I'm 13,and my boyfriend likes touching me sexually :/?
Tell him how you feel. Please, before it's too late. there is a huge difference between 15 and 13 btw. It doesn't seem like it...but...there is. He is nothing but a perv....if he only wants sex...he's not worth it.
Would you stop talking to a guy friend if your boyfriend asked you to do it?
I stopped talking to anyone that made him feel u comfortable. Truelly, boys and girls can’t be friends ( most of the time). They befriend in hopes of a relationship or sex.I had a really good friend that was a boy. But he never valued the friendship, he was using it to get with me. After pretending to be my Friend for a while he told me he liked me. After he finally realized I only ever wanted his friendship, he tried to grope me in his car then a week later blocked me on everything. All that friendship we built meant so little to him.I think if a guy shows interest in being friends suddenly it’s for a different reason ( sex or a relationship). NOT a friendship. They don’t value that at all. they can be friends with ANY girl, it’s easy. With guys it’s usually never just friendship.
Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to stop talking to a female friend of his?
Yes, it is wrong.You find it wrong when she used to give massages to him in the office, or she used to hug him, Right? You may be right, they must not get that physical in front of you. But tell me does the guy love you? Really? How do you know? How can you judge him? Just because he said so? People these days don’t know the meaning of LOVE.Listen dear, this may sound rude and make you feel bad.. But just put 1 small, minute thing into your brain. When a guy says he loves you from the core of his heart, or he wants to spend the entire life with you or any of that mushy talk, you might feel that he loves you. But in reality a guy would show his love not by his words, but by his actions.If he would have loved you and cared for your feelings, he would never ever have let that girl behave like what she does in your presence or absence. If he pushes a girl away who makes such a move in your absence that is love.If you think they must not talk just because you are together now, so let me make it clear to you. You don’t own the person, nor would you ever. You can make a person yours just when he wants to be yours.If you find something inappropriate in a relation between your boyfriend and his female-friend, just make it clear to your boyfriend. If he actually loves you, he would take care of that girl, or any girl in that matter.You must not take matters into your hands by talking to that female-friend. You are simply destroying your relationship with her and breaking her heart by your cheap talks.**P.S.: I don’t want to be rude or arrogant, but I have been into the place of that female-friend and I know how it feels when we were not wrong but still some one teaches you how to behave with one of your best-friend, and how that silence of the guy breaks my heart till date. How my relation with of them is still in tatters. All three of us regret our words after about 3 years of that incident but there is no turning back now.**
What should I do about my boy crazy best friend?
I love my best friend and I always want to be there for her but sometimes it's just so hard when she is so obsessed with boys. She likes/dates a new guy every single week. This summer she has gone WAY to far. She told me a month ago that she was in "love" with this guy she knew from her church and he was a very nice guy but he didn't even like her and just wanted to be friends. He started to like her a little bit. Throughout this whole "in love" phase she like other guys at the same time and even dated guys but only for a few days never kissing them or even really hanging out with them. Eventually one days the guy she was in love with was very rude to her and her "love" for him instantly went away. Now she went to this camp for two weeks that just ended and bet this boy named Collin. I haven't met him, but he's apparently nice. They hung out and she broke up with him after not even dating for 24 hours. Now today she called me and said she hooked up with some boy that she only met a couple days ago because he is going to go to our school next year. They built there friendship through phone calls and facebook chat. She said they were going out now and that she really likes him. He is going into 12th grade and we are going into 9th. The past few weeks have been ridiculous. She's met guys on facebook, got there numbers and then gave me stories about how she liked them "beyond belief!" IM SO DONE WITH THIS. I love her but she's starting to gain a trait she's never had before. I hate this :/ everytime I try to explain to her what she's doing she agrees with me and then goes behind my back. Then I end up being right because the guy hurts her feelings and breaks her heart. . . . Then she moves on the next one. It's like some ridiculous cycle. -___-
How to make boys go crazy for you???
The girls that get my attention are the ones who don't seem to want it. I hate "attention seeking" behavior; excessive make-up, flirting & wearing of designer brands or trashy clothes and anything else that screams "look at me!" is a huge turn off to most guys. We're usually looking for the confident girls who have their own style, and (seemingly) don't care if you notice them or not. I'm not saying play hard to get, or completely give up cosmetics, just be yourself and try not to pay too much attention to how others see you. If he's the right guy for you, he'll be trying to get your attention.
Friend acting like a whore, advice?
I've known my friend since when, 1st grade? We were best friends and everything, and I went away to a different school for three years and here I am in freshman year with someone who I thought was my best friend. Here, I'll just cut to the chase. My friend has a boyfriend, but she flirts like crazy with every guy even with him right there. She always says "oh my god, my friend told me she could hook me up with ______" and I'm kinda sitting there like, uh, you have a boyfriend, remember? Today she was playing the nervous game with a guy and she let him go under her shirt into her bra and feel up her boobs. AND SHE HAS A FCKING BOYFRIEND! She's acting like a whore, and I need advice on how to make her see what she does is wrong. I feel sorry for her poor boyfriend, being treated like that. I don't think she even likes him. But anyways, help please?
My boyfriend has a lot of female friends. They text him as often as I do, and it makes me jealous. They even send him selfies and want him to send selfies back. It feels like they're waiting for us to break up. How do I let go of this frustration?
In a way, this is completely normal and a scenario that happens all the time. As a guy, I can attest to the fact that, regarding attention from women, "when it rains, it pours." Basically, whenever I've been in a relationship, a ton of other women come out of the woodwork all of a sudden, and are flirtatious with me. This causes a point of friction with my girlfriend, who hates the "competition". I'll tell you a version of what I tell my girl.They aren't popping up because I woke up today and suddenly found myself richer and hotter; they only want me now because they see that someone else has me. People want what they can't have, this seemingly goes double for attraction. Any smart man understands this, and doesn't let it phase him. Moreover, being in a relationship must mean that I'm dateable and date-worthy - that is, someone finds me attractive, thus I must be! So, my social "stock" (for lack of a better term) goes up, raising my perceived "value," which raises demand even further (which raises my value even more, and on and on).What does all this nonsense mean for you? That as a smart "investor," you picked a winning stock early on, and are reaping the rewards. Does Warren Buffet get jealous when he makes a stock pick, and everyone and their dog tries to buy in as well? No, he kicks back, satisfied with his investing acumen, and (in my mind's eye) says "suck it bandwagoners!" As should you: you made a good pick, and now everyone else is trying to say "ooh I want in too!" But he's yours, and you should be a little smug instead of jealous. Confidence in your boyfriend and his fidelity is key. If you act neurotic and jealous, he'll either a) eventually get frustrated and wonder why you're so insecure (ie are you worried he'll find someone better? maybe he should?); or b) understand your insecurity, and leverage it to get his way. Either option isn't good, to put it mildly. So outflank his friends, be confident because it's sexy and self-assuredness is self-perpetuating. (It's a fine balance between arrogance and confidence, so be mindful!) His friends will smell you being the confident alpha, and know that your bond is unshakeable by those who occupy the cheap seats in the stadium. And remember: just as much as you picked him, HE picked YOU as well - not any of those other girls! So shoulders back, chest out, and eyes up…you're the alpha in the room, and never forget it.
A female friend stole my boyfriend. She pisses me off. I feel so uncomfortable. What do I do? How do I get through it?
I'm gonna tell you a personal anecdote of a somewhat similar situation: I had a friend "S" for about 10 years. Best friend. We spent every single day together. We fell out of contact, but reconnected. She introduced me to "J" who I immediately liked. In the past they had a flirtation, but no relationship. She explicitly told me she wasn't interested, and I made my intention to pursue "J" very clear. Everything was fine. One day, I went camping for a week with my family. Come to find out that while I was gone, she not only tried to hook up with "J", but also told a mutual friend that she "could steal him from [me] if [she] wanted to. Some friends are real, true, ride or die friends. Some people see friendship as competition. Who can do the best, look the best, get the best, etc. Basically, I was never aware I was in competition. I was lucky because "J" didn't do anything with her, and I'm sorry to hear you weren't as fortunate. We have been the last to know about the race we're running. I ended that friendship with "S" since she did this with several of her so-called friends, and was all around not a nice person. I suggest you stay away from this "friend." She is toxic, and unless you don't mind everything being a race to the finish line, I would say back away slowly and find a new friend.