How to stop my dad being so jealous of me.?
My dad is so jealous of me. I swear its so annoying and i love my dad so much! but this is just starting to get in the way of things. My dad makes me pay for everything I do. Like buying clothes and going out. Which is fine because most of the time i have enough money to do it and i think it also helps me know how to use money for the future. But on the occasions that i don't i swear my dad gets happy from it. I also remeber when my sister got a nice new phone. He kept on going on and on and on how she shouldn't of brought the phone and he meant in very jealous ways of him not wanting her to have it because that meant she had something nice that he never got. I'm also going to buy a new phone soon, and he keeps on saying to make me feel bad like gee i hope you get enough money to get it otherwise ur cnt get one. Which made me feel bad becuse i get the same amount every year. I also remeber one time my sister and I were going to go out with my cousins and my mum said 2 us i will pay for this. My dad got so annoyed and said why arn't they paying for it and we both didn't have enough money which meant we wouldn't be able to go. Its coz im 13 and my sis is 14 so we cnt really get jobs. Also he gets soo jealous when im texting my friends or chatting 2 them or going out with them. Every single time i tell him im going out with my friends he always trys to make me feel bad about how it won't be fun and that i go out too much . Also everytime i go shopping with my friends and showed him the clothes i brought he trys to make me feel so bad that i won't be able to shop anymore when i can. I think he is like this because when he was growing up he grew up with nothing. But it is really getting on my nerves now. Please tell me if im doing something wrong or how to stop all this :)
Why am I so jealous of my moms boyfriend?
For you it was your dad that passed away. For your mom, it was her husband. It's a very different experience for her. I'm wondering if you see her relationship with her boyfriend as her, gaining something that she lost, but you don't feel like you've gained anything. Not only is she trying to move on with her life, she's moving on separately from you. I don't mean she's separating herself from you, just that you and her will never move heal from your loss the same way. Is this really about her boyfriend or that her boyfriend will never be a dad to you? It's ok to feel all this stuff. Not only are you still grieving the loss of your dad, but you're also grieving the loss of the relationship your parents had together and the relationship they had together with you. Keep being happy for your mom. Focus on that but don't push down your own feelings. I'm a dad and I can confidently say that without question, your dad wants everything good for you. If there's a way for him to look down at you, he is doing just that. He is so proud of you and he knows that you are good. He loves you. I know i'm just some guy answering your question on a web page, but know that i'm a real person who's heart hurts for you.
I think I'm jealous of my mom's boyfriend?
They've been together for 2 years, but were only friends for 1/2 a year. So they've been a couple for 1.5 years. I like him, and he's nice. But I kind of feel jealous of him sometimes. He seems to walk in the room at the worst time, and my mom talks about him a lot. He's a big part of our lives, but I wish he didn't live with us. I have 3 siblings (all younger). They're with us every other week, the rest of the time they're with their dad. My mom is really all I have. I don't have any friends, and I only have siblings half of the time. Today, we went out to see a movie and then we went to Wal-Mart. Well, he showed up because he had to get deodorant. Then, they went out to lunch. I was invited too, but my stomach hurt. I don't know, I don't want to be jealous of him, but he just frustrates me. And I know he knows, because of the tension. I don't want to tell my mom, because I don't think she'll understand. Does anyone have any advice? =/
How do I stop my wife's mother from being jealous of our relationship?
Oh my, sometime the advance age can't make someone mature enough isn't she? Since she is your wife's mother, you need to tell your wife to talk her mother about her unaccepted behaviour. I am sure actually, your wife feel uncomfortable too. Maybe she just do not know how to express it to her own mother.It happen to me too, long time ago when I just married. My husband and I live 150 km away from my parent. Sometime my mother called me and asked me to went home because she throw a party and all her children need to be present. The next week she will called again to asked me to went home because she need to be escorted to her doctor, or her rice need to be cropped and my help was needed.Finally I tell her that now that she has give me away to somebody else, then I belong to the man I married. I will still help her, but by my husband permision. I tell her too that as a wife, my obligation is to obey my husband. I tell her too that it's imposible to drive for 5 hours to go home every week, since we have jobs to be done. And I will not tolerate any badmouth expressed about my husband. He is my choice, and she blessed our marriage anyway. She has no right to complain me. And me and my husband can do anything we pleased without her consent. I tell her she could not keep interfere our household if she wish my happiness and wellbeing. I tell her that her intervence make my marriage even harder to manage. Later I know that my husband tell her parent the same thing. He said that now that he being married and have children, his priorities are to be responsible to his wife and children, and he will never tolerate any badmouth and bullying about me and the children.It's hard enough for her, because she was very controlling parent all this time. But being away this far from her help me much. It's good you and your wife are happy together. All you have to do is to manage any obstacle out of your marriage. Don't make the present of the parents (yours and hers I mean) endangerd your happy marriage. Maybe you can help your sister to draft her opinion about her mother.
Why are the bio moms always jealous of the stepmom?
I'm 14, a girl and my bio mom is very jealous of my relationship with my stepmom. She always says bad things about my stepmom and dad infront of me. My stepmom and me get along very well. My dad and stepmom have been married for about a year. I'm closer to my stepmom then my real mom. She's so much nicer and actually cares about me.Why is my mom jealous of her so much?
Help, my mom is jealous of my body, (insecure jealous mom, help)?
I know this is long, but please read both sides of the story, to undestand my problem. I cant even were a tank top or shorts around the house and it's just me and her, my brothers in college and my dads not around, so whats her problem. Shes like I'm too young to be interested in being sexy. Like I can really help my hormones and puberty. And I can tell shes jealous, when she jealous she gets like pissed like seriously angry if I wear anything that shows my breasts or ***, she'll get like furious. My mom wont admit that shes insecure. She always talks about how she has chicken legs, and no ***, and bad skin, and how I keep going up in bra size, and shes always is saying maybe if u didnt eat so much ur breasts wouldnt be so big, just cause shes jealous that I have curves and a flat tummy, and I'm a size 4/6. And I personally think my moms beautiful. My moms expectations of being a woman are extremely high, and she thinks beautiful is having no skin problems, huge boobs, a big ***, and wide legs. My mom has no idea what beautiful really is. And were not that far apart, shes a 34C and I'm a 36DD, and she always says that I'm too young to be wanting to be sexy at 14, shes so jealous. All I know is I love myself and my body. I just need some advice, whenever she gets in that insecure mood, cause I cant go the rest of my teenage girl years with a jealous insecure mom. It will be hell 4 me, I can already see it starting to happen. And Idw to hate my mom, but she keeps pushing me too everytime she gets in that insecure mood.