Why is my boyfriend suddenly so serious? but he acts like nothing is wrong; i feel like he's hiding something?
the thing here is that my boyfriend has been kinda...off. he's the type to have something to talk about most of the time, and we tell each other everything, we're like bff's. now it's like i talk to him about something, idk, anything, and he's supposed to react to it, u kno, to show me that he is listening. and he doesn't, it's very weird. something is off. he'd always laugh with me and share anecdotes with me, but now he's just kinda shut down. i calmly ask him what going thru his mind but he inmediatley sgrugs off that serious face he has, smiles reassuringly and tells me nothing is wrong, but after a while he has that face again, that mood. i'm afraid something is wrong. i know he really does want to be with me bcuz i had broken up a week ago with him bcuz of many problems we had in our relationship, but he looked terrible when i broke it off. he looked very repentant for not aprecciating me. i put some conditions if we were going to get back together. and he was acheiving them but we got back into a slump. what's wrong? what if he's cheated? ugh idk wht to think anymore. wht could be going thru his mind? do i break it off again and definitively?
How to tell my boyfriend i have HIV?
I can only imagine your situation. I was diagnosed in 2002, but both my husband and I found out together (after 3 yrs of marriage...hubby's neg.) I read your question, and had to take a deep breath and exhale. I know you are only 14. BUT, having been living with this virus since birth, you have to know what an important part communication plays in battling this virus. You really should have told him before you had sex with him (even protected sex puts him at risk) ...exhaling :-) ... what's done is done. Now, you need to do the moral, legal, and responsible thing. Sit down with him. Tell him how you feel about him. I imagine you hadn't told him for fear of loosing him, so explain that to him when you tell him about your HIV status. Expect the worse. You have 14 year experience with this virus. He will only have a few minutes. He may need time to take in all the information. My husband was in his 30's when he heard the news and it was quite shocking (for both of us) It can only harder on a teen. The reason I'm so adamant about this is that I was infected by someone who did not share his HIV status with me. And it wasn't until I was married with children that I found out.
This is serouse, How do you tell your boyfriend...?
ok i was Melseted for the thrid time in my life while i was dating my boyfriend, i didnt tell him becuase i felt i had cheated on him but after talking to people i came to face i was melseted again. he knows about the first two times but i dont know how to tell him about this i love him so much and dont want him to break up with me or not trust me becuase i didnt tell him soon enough what do i do???
How do I talk to my boyfriend about the things that bother me without nagging him or making myself sound whiny?
If something bothers you, you owe it to him to explain what it is in an adult manner. Take a walk and discuss it. BUT, be careful not to sound like you are nagging or whining. I'd start with, "Look, there is something that's been sort of bothering me, and I'd like to talk about it because I think you are unaware of it, and I know you're not a mind reader." Then you need to explain the specific behavior that occurs and how it makes you feel and what you'd like him to do instead. End by asking for his agreement. For example, if he spends too much time playing games on his phone while he's out with you, then you say something like, "Mike (or whatever his name is - names have power. Use it!), I've noticed that when we are hanging out together, you spend a majority of the time playing games on your phone, and that leaves me feeling a little unappreciated and neglected. I'd prefer that you put the phone away and focus on me when we're on a date because that would make me feel like I'm important to you. Would you be willing to do that?" Then if he agrees, smile, look him in the eye, and thank him for listening/hearing you out. If it is several things you want to unload all at once, you need to prepare him by saying, "Mike, we need to talk." All guys immediately think they are in trouble or screwed up the whole relationship when they hear those words, so he will be all ears to find out what the problem is. Then you start by telling him all of the things you like/love/appreciate about him and about your relationship, BUT there are a few things that you are not so happy about, and ask him if it's a good time to talk about them (being on a walk while having a conversation like this is useful because you are side by side, not facing each other. It's easier to express yourself in a gentle manner, and he won't be over analyzing your every facial expression. The message is a little easier for him to swallow since he doesn't have to look you in the eye). Then be honest. Again, avoid nagging, lecturing, etc., tell him what he does that you don't like, how it makes you feel, and what you want him to do instead. Best of luck to you!
If your boyfriend promised you something very important and then broke it what would you do... but what if it?
find out if he had a legitmate reason, if not FIND A NEW BOYFRIEND!
Why does my boyfriend laugh at me when we have a serious issue?
Every time that I worry about something or get upset over something he did, he will laugh or smile at me while I'm explaining how I feel. I ask him why are you laughing and he will say "I don't know because it's funny." Then I'll remind him how serious the situation is and he will stop laughing. I've told him how disrespectful it is of him but, he still does it. Maybe it's because, he is nervous or because he doesn't think the problems are serious. How do you talk to someone like this? The issue is that I'm pregnant for him and I'm worried about the consequences. He also told one of his friends about it at a casino! We are from a very small town (2,000 people) and rumors spread so, fast here. We haven't told our parents yet and I'm afraid that rumors will get to my parents before I get the chance to tell them. I'm 22 years old; he's 23. I'm more than capable of supporting myself and my baby. I have a bachelors degree and good job. I'm asking how do I deal with a boyfriend who laughs at these issues? Or should I even deal with him?
How to tell your strict parents you have a boyfriend?
I was in the same position sister!!!! U need to put all ur trust into them when u walk up to them. Act like it's nothing serious/major. Just say, hey mum, dad, I have something to tell u and I'm not gonna tell u if u make it a huge complication. Stay serious k? If u laugh or something, they'll know. Stay serious so they know ur taking it seriously, k? Just say I have a bf. That's the hardest part but once u let it out of ur system, u feel relieved!! Really:) tell them about him. Tell them he treats u good or that u've known him long enough to be going out with him. Tell them u won't do sex or anything inappropriate with him that'll make them feel uncomfortable but they need to trust u. Tell them that they can trust u and u know what ur doing:)) good luck and God bless you:)) Jackie