My friend and i got into a huge fight.?
at the end of the school year my friend and i got into a fight. i havent talked to her since may 22. she is moving and i most likely wont ever talk to or see her again. she was one of my best friends and its her fault that we started fighting in the first place. so should i call her befor she moves and try to repair our friendship or just leave cold feelings between us? and is she kicking herself in the head about this like i am?
Me and my best friend got into a huge fight?
ya so me and my friend got into a big fight because friday we were suppose to go to the game and she got of work at 7 and i was waiting and calling ( after 7) and no answers. obviously im ganna get mad. so she finally texts me back at 8:30 and we go to a football game. she tells me i cant stay over her house tonight coz she has to work in the morning to and we cant hangout after the game either. were there for about 30 mins and she says shes going to go home with this girl that lives right by her and drop her off at home and ditches me at the game.( i drove so she didnt totally leave me there) but i later find out that she went to a party with this girl when she was " dropping her of" of course i was furious and she thinks im just being a *****.... so today i said sorry( even tho i didnt do anything) and she goes to another parrty with this girl after work again! when she also told me friday she couldnt hangout either... so wtf do i have the right to be mad at her? and she thinks she did nothing wrong i dont wanna lose her as a friend but she needs to stop doing this to me and apologize. how do i get her to do this??
Me and my best friend got into a HUGE fight?
Me and my best friend got into a HUGE fight over something and she won't even tell me what's wrong. Me and jamie have been friends for most of my life, but she deleted all pics of us off her social media. We're going to the 9th grade. I'm scared that she's never gonna talk to me again and it really hurt me when she took the pictures calling me her "best friend" off her social media. I've been really sad all this week and doing things that usually make me happy makes me more sad because I always end up thinking about her. I don't know what I would do without her. Should I stop trying? Does she even care? Is she as upset as I am? Please help :( Thanks
Huge fight with my best friend, what to do?
You have 2 choices. Either you two talk face to face OR you let go of this kind of friendship. If you choose to talk face to face with her, do be prepared for her to hurl you harsh words. Firstly, your friend and you have both to calm down first so that you two can talk calmly with the situation. Tell her that you have something to say to her and you would appreciate if she would listen to what you have to say and let you talk till end. Tell her that you hope that she won't get mad first and let you finish before you let her say what she's thinking. Tell her what you feel (about her attitude of being bossy and using people). Then tell her that this fight is between you two and you would appreciate it if she didn't dragged in your personal life. Tell her how you feel when she called you names and would she like it if you have been the person who called her those. Tell her that you're sorry too for fighting and scolding back but you only did it to protect your family. After you finish speaking all these to her, ask her whether she have anything to talk to you. After all these, tell her that you hope that this fight would not happen again and you hope that your friendship with her would last. But, if you choose to let go, then do so. (DO NOTE: I'm not trying to take side or anything, I'm just trying to say all these in 2 perspective. Not contradicting what I've said and what I'm going to say next.) Such friendship may be a bit difficult to continue if only 1 person is trying to hold on to this friendship. Friendship should be about both side tolerating one another and if you guys have problems, you should work it out together. If your friend only called you names just in a rush of heat, then you should forgive her. But, if she have always been doing that, then maybe you should think twice about saving this friendship. All the best <3 I hope I've helped you two :)
My best friend and my boyfriend got into huge fight?
So my boyfriend (Josh) of about 2 years and my on and off childhood Best friend (Tara) got into a huge fight when we were all hanging out. Basically Tara said something really insensitive about my boyfriend and it resulted into a long screaming argument where he ended up calling her fat and ugly( Terrible I know). Though he later apologized to her and felt terrible about the whole situation, our mutual friends and Tara now think I should break up with him over it. I feel very stuck in the middle and hurt by the whole situation. I ultimately like Josh more than Tara but don't want to lose our mutual friends. What should I do?
I had a huge fight with a close friend if mine and I don't know what to do? How can I make things right?
I just feel m perfect to answer this. I've my Bestest Friend(the moment I saw her I declared she is my BESTEST, m kinda king of Boasting). Believe me we FIGHT, fight a lot. You won't believe how we set it right.. It's HILARIOUS.If I've messed up things she will just be waiting for me to speak, the moment I text her after our so called "fight", she will be like "fool donkey monkey... Since when m waiting"... :-DOh true friendship is a Blessings you see.. You just need to take one step and you will be surprised your friend is waiting for you. Hope this helps :)
Should I help a friend with whom I just had a huge fight?
There are really two issues, going on here. 1. Is the friend a friend to you? Does this friend treat you right, or use you. Is the friend toxic? Can this issue be fixed, and should this issues be fixed? If so, 2. Try to resolve the issue by talking first. Apologize for anything you did, that you regret, and this will get a weight off your shoulders. Then if this friendship is fixable, you'll want to help her.
I got into a huge fight with my friend group about 10 months ago and all of them are still friends except me, should I try to fix things or let it be?
Honestly, I would say that it depends on several things.For one, what was the fight about? There are some fundamental things over which I would drop a friendship. Without going into what those are for me, is this the case for you? If it was, I’d suggest making new friends with whom you do not have fundamental irreconcilable differences.Second, what was the tone of the argument overall? Were there things said that you (or they) can’t get past? Basically, IS it repairable?Generally, I say that it’s never a bad thing to make peace after an argument, but I can’t say absolutely one way or the other without knowing a lot more.The fact that you are asking inclines me to think that it may be repairable, and worth the attempt. Just be ready for rejection. They may not be as prepared to forgive and forget as you are, although one would always hope that they are.
I had a huge fight with my best friend. Part of it was my fault too. It’s been a week since the fight. I've been trying to make amends as I’m moving to a different city in about a week. What can I do to make things better and resolve the issue?
Any sort of conflict, be it personal or international, can only be resolved by one way of action - communication.You need to talk about whatever happened. Sincerely. You need to accept your fault, you need to apologise for that fault, and you need to ask for their forgiveness. You need to do all the things above only if you're truly adamant of saving this friendship.Just a few days ago I wrote an answer describing why texting doesn't convey our emotions properly. On a voice call, our voice sometimes give away our true feelings. In a face-to-face conversation, the facial expressions say everything there's to be said. So if you've tried apologizing over text, you need to take a step ahead. Calling is a good option, but meeting and talking face-to-face is even better, because in a way it shows your commitment and the sincerity with which you're trying to resolve the matter.This matter involves you and your best friend, so I can safely say that sincerity will come naturally. But be careful, there shouldn't be even a teeny bit of ego in between. No rough feelings. Otherwise there's no point in trying so hard, simple because you won't be trying for the right reasons.Hope this helps. All the best!P.S. Thanks for the answer request. Means a lot.