sluts do. Good girls don't even have thoughts like that. If you're suffering from the latter, if you've been taught that it's wrong of you to be attracted to other people, then fix that. I'm not sure how.If it's just the normal human reaction to being vulnerable you can try just ripping the BandAid off quickly. Instead of keeping your appreciating for the opposite sex a secret, talk about it as soon as it happens. That way everyone knows, so it's not a secret, so you can't be blackmailed. There are examples of women acting that way in popular media that you can model. The one that springs to mind is Ygritte from Game of Thrones. She basically woos John Snow the same way men woo women. It doesn't embarrass her that people know she like John because she already made it obvious. An important aspect of acting that way is owning it. You have to actually believe that you're an awesome person with something to offer. If you don't have that much confidence, then work on your self-confidence first.
How can I stop being shy around my crush?
It's not as hard as it seems to be yourself in front of your crush. Cling to a close friend for a while, one who you're comfortable around, and then act like he's not there. After a while, it'll get easier to be outgoing in front of him without help. Work your way towards a friendship, and once you have, you can make strings in your relationship. If this happens, then it's quite possible that he's interested, but don't get your hopes up too high before you've got your facts. He could be just playing with your feelings. For some reason, it seems like that's a common hobby for guys.
How do I stop being so shy and insecure around guys? When a guy I like shows around, I can't even make a sound and just look at him awkwardly.
Hi,Thanks for asking.I dont know how old you are and I totally understand how you feel, its like your first few times talking in front of hundreds of people. Yes, it can be awkward and need lots of practices.Same about the guy, you need to get a grip, try to be normal and act normal around him. You can do it. Dont think too much, he is just one human. ;)Best wishes,The Dating Coach
How can I stop being so AWKWARD around guys!!?
I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend. Quite a few guys have been interested in me, they are just never my type. They like me for a little while, then they find out "I'm a goody-good" and they forget about me. I don't think its that I'm unattractive, I look like I'm 18, I'm short, blonde, blue-eyed and have a "mature" looking body, hahaha. It's just I'm awkward. I have a normally friendly personality, I'm a cheerleader for my school and I'm involved in a lot of school clubs. I am also in all AP and have a 103 GPA (we don't use 4.0's,) so some people think I'm a nerd. I don't mind though. Just stating all this so y'all get my personality and don't think I'm some total freak... Anyway, I just feel awkward and shy around guys and I'm just not great at talking to them! Especially guys I like... I don't know what to say when they text me or talk to me and I feel like I'm boring. I also am awkward when I talk to friends about the guys I like. I avoid the subject. Like, I don't know what to say when people ask me who I like, so I lie and say no one. There are definitely a few guys I like though!:) Like this one really smart football player who is a goody-good like me. But he will never know I like him because I'm such a chicken. It's like I'm afraid of rejection or something, which is totally stupid, I know. Or that I feel I need people's approval, which is even more stupid. Guys are like the only thing I'm insecure about... I think I'm afraid of getting hurt. I now that will happen many times in my life though and I need to accept that. I just need to stop being afraid of relationships and stop being so shy! And guys that are really great like me but I am so dang picky that I don't even give them a chance. It makes me feel bad!! Its not that I wouldn't like them, I'm just so awkward I don't know how to act... How can I stop being so AWKWARD!
How can I stop turning red around guys?
actually, that used to happen to me. then when i started talking to guys more i got used to it and didnt blush around them anymore. its all about perspective. pretend like u know them really well or pretend like ur talking to ur brother or guy cousin or something like that. that's what i used to do before i got comfortable with it. eventually u will grow out of this, it is more like a stage. another tip is to just not think about it! try to relax and take deep breaths. theyre people too and might feel nervous and maybe just arent showing it. even when everything on the inside is a wreck, try to look confident on the outside. guys like confident girls. and another thing is some guys like shy girls because they think that its cute. eventually when u get to know the guy better u will get used to whoever it is and will be like why did i feel nervous? keep ur head held high and show them confidence. it will pay off :)