If your ex tells you, she is pregnant with your baby, would you believe her? Would you be able to ignore her without knowing if it is true or not?
First of all if your ex says she is pregnant. Simple, go buy a pregnancy test kit. If it's positive. Ask her if it's yours. Let's say she says yes…ask if she wants yo keep the baby, also ask her if she is ready to settle down with you, let her know you are ready, if and only if there is proof the baby belongs to you.Now you have two options.DNA testing before birth (vilinus sampling could be very expensive).Wait till full term support her like it's yours then after birth do a full DNA test (might waste 9 months of your life)It's better to act now. It might seem to be a nuisance. But it could be worse. Imagine 18 later some angry teen comes to your house unannounced during dinner to disturb you, your wife and your 3 year old. And says good evening sir are you so and so person?, and you answer yes. OK cool I am your son, you left my mum and I to rot away. You are a Carlos and wicked man.Now you muat do the paternity DNA TEST you ignored 18 years ago, and you have to explain to your new wife, and kid, and friends and folks at work and they would all think I'll of you.Just do the right thing.A stitch in time saves nine
Why do some teen girls lie about being pregnant?
Sometimes its to stay in a relationship with someone (you know tie them down), sometimes its to get "attention" although I don't know why they want that attention, to be "popular" (still don't see the point), trying to prove something to the world, just to join the crowd... I don't see why anybody would want a baby at that age! Or why they'd even wanna fake that they were pregnant or try to get pregnant... I understand if it happened on accident, but to want it on purpose and fake a pregnancy is downright terrible! A guy won't stay around some chick who's crazy enough to joke around with teenage pregnancy, its not funny. They think they can handle a baby or even fake being pregnant. Its not ok, its not funny, its not cute and its sure as hell not anything good. To want to have a baby at that age isn't ok, especially with lies that could already screw up other people's lives. What if one of those girls' boyfriend decides to kill himself so he won't have to take care of a baby? What if one of their parents has a heart attack just from hearing the news? What if the "father" gets beat up and severely injured by the girl's parents? Its not something to mess around with and some people think they can. Its just to get attention, they think "16 and Pregnant" is glamourous, they think that tying down a man with lies is a good thing. They think lying and joking about having a miscarriage is funny. Well those girls seem to be out of touch, bit messed in the head. They don't know what they're talking about, they don't know the real world and they sure as hell don't know how to be civilized. I'm glad you are there to support your future kid, and that you are stepping up and being a real woman rather than acting like a little girl and passing it off as nothing. Thank you for taking things seriously, you give me a bit of hope :) I hope you and your baby/future family have a good life and I wish you nothin but the best
If you found out you were pregnant at a young age, how would you tell your parents?
I was 18 and just transferring to the university when I found out I was expecting my now 18 year old son with my then boyfriend and now husband (and father to each of my/our four children). I told my mother and my father--they are divorced. I was honest about everything. There wouldn't be any point in lying, anyway. My father stopped talking to me and my mother said she loved me and would help me in whatever way necessary.I don't recommend being unmarried or under 21 years of age for first-time-parenthood, but it isn't the end of the world. My 18 year old is graduating is first round of college on my birthday this year. It took me some time, but I also managed to graduate from college, as well. The world did not end. No one died. And I didn't have to wear a scarlet letter or anything like it.As I have a daughter and three sons, I find pregnancy to be one of the silliest things to get angry about. Life happens. It is what you do to make things work that matters. Ideally, all children should have a mom and a dad that have a great, stable background/finances, but life generally doesn't take the ideal path. It's “what happens while you're busy making plans”. I hope my children will wait a bit longer than we did, but I'll never make them feel bad about being less than perfect, because, well, aren't we all?It is best to be honest with parents. They may not be nice, but if they aren't, reach out to crisis pregnancy groups, friends and others. Don't think you have to kill a child for existing inconveniently. As difficult as the beginning was, my 18 year old is the light of my life and my kids are the best thing that ever happened to me. I would not trade them for anything or any path that might have been easier.
How do I tell my daughter that I'm pregnant with her boyfriend's baby?
I've made some mistakes in my life. I had my daughter when I was 17. I'm only 34 so I'm still young and learning. My daughter is 17. When she approached me last year about going out with Daniel, I was somewhat against it because of the age difference. She was 16 and he was 18. I knew that she would just lie and sneak around behind my back if I had forbidden it, so I allowed them to date. Then my daughter was in an awful car accident on the way home from a ballet concert in Chicago. Her car was struck by a drunk driver going 90 mph. They had to remove her from the accident with the jaws of life and barely survived in the hospital. The accident shattered her spine and her left leg had to be amputated. Despite my daughter's confinement in a wheelchair, Daniel stayed with her, helping her adjust to her new life. Unfortunately, my daughter stopped having sex with Daniel, and as a man, he had needs that someone had to fulfill. As I grew to know Daniel, my feelings toward him started to change. Rather than looking at him as my daughter's boyfriend, I started seeing him as being a dating prospect for myself. I started wearing miniskirts, short shorts, and bikinis around the house whenever he came to visit my daughter. His feelings changed too and we started having sex everyday. There were a couple times that my daughter almost caught us. My daughter has no idea that me and her boyfriend have been having sex. Daniel is no longer interested in her and says she has become a burden to our sex life. I want to be with Daniel. At 19, he's extremely mature, sexy, talented, and he makes good money. I just found out that I'm pregnant with Daniel's baby. He is very excited and so am I. Now, how do I tell my daughter I'm pregnant with her boyfriend without hurting her? Do I kick her out of the house? I don't know what to do. Please help.
How do I tell my ex I'm pregnant for someone else?
hmm.. This story sound every similar to my own.. I love my ex with all my heart.. We broke up I moved 8hrs away to get him out of my mind got pregnant within a month.. Came back home pregnant&confused We as well tried for a baby for two years with no luck.. My ex is the love of my life &one of my best friends.. I lied &said the baby was his.. Of course he saw right threw the lie We did speak until I was 7mos.. He started to come around say that things were okay that love was still there spite the lies but of course there's a new girl n the picture.. Which still leaves me out in the cold.. Now he's going threw a rough patch was the law/brain&heart surgery I'm not there to care for him.. Thing is I would be there if I weren't being stupid in June by leaving him for good. It hurts.. More than I could ever truely explain I wish u better luck than I & look on the bright side at least y'all have y'all health &freedom Also u have ur friend by ur side supporting u.. At least ur not alone like I.. Ur ex will come around if the love is strong.. 10yrs there still has to be passion there some where Jus don't lie it makes matters worse Tell him u love him That ur sorry for the mistakes u might have made.. Pour ur heart out Good luck!! If u love him don't let him go without a fight But remember stress isn't good for the baby so don't get to deep Oh ps I was doing the ovaring thing when I got pregnant with my son :(
I am 20 and my girlfriend is 17 and 2 weeks pregnant?
Alright, I'm going to try to be on your side here since everyone else seems to want to attack you. First, she's not 2 weeks pregnant. By the time you expect a period you're 4 weeks pregnant even though you didnt concieve till two weeks earlier. They count weeks by how many weeks it's been since your last period. So if she got pregnant 2 weeks ago, she's probably 4 weeks pregnant. Confusing I know....moving on. I do NOT condone abortion, I honestly believe there's no excuse at ALL to have an abortion, but that's my belief and I wont force it on anyone else. That being said, send her to Planned Parenthood. They do not require an adult to be present for an appointment, and they are 100 percent confidential. They have resources for how to get abortions or set up adoptions without the need to tell parents. She will have to lie about you though unless she wants you to get a pedophile record. While I don't think three years is a big deal, the law is the law and Planned Parenthood, as well as every other doctor on earth is required by law to report these kinds of things, so let her know not to tell them how old you are unless she wants you arrested. Good luck, have her get birth control (it's usually free) while she's at Planned Parenthood. Oh and let her know if she does something stupid to cause a miscarriage, she could kill herself or scar her reproductive organs so badly she'll never be able to have kids when she's ready.
What are chances of ex-girlfriend lying about being pregnant?
My brother came back for military leave. 2 days before he had to go back he broke up with his girlfriend (she was such a drama queen) and she told him right after that she is pregnant. He went back to the base freaked out. She says she doesn't want anything from him, but she keeps calling all his friends saying she is pregnant. Here are the facts: They used protection. She refused to take test he gave her. She said she has a note from a doctor that states that she is 2 weeks pregnant and she will mail the note to him. She said the doctor did urine test to determine her term. I know urine test can't determine term, and she is being lying way too much. But there is a small chance that she is not lying about it. She said she wants to keep it and doesn't want anything from my brother. I think, if she doesn't want anything why does she keep calling everybody???
My ex girlfriend is apparently pregnant with my baby, how do I move forward?
The same way my husband moved forward.He wasn't sure if the baby was his, since the girl he fathered a child with had a massively bad record of making her rounds. Having one of his friends live with her for a couple of months made it that much worse in his eyes.He had thought it would tear us apart because we were just getting together and she was still pregnant. We had a discussion that we both agreed we didn't want a relationship with someone with kids already. Just because of this didn't mean I was to up and leave. He was honest with me.Anyways….The baby was born. They arranged for a paternity test to take place. They did some shady online thing. Where she had admitted to testing other men too. There was no names on it so it wasn't good enough for him. Though it was shady he didn't want to neglect the child simply because her mother did shady things. We arranged to have her every other weekend. (We got 2 weekends then found out I was pregnant. Had an argument and he blurted that crap out to her. After several attempts of her trying to bust us up to try get something going with him) after the announcement of my pregnancy she flipped. Started the process of hitting him on child support. Demanding back pay.Back to my original point.If there's any doubt to get a paternity test then to start working out an arrangement if you would like to be in the childs life. Also you could discuss with her how you could help her. After all it takes two to make a baby. If she decides to have an abortion then you could offer to be there to support her. The best you could do is support her and you can move forward with your working. Having a kid with an ex is not the end of the world.
My parents found out I had "sex" with my EX-boyfriend and I'm 14 years old. HELP! I don't know what to do...?
Alright. Firstly, let me say your ex is a scumbag. ANd in a religious perspective, is NOT a true christian. So if your religious like me, dont take justice into your own hands. God will take care of that. And if your an atheist, than dont turn to violence for gratification. It will make it worse. Dont tell him off either. SO this guy didnt care about you. He was using you. I understand completely as a teenager how hard it is to resist peer pressure. So i understand your situation. Dont beat yourself down. Everybody does stupid things and makes mistakes. Its apart of life. So this is what you should do. Before you try to appeal to your friends or your bf and his family, try to regain your familie's trust. Dont try to argue with them and say "i didnt do it". because half the time, that NEVER works. JUst admit to them you were wrong, you are sorry, and you will never do it again. AT this point, they will probably say something back, and then sit down and tell them what really happened. The whole story, just as you told us, with every detail. Then after you regain your parents trust, you can ask your mom to call your ex's parents and explain what happened so they dont hate you. This guy was a bad man. And he is a liar. Dont go near him. Be careful with your friends as well. Dont tell them everything. If you want to tell someone maybe write it in a diary, and people here on yahoo answers would love to listen and reply. be careful who you trust. Please dont kill yourself. I know you feel really upset inside, but killing yourself will only make your famlily more miserable, and you may tick off your classmates. Plus in a religious sense, i learned that you will not be in heaven if you do. No matter how empty you feel, your not alone. I dont mean to sound like a religious freak here, but maybe this will help. Just pray. Because God can fix anything. I have witnessed his power. I have seen it. Numerous miracles. SO whenever you feel alone, and want to kill yourself, dont do it. You can ask god if he will do it, but dont take a knife and slit your throat. I know you probably dont think prayer will help THAT much, but trust me. Hope i helped