How do I stop envying my ex and move on with my life?
Envy comes when you are NOT satisfied with your current life. Because if you are, then you won't even have time to think about your ex or anybody for that matter.Do not think 'how to stop envying my ex', think about 'how to make my life best!'You can start from the things that you hate doing, and cut them off your list. Then move on to your daily routine, and introspect how much time you spend on constructive activities and how much time you spend on stalking your ex, that will clear out some more things.Moving on with your life is the simplest thing one can do. You just need to make a busy routine, a hectic schedule that leaves you with no time to think about anything, but yourself. Join a gym, join a dance class, learn guitar, piano, start swimming, start playing a sport, hang out with your friends, friends who are NOT mutual with your ex, talk to your parents, spend time with your family and relatives, be active in social service. There are a thousand things that you can do to improve your daily routine, and believe me, you won't even remember the name of your 'ex' in a few years!
How long did it take you to stop hating your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend?
(Looks at invisible watch) still waiting!I don’t hate them. That’s a strong word, hate. I resent the way they treated me and I especially resent/borderline hate the way my ex husband treats his children, as if they don’t exist.Do I sit around all day seething with anger? Nope. Most of those moments dissipated within the first 6 months post-breakup. If anything, I have more moments of anger at myself, for being so misled for so long. The best way to soothe that pain is to focus on myself and my choices going forward. Everything that happens in life can be a learning opportunity if you open your mind to the experience.
How can I stop hating my ex and move on to love someone new?
You usually hate someone when he or she has left you without any explanation or just cheated on you. I know how it feels when someone is being selfish and forget about the people who love them so deeply. But if you are sure that the person is never gonna come back to you, be strong and move on. Moving on doesn’t mean that you have to find someone. Keep yourself busy in work, concentrate on your career, go out with your friends, start something which you thought of doing it for long (it’s dancibg for me). Don’t Be desperate find someone. It will happen. Take your own time and give time for healing process. All the best .. You can do this sweetheart!
How can I stop comparing my life to others?
Sometimes I get on facebook and look at other people's lives and I envy them lots of friends, nice cars, money, good looks.. I know it's so bad to compare my life to others and I should be happy with what I got but sometimes It gets me really depressed. I'm not the smartest person, I don't have many friends besides my boyfriend, don't have a car yet because my family doesn't have a lot of money.. On top of all that my life at home has been very overwhelming lately. I do have things that make me happy and I am hoping my future is better than my life right now. How can I stop feeling so empty when I see other people with all these things I don't have? I don't want to have this negative outlook on life.
I want to burn my ex's stuff but....?
Here's the story: my ex and i dated for almost 2 years. he broke up with me almost a year ago and it was the hardest time of my life. he completely changed and was terrible to me and i could not get over him. he hates me and doesn't talk to me. now that i am FINALLY over him, I want to throw a party celebrating the one year anniversery of when he broke up with me... celebrating how much better and happy i am! i really want to burn the box of all of our stuff... but i just cant. it has pics, letters, myspace messages, rings, corsages, cards, cds, etc etc. its not like me and him ended good, so i dont want to remember him. but at the same time, it makes me really sad that all that stuff is gone forever. i just dont know what to do. there is really no reason why i should keep it. he made my life hell and completely denied how inseperable we were for two years. HELP ME! p.s. if i throw a party to celebrate, what are some activities i can have??
Angry songs towards your ex?
My now ex-boyfriend and I were together almost a year and then I find out he's cheating on me. of course i was sad at first..now I just want revenge. What are some of the best songs? More recent..pop/country/rock?! PLEASE and THANK YOU!
How can I stop feeling hate towards my abusive ex-boyfriend and just get over him?
Forgiveness is difficult, but it’s really the only way to let go. I’m sure you’ve heard the old saw about “Hating someone is like drinking poison every day, and waiting for your enemy to die.” Meantime, he’s just out, living his life, while you’re stewing, losing chunks of your own life in the process.This is a short Youtube video by Nadia Bolz-Weber, a Lutheran pastor with the ELCA, and trust me, she’s not whatever popped up in your head when you read the word “pastor.” (Look at the title: Forgive Assholes.) She’s talking about forgiveness and what it is and what it is not. It’s not all Jesusy or spiritual; watch it and see if it gives you a new perspective that might help you let go.
How do I stop being so jealous of my boyfriend's ex?
You mentioned that you are jealous of your boyfriend having sex with his “ex”.So, before replying I would like to clarify you the meaning of three terms, ‘jealous’ , ‘boyfriend’ and ‘ex’.People often get jealous of someone who has something they don't have. So you are jealous implies you feels that his ex is more luckier than you.Secondly, boyfriend and ex has one difference i.e. one is present and one is past. And the worth of ex is same as our old and torn slippers/ chappals.Now coming to the point of being jealous. You are jealous of her because she used your boyfriend’s body parts to satisfy her biological needs. And your boyfriend has rewarded her, his seeds. But try to change your prospective and think in this way. Let's assume that your boyfriend’s ex is a bitch to whom he wants to punish for betraying him, by giving her more pain. So he has deflowered her and teared her ass through his hard instrument. So think that he has not given her pleasure but he has given her enormous pain.I know how you are feeling now. I know the pain when one uses your objects without your will. I still feel bad when my friends uses my personal objects.But in this case you should look one good prospects i.e. your boyfriend has informed you about his relationship with someone else. Nowadays most people don't do that and cheat others. So think positive.