My mom still thinks I’m working. Should I tell my mom the truth that I quit my new job on the same day?
If you’re on your own (of majority age, living on your own, paying your own way), she probably has no need to know. If you felt comfortable sharing the information, you would not be posting this question. Adult children are not accountable to their parents for how they live their lives, though some parents tend to disagree. I think those parents may have forgotten the day they broke free from their own parents.
Is it haram to tell your mom the truth if it hurt her feelings?
No, as long as it is done in a respectful way. Most people including Mom’s appreciate honesty.
Should I tell my parents the truth?
okay basically I don't know whether to tell my parents the truth or not, this is going to sound pathetic but this is how it is and I just need some advice, I am 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who I am madly in love with and I've been with her for a year now. She dosent live far away but far enough to make it very difficult to see her most days after school for a few hours because of the time taken to travel to her and back etc. 2 or 3 times in a month she invites me to stay over at her place because only on those days do I get to spend time with her properly and everything, Her parents are extremely nice and are always so welcoming and I love going over to hers for the night because I love spending time with her. There is one problem though, my parents. They've always had a negative view about me spending any time with girls because they see it as a distraction/waste of time and I highly doubt theyre view has changed since I turned 18. Every time I've slept over at hers I've made an excuse to my parents saying I'm going to a party or something but now its got to the point where my parents think I'm turning into this huge alcoholic when infact I dislike alcohol and I rarely ever drink, and they think I'm going out every other weekend to party and cause trouble. I don't know whether to tell my parents that all I simply do is spend time with her because I dont get to most days like other couples but I'm scared that because of how my parents attitude towards girls they are going to say no and stop me from going at all. They aren't really aware I'm in a relationship let alone a very serious one. I just need as much advice as possible just anything would help a lot please. Thankyou and sorry for it being so long
Should I tell my mom the truth about not studying for my final? I don’t want to be punished and I learnt my lesson.
The good news is that your problem is almost over! What you don’t know is your mom is well aware just how much you studied and like you has her fingers crossed that you will do well. I am not going to give you permission to lie to your mom. You sound like a good kid with no reason to feel guilty. You are allowed to make mistakes if you learn from them.Kiss mom goodbye the morning of test, assure her you are confident. Go take that test! When it’s over know that you did your best. That’s what you tell your mom when she brings it up. Have a great Christmas with your family and friends. Message me next year when you get your test back!
Should I tell my mom about the hickey?
You're 18 years old, which means you are an adult. If you and your mom have a good relationship, you should be able to talk to her about certain things. You don't need to go into serious detail, just say something like "mom, I want to let you know what's going on in my life so that you'll always trust me, because I know that's important. I was kissing my boyfriend the other day and he left a hickey on my neck...I know it doesn't look good, but we're not having sex.".........I'm not saying that's perfect, but if you want her to trust you, you have to let her in a little bit. Especially when you have a kissing mark that she'll see eventually anyway.
How do I convince the truth to my mom? Or scan for dates fingerprints or something...?
So recently I got my hdmi cord taken away then the other day my mom called me to the living room to ask why the living room tv’s hdmi was unplugged on one end so now she thinks it’s definitely me who did it when it’s not me... I need help because nothing I do convinced her!!
My mom keeps asking if I'm a lesbian. Should I finally tell the truth?
If you are, it will help you and your mother to understand and accept the truth. It would be the beginning of an honest relationship that may benefit from professional support, but it will end with a better sense of identity for you and a confidence in your mothers loce.
WHY do people get MAD when you tell them the truth?
OKAY but she will start talkin to ME first and it's when I say soemthing that doesn't AGREE with her THEN she gets mad( guess I should have been more specific about THAT) like she literally loses her temper and tells me to "shut-up- WHO asked you?" and she is the one who has asked me- i just let her go off because she IS my mom but this is thing that is like a generational curse...my GRANDMOTHER does the exact same thing- just behave IRRATIONALLY .but when you TELL them that it DOEA sound to them like you are saying that the are bad.ANY mature and SECURE person should be able to take critism, especially if I can take it from her and it ISN'T always TACTFUL -if you know what I mean-Just because you are a parent doesn't EXCUSE you to talk to your children ANY kind of way. They are people with likes and dislikes JUST like you and should not be devalued...and WORDS stick!!
How do I tell my parents the truth about what I'm doing and things about my social life without them taking advantage of it?
Alright my solution is probably bad but hear me out and think carefully of what I write cause this keyboard hates me at the moment and this could mean a lot of thingsfirst is do tell them, find the best place to tell them,have a friend that will let chill with them in case things go wrong and you have somewhere you can besecond is tell them this line “doesn’t everyone say you have to be 18 to make your own decisions and for parents not to boss their kids anymore?” I have been told that a lot over my years and I call it bullshet (i don't know how some people are with some words so shet)just because you leave your phone behind and loggin does not mean they can just look at it,they need to back the fuk up and let you have your privacy because you are now a mature woman that can be independent by herself and is brave enough to ask her parents for advice when she needs it,you have been trueful to them ever since ,don't let them regret it and have you telling them lies from on because they should be happy enough with having a daughter that loves and tells the truth to them