How to tell my friend i like her cousin?
Hey ! i relly have a huge crush on my friends cousin and i really want to tell my friend on an email first... i dont really want to say 'i like your cousin' i just want to say something 2 let her know that i like her cousin, but im just really shy and quiet.
How do I tell my friend's sister that I have crush on her?
Not a Bad question. This will work in most cases : Tell your FRIEND that you like his sister straight away. Nothing wrong. Express how you felt about his sister at his wedding. Since he is also of your age. He will understand and help you. NOTE : I hope your friend does have a good opinion about you. :DOtherwise you can try the below if you think you don't want to disclose to your friend. You do have an advantage that she is your Friends Sister. So try to know some details from your friend about her in a casual way. This way you can try a conversation with her about the things that she is interested in or she loves. If you are lucky and SINCERE , you will get your PRINCESS. :D :D Another Important thing : Get to know if she has a Boy friend or if you think it doesn't matter then you can go on ... :D All the best Bro ...
Would you tell your friend if you had a crush? Why?
Yes, of course. I believe in transparency. If I have a crush on someone, I generally say so. After all, what do you gain by hiding it? What possible good thing can be accomplished by having a crush on someone but concealing it?This week, I was in New York City for a Quora meetup. I stayed at the apartment of a lovely woman I met via Facebook. She turned out to be an amazing person—smart, lovely, engaging, interesting, outgoing, with many interests in common with me. Yesterday, we were talking about relationships and attraction and I said “in the interests of full disclosure, I've developed a crush on you.” She was pleased, and the conversation continued.The key is this:You must understand that a crush on your part is never, ever an obligation on someone else’s part. Ever.If you have a crush on someone, it does not mean they have to reciprocate. It does not mean they have to be interested in any way in you. It does not mean nobody else can flirt with them. It does not mean they can't date your best friend. It does not mean anything has to change.People say things like “my friend asked my crush out on a date—can’t my friend understand how much that hurts me?”No. Sorry. What is hurting you is your desire to possess your crush. “I want! I want! I want! Me! Me! Mine!” That is the source of pain.Yes, by all means, if you have a crush on someone, say so. There is absolutely nothing to gain by hiding it. But don't assume that your crush means you own the object of your crush. You don't. And don't assume that your crush entitles you to anything from the other person. It doesn't.
I have a crush on my friend's crush. What do I do?
That's a difficult one. I don't have experience of having liked the same guy as any of my close friends. Even their boyfriends/husbands, although are absolutely lovely, wouldn't be my type."Bad friend" - I wouldn't be too hard on yourself, it's not as if you set out to develop feelings for your friend's crush.This all comes down to your character. Personally, if I were to find myself in your situation, I firstly wouldn't get involved with the guy before telling my best friend, otherwise it makes the situation ten times worse, especially if she finds out through someone else. If you do tell her, there's a risk she may not take it well, and therefore, if you choose him over her, the discomfort, awkwardness & jealousy of seeing you together, may end your friendship.I'm guessing I'm a lot older, so right now, if there was a choice between a guy and my best friend, there's no doubt that my best friend would come first. I love her too much, and she's always been there for me. Without sounding cynical, guys can come and go (although hoping that's not the case with my boyfriend!), but great friends last a lifetime. Life's a bitch sometimes though, forsaking your own happiness is an extremely hard thing to do. It's only natural for us to think of ourselves first.I read the comment made by Shara Yana on one of the answers, in reference to her own experience of choosing the guy over her best friend, her words below made me feel for her:"I miss her. I can't recreate that relationship with her with anyone else no matter how close I am with them now. I have great friends who have mutual likes and dislikes but she is irreplaceable. There is no other person like her. I told her very recently in a whatsapp conversation to forgive me but she responded blandly. I repent my past actions"That is something you should ponder on. The decision is yours alone, my only advice is to not start something behind her back. If you really can't control your feelings, then be honest with her first. Good luck,Abi
What should I do if I have a major crush on a close friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship?
I know it will be hard for you to believe but I've been through the exact same thing. First thing first, tell him how you feel for him. Now don't mistake this opinion as some love guru funda. It's not. The only thing I want to tell you is that you DON'T WANT TO REGRET YOUR SILENCE few years from now. I liked this girl who also happened to be a very good friend. At first, I kept dodging the feelings, however I soon realized that it was getting tough for me. She was nice to me and I did not want to mistake those gestures with something else. The only thing that kept me from telling her was that we used to hang out in group and I never wanted to be the one who spoiled the atmosphere and making things awkward. So I never shared my feelings with her until we were posted to different locations. I realized I might never be able to see her again and a few days before we were supposed to leave I told her about my feelings for her (I don't want to take the credit for the entire thing, she was the one who was the acting catalyst during the conversation).Now here's the thing!!! She too had feelings for me all the while and in her words " had been dropping hint bombs" at me. It's is the best feeling, believe me, and you'll get to live it only if you tell him. Even if things don't work out(now don't be pessimistic), he will understand and that way you'll never regret not telling him. All the best !!! PS: I'm glad I told her. She is the best thing that's happened to me.
What do I do, about to tell my crush I cut?
I have to tell my crush that I cut myself, but I really don't want to because I don't want him to think badly about me. I say I have to because my friend found out, and she says if I don't tell him, she will, and I think if he has to hear it, he might as well hear it from me. This friend is very stubborn, she thinks telling him will shame me into quitting, or maybe that if he asks me to, I'll quit. I have no idea how he'll react. He's only a friend right now, but I want it to become something more, and I'm afraid this will hinder that or prevent it completely. What do I do? As I said, my friend is stubborn and there is no way I can talk her out of it. Please help! BTW-Please don't tell me 'just stop cutting yourself'. It's not that easy.
If you were to choose between your best friend or your crush who would you pick?
I have a guy as a best friend and we both agree that we will never date each other. we don't want to take the chance of messing our friendship up. but if you think your friendship can take it and that it will last, go for it. cause crushes don't last long usually.
Should I tell my best friend that I've crush on her? Is it a good idea?
Let's look at possible course of action you could take & its consequences.Possibility A: She likes you "like that".The "like that" part is something a guy would never understand and this is probably most important for a girl. If you think she does. Go ahead - tell her. Have a happy life.Possibility B: She doesn't like you "like that".Welcome to the "friendzone".If she doesn't like you "like that" then there is nothing you can possibly do to change that.The best course of action would be move on. Try someone else. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Currently you are blind and cannot see it.Telling her would only ruin your friendship and she wont be comfortable with you ever again. And having a girl best friend helps you understand women in a better way & you learn to appreciate their point of view. Girl best friend will be more open to you than your girlfriend.
Is it mean that my friends make fun of my Crush I like?
OK, Well lately my friends have been insualting my taste in guys, and making fun of the guy I like. Like, there saying " EWW! why do you like him so much hes so ugly!" and " Look at his face! its butt ugly!" or " you have really bad taste in guys. why do you like him?" I hate there opinions. It bothers me alot. Hes not like a nerd or anything. I think hes totally fine.
Do girls feel weird after you tell them you have a crush on them?
It depends on if you know them for a while or not. But yes regardless girls are flattered if you say you like them. Unless your the creeper of the class then she is freaked out XD. But on a serious note if you only know a girl for 2 days and tell her you like her then she will probably think its for one thing. Or that its because shes pretty or something. To girls knowing them for 2 days is not enough time to truly like someone. And if you can tell that they do not like you back do not push it. SAy something like, you do not what anything to be awkward and blahblah. As the person said above me. (the answer above mine) And be a nice guy ok? Sure girls like bad boys but they love love nice guys. Guys who can make them laugh and can listen to them and etc etc. XD (you have to love yahoo answers, you can get girls to tell you what to do to get a date XD) And one more thing, if you can tell they do not want a hug, do not give them one anyway! That is so annoying. Anyway to fix it you should get her a present (something that is not what a date would give ex: chocolate flowers etc. Or write her a note. That says you just want to be friends again. And if she decides to talk to you again and your friends again like normal, DO NOT at all "hint" about trying to ask her out or stuff like that. At least not right now. Let it sit a while, and in time she may come to like you back.