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How To Stop Thinking About A Crush

How to stop thinking about my crush 24/7?

Haha we all either have been there or are there.

1. Well why cant you ask your crush out? that would settle things. :)
2. If not...then keep BUSY BUSY BUSY. (Busy is always good)
3. Write. (I.e. a pretend letter to your crush- you'll obviously not give it to them- and then all of that 'fuzzy stuff' in your head will be out and on paper)

How can you stop thinking about your crush?

Your brain is really only very good at focusing on one thing at a time. If you occupy it with something else while this person's around, it'll be too busy to pay much attention. This works well in reverse too - if you really have to pee, think about sex to put your bladder on the back burner.

But to solve your current quandary: If you have deep, scarring emotional problems, try wallowing in them while this person is around or is in your thoughts. If you don't have such problems, get a hobby or a cat. Preferably two.

Crushes happen because we're wired for them to happen. If you really think this person is the super-best-ever thing that could happen to you, then you need to go over and introduce yourself. If not, then just think about baseball or schizophrenia until the end of class ;)

Hope this helps!

How can I stop thinking about my crush?

The first step is to AVOID CONTACT. Yes, it will be hard yes it will hurt yes your mind and body will revolt. You will go into withdrawals. So be prepared.To prepare, choose at least three specific thoughts that make you feel good. Then when a thought of this person arises, stop and purposefully think one of these pre-chosen go-to thoughts.(You are trying to create similar but different peptides, and to forge new neuropathways.)Recognize it isn't the person you love, but how that person could potentially make you feel.Detox - get rid of any paraphernalia and stay away from triggers that will remind you of this person.Pick a visual image to replace this person with. Something to remind you how bad they are for you. Ex: snake, vampire, a lazy farting cow, whatever. In theory this image will imprint on your subconscious and replace them. (I haven't practiced this yet, so I cannot vouch for it.)Associate all the negative and bad things about the relationship with this person, on purpose, instead of the good.Get busy! Distract distract distract. Reconnect with people, nurture new friendships, find something new to learn, keep your brain busy with other things. Find new shiny objects that stir intense fun feelings.

I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT MY CRUSH?

So I've had a crush on a girl for a while now, and its consumed everything I think about. I endlessly lay down in my bed for hours at a time thinking about her. I don't know if she likes me she gives mixed signals, she complimented me once, and then kinda stopped. I'm obsessed with her, and If she doesn't like me I wont be able to get over it. I'm way too shy to talk to any girl, even ones that I don't like. Don't give me short answers like "tell her your feelings good luck" please.I need some serious help. Please, I'm so depressed.

I can't stop thinking about my crush?

I've been thinking about him all the time and everytime I see him I feel so attracted and I really really like him! I've never felt this way before towards anyone else (I've had other people that I had a crush on) but I don't know if he likes me. Is it possible if I try to spend more time with him he'll like me more? My best friend wants to ask if he likes me but I'm afraid he'll know I like him. I can't stop thinking about him literally. I have dreams about him and think about him in class. Is he "the one"?

How do you stop thinking about an old crush?

Just enjoy the feelings. everyone needs a "crush" or "fantasy" to day dream about. If it was going to happen, it would have a long time ago.

How do I stop thinking about my ex crush?

i didnt understood ur question entirely .but u r asking abou ur “EX-crush” so iam assuming that u have a new crush now or u are away from ur so called EX-crush.the problem with crushes are “they are entirely uncertain relations caused due to base less(for boys usually there will be no connection among them but for girls completely opposite. girls usually get crush on people known to them) subconscious attractions.to deal with this u have to make some strong relations with ur new crush.start socialise with more men (some say that u r a bitch, NEVER MIND WHO JUDGE U, THERE IS ONLY ONE LIFE SO GET MOST OUT OF IT) and check whether ur new crush got what your EX-crush got.IF IN CASE U DONT HAVE ANY NEW CRUSH then ,i want to tell u secret (open). we r humans actually programmed to control our behaviour ,u can actually do that by COMPLETELY SUBMERGING UR SELF INTO SOME OTHER COOL STUFF other than physical attractions. soon or later u will find grt guys than your EX .take care of ur self

Why can't I stop thinking about my crush?

Don’t you think if you could easily forget them then it wouldn’t have turned out to be a crush?Crushes are easy to be dealt with , all you got to assure yourself that they are going to be a temporary infatuation. And both life and love are much more bigger than these trivial attractions .They say if a crush lasts more than 21 days than it’s a serious crush, what you can do next is to make a move if you want to, or let it pass by. It will take time, but you will get over it.There will be days when you will think all the time about them, but assure yourself and get involved more in your work or studies. Whenever their thought comes across let it, the more you resist the more it will hamper your process of moving on.Start thinking negatively about them, how they are impacting your daily activities and how content you are with the things and people you have in your life.Crushes are to be admired, who doesn’t love that rush of a feeling when the person whom you are attracted to passes by you or interacts with you. All you need is to enjoy this feeling and moment, and let the serious thoughts pass by.After all it’s just a crush!

I have a crush on my P.E teacher..how do i stop thinking about him?

Well, you're not the first.
I'm sure your P.E Teacher likes having you as a student, and I think the fact he seems to only smile at you is all in your head. ( or he smiles at you cause your mindlessly smiling at him all the time)
Obviously, you don't have a chance with him. Teachers are strictly forbidden not to engage in romantic relationships with their students.

So...
1) Just think of it as a hopeless situation. He's a lot older, he's not looking for a 15 year old girlfriend, and if he's hotter than the guys in your class, I'm sure he has a lot of other more suitable choices.
2) It'll pass, as all crushes do. I used to have a mega-crush on Zac Efron (readers will either puke at this or giggle), but it eventually passed. I still like looking at his face though.

Plus, when another guy comes along that charms you, you'll forget your gym teacher.

This site has an answer to a very similar question:
http://life.familyeducation.com/teen/sexuality/41610.html

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