How can I stop sounding rude when I don't realize I am doing it?
Always do it with a smile. You will leave them wondering if you are being blunt or just funny. Eventually they will accept you as you are. Accept yourself first. And use it to your advantage. I am very blunt to everyone. But I am cordial and I even got friends, who come up to me with their problems, because I have a very "realistic" way to look at the world. I "read" them better than they read themselves. And after people realize that this is who I am, they actually like me more for it. I have another friend, she is a shrink and I find it funny, the ammount of self issues she has of her own. So she loves to enroll on more "profound" conversations about life with me.As long as you speak the truth, does not matter if you are blunt. People will like to talk to you. But be aware not to confuse being blunt to being rude. They are 2 different things. It is all about the tone you use. You may also find some of us have a lot of “reasons” for our bluntness. “Reasons” being just the adult word for excuses. Change the phisycal emotion you tend to show in your responce to a smile and you will be fine.
How do you know what the right thing to do is?
Right thing, a tricky question to answer because right thing is subjective it changes from person to person but still there are times in our lives when the most difficult things are right thing and we do it just because they are right.Let me enumerate the factors that give a clear idea that what we are doing is right.You will always have “ Peace of mind”, right thing always yield positive energy that will help you restore your strength even in adverse circumstances,You will feel “fearless”, no matter whether people are against you, verbally slam you,backbiting about you these things will not deviate you,it may cause stress but always remember that greatest lessons are learnt the hardest way.You will “never regret” your decisions or conversations if it was the right thing to be discussed or told.You will have deaf ears to how and what people talk about you because its common that when you are right you often get rivals, and they work together to shatter you, thats the time when you sheild your esteem by being deaf to badmouthing that goes around about you.Thus whenever you feel the adrenaline rush or an intense mood to decide what is right or wrong may be above points will be of help, its what I treasured through life experience. A skill to define “right”.
How do you discipline a cat without hitting him?
A cat understands pattern and tones, they don’t understand authority and dominance.When you play with your cat and your pleading your cat in high pitch soft “ow ow ow kitty let go”What cat hears is “friendly play play play more play!” and the cat won’t stop.So rather than conveying words, convey tone.If you like to convey “no” convey the stern serious “tone” and the cat will ‘feel’ what you mood his actions have caused. At first he will be confused to ‘why’ but if you keep up the pattern of claws = stern tone, eventually the cat will figure out the pattern and learn to withdraw the claws to continuously play.Make sure to keep your actions matched with tone. Continuously playing while saying ‘no’ is saying yes and no and yes and no and yes and you get my point.Also give them pleasant friendly tones when they are doing something that pleases you and entice them with rewards so they do so again.Cats are also pretty smart and their brains are differently wired than dogs.To cats, authority is temporary obstacle. ‘Long as the hooman is there I will get screams and butt smacked for doing that one thing, I’ll wait.’ The cat then will do what it wants to do when you are not in the room.So how to keep cats in-line without your authority?Make the spot unappealing. You want cats off couch? Scent it with lemon, put down foils, tape on the bed. The cat will get stinging smell and offensive sensation on their paws. Same with counters, beds, or anything you want them off of. Also giving them something allowed (pretty much a cat furniture) next to forbidden place will give them the option to compromise.Give them a choice, the hellish sense offending human spot vs the pleasant cat furniture next to it. The cat will stick to the cat furniture and once it becomes a habit, you will no longer have to keep spraying lemon and take off the tape on the human furniture.On side note, your cat wants to be part of your family and scent is important. They want to exchange scents to feel part of the family. How they do that is to rub on you and contact places where people hang around a lot. This often happens to be your spot on the couch, your favorite chair, your bed. Keep in mind your cat never plans or thinks of what happens and is only fufilling its needs.
One arm becoming more toned and strong than the other?
okay here is what it is your naturally right handed therefor you do a lot more with your right arm so it is naturally going to be stronger but you can change it by using weight according to that weak arm until they are even in a study it said that a person's dominant arm can be 80% stronger than the weak arm so just lift on the left to let it catch up good luck
Help with toning up my pecs?
You could do crunches, they're hard to do loads but good for the abs and I cant do push ups either, although im a girl so i have more of an excuse xD if I do randomly try to do some i put my feet on the sofa and then do it like that if that make sense.. its better than none, anyway i think that does your arms not your abs... Also, the crunch machine at the gym is amazing, its easy & theres weights so you can increase how much u do, i love it i had a lovely toned stomach b4 i went to the US and had like 4 dunkin donuts a day for a month, ...then i hurt my ankle so had to be in a wheelchair in disney for a few days... at least we got to the front of the que lol I'm guna stop talking now.. :) Female doing crunch.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqoD0Bdgg... Male doing crunch... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1TUquBnXi... .. Depends on your preference ;)
How do I improve my skin tone naturally?
Drink water:- Remember this,the more water you drink the better your skin gets.Remove make up before bed:- Always remember to remove your make up before you sleep , its always a good idea to apply a nigh cream to hydrate your skin throughout the night.Workout:- When you workout you sweat and when you sweat your skin releases all the toxins and the clogged pores get cleaned naturally.Aloe vera:- This is a magical gel which can change your skin completely if used properly and if it suits you. Crack open a aloe vera by cutting in through and rub it on your skin raw. Keep it for few hours. It will leave your skin glowing.Stop using towels on your face:- buy a tissue roll and see the difference in your skin.Go natural :- Try to use natural products on your face instead of chemicals . Homemade facepacks will do wonders to your skin .Green tea facepack :- I swear by this facepack and use this twice a week. Mix yoghurt,lemon juice,turmeric powder and some green tea leaves. This face pack will leave your skin supple and smooth.Brown sugar and honey as face scrub :- This will remove the dead skin and leave your skin looking vibrant and beautiful.Sunscreen :- Even if you peep outta window in this weather put a sunscreen and save your skin ,love it more than your boyfriend and you will never regret it .Clean eating:- The best thing you can do for your skin is stop having sugar . Trust me it makes a huge difference. I haven't had any sugar for the last 2 months and everyday my skin only gets better.I follow everything which i wrote here and hardly use any makeup. I am gonna be 30 in 4 months and this is how i look right now