SHY GUYS, should I send him this message?
2 days ago I sent this guy that I have a crush on a message thru facebook asking how his summer is going. We both had a class together last fall semester, so its been a while. At the time I didn't want to date and when I like a guy, I tend to avoid them lol so he probably thought it was unexpected. He was really shy in class but I'm pretty sure that he liked me because he would act a little nervous around me, avoid eye contact, but he would wait for me after we had tests so we could talk about it and he also was the one that added me on facebook. I know that he has read my message because facebook tells us now lol (God, I feel like a stalker!) but I'm not sure why he wouldn't reply to a simple message asking how his summer is going... Should I explain myself? I was thinking about sending him this: I’m sorry this probably sounds so out of the blue lol it really is I guess, but we never really got a chance to talk that much when we had math class together and I would really like to get to know you more! If you feel the same way, think about texting me sometime, my number is 1234567891 :) I really do like him and I'm tired of obnoxious arrogant guys asking me out! He seems really nice and we both have a lot in common, I just really don't want to screw it up or scare him off... help? lol THANK YOU :)
Is it too late to ask out a girl when the semester is almost done?
Are you in high school or college? Respond in the comments and I'll edit the answer.Anyway, I think I know where your head's at bro. One thing is not to think too much about this. She will not think about it in the terms of manliness that are outlined in the question description. I've asked out girls with about a month left in the school year - once in university and once in high school. Both times were because the time was right then. DO NOT make too big a deal of this. She does not know you have liked her for a long time. DO NOT let her know that. Ask her on a semi-date first. Could be a date, could just be hanging out. Something that requires little preparation, preferably with little time to prepare (so you don't dress for a date and she does not). Like getting a piece of pizza after school today.Don't pick a time to do it by. Try surprising yourself one day. During a conversation, just say, 'hey, I haven't had Mint Chocolate Chip ice cream for a while. Want to get some after school?' Saturday Morning Breakfast CerealSecondly, everyone likes to be asked out. I've always liked people who asked me out a little more, if for no other reason than appreciating their taste in men :)This generally works vice versa. I'll add more soon.
Nice guys, please help! I don't understand his intentions.?
He wants you lol. This is exactly what I do, specifically with my texts. I reply within minutes to my crush and usually apologize if I take a bit long. About the guitar lessons, I'd say that's also a big plus. Guitar isn't exactly hard, but if you're not exactly a teacher it can be a bit hard to teach, so if they were free then yes, it's another huge sign. The other sign I saw is is how he always asks you how your days is, or how it is going. That means he worries, or probably would worry if your day were going bad. I'd say he wants you as more than a friend.
Best guy friend won't call me ?
I'm Junior in college and I met this guy when I was a freshman. He attends the college a few minutes away from mine. We began to hang out a lot and we even tried to hook up two of our friends ... it didn't work out, But that didn't affect our friendship. Eventually, I decided to go back home for school after my first semester but we both continued to talk. We've continued our friendship for two years now. We would text each other at least three times a week and talk on the phone at least once a week. I would occasionally go back the university to visit my friends and I would always make sure I would visit him also. When I did it was like I had never left. It was so easy talking to him even though I had only been around him in person for a short time before. Last spring semester I decided I wanted to come back to the university and he was so excited when I told him. I went out of town with my friends at the University for spring break and made sure I visited him before I left. He told me that he wanted to be with me but the distance was the only problem. I was very surprised but realized that I felt the same way. We continued to talk like we had before this summer but began to talk more right before the fall semester started. The first couple of weeks everything was fine. He called me every day and even tried to see me every day. He stayed over and we did fool around but we didn't have sex. I made the mistake of not telling him that I’m a virgin. I know it's hard to believe but it never came up. When he asked me if I wanted to have sex I wanted to explain but it was a very awkward moment. That was the first and only time I ever felt that way around him. We fooled around again and he asked again but of course said no. It was still awkward. I decided I would tell him I was a virgin the next day but he couldn't meet up with me. I called him the day after that and he didn't answer. We go to school in Houston so this past weekend I've been really worried about him but he hasn't called. I know I should have told him that I was a virgin but I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal. He means a lot to me and I hate not talking to him knowing that it’s my fault and that he’s so close I would like to know how I should go about getting in contact with him to let him know I wasn't rejecting him to be a tease and I really to want to be with him.
What does it mean when he says he's just going with the flow? GUYS HELP!?
so there's this guy in college I really like that I met at the beginning of the semester. about a month ago, we started talking and we get along really well, and have a lot in common. we can talk for hours, he's funny, sweet and personable. when we started hanging out, I was trying to be good and not try to hook up with him, but a few weeks ago we ended up hooking up at a party, and we talked all night. ever since then, we've been hooking up, but we also spend time with our group and he acts like he's into me and is totally sweet to me. my feelings are starting to deepen for him. he says he doesn't know what we we are right now, and doesn't know if he's looking right now, and explained his previous duds of relationships, plus the fact that he just moved here 2 months ago, he's not looking to jump into anything and just seeing where things go. we both admitted we like each other, but he said he didn't want to lead me on, but he's just going with the flow for now. so, I guess we're just fwb?
So theres this guy.... =)?
well what are you waiting for.if you love him as much as you mentioned then you should probably just go out with him and give him another run.from your details it looks like he loves you too.i assume that this "wall that keeps blocking you"is the feeling that you are not in a relationship with this guy.but I'm sure you will be pretty soon.we don't fall in love everyday buddy.go for him.good luck.and as i guy I'll tell you this.we guys don't like waiting around for too long.