My Grandma absolutely HATES my best friend?
One of my best friends, SIERRA, has had a hard life. Her dad left her mom when she was still pregnant, and went to worship the devil. Her mom is bi-polar, and yells at her a lot, and her own grandmother hates her just because she has a lip piercing. So, she says what she feels, and sometimes curses a lot, but I don't blame her... She has had a hard life. My parents don't HATE her, they just don't really like her because of what she posts on her facebook page... (LIKE I SAID! HARD LIFE FOR HER!) It's not even as bad as what some of my other friends post, and she is like a scene queen, but isn't all sad and depressed like most. Like, she bumps up her hair a lot, and wears her bangs covering one eye, has snake bites, and wears a lot of eyeliner. Don't take this wrong. She is really pretty! She is funny, nice, and just a great friend! I love her to death, but my gma absolutely hates her. She doesn't even know her! I have told her that! I quote her exact words,"Cierra isn't a good influence on you and I don't care if she has had a hard life! She needs to know how to act around people!" Me: but gma! she doesn't know how to act around people! she was never taught manners! "I DONT CARE!" She is probably one of those slutt girls who hangs around all the boys and makes out with them and has sex with them!" Me: YOU KNOW WHAT GMA! SHUT UP! YOU DON'T KNOW HER! HER ONLY GUY FRIENDS SHE REALLY HANGS OUT WITH IS ADRIAN AND JOEY! THEY ARE LITTLE SWEET BOYS THAT HAVEN'T EVEN DATED ANY GIRLS! I ALSO HANG OUT WITH THEM TOO! ARE YOU CALLING ME A SLUTT?! and then she said other stuff, and it got me so pissed, that even though she is my grandma, I wanted to call her a bad name i won't say... Cierra is one of the nicest girls you will ever meet. and even though my parents don't like her, they were nice enough to let her stay the night tonight. How do i convince them she if a great girl?
I ABSOLUTELY HATE my best friend's girlfriend! help please?
She has him whipped and is VERY controlling of him, calls him LITERALLY EVERY HOUR to see what he is doing/who he is hanging out with and he needs her approval whenever he wants to do things without her. She is also very rude, enjoys pointing out other's shortcomings and has an attitude of self entitlement like you wouldn't believe(think daddy's little princess). Whenever we hangout in a group it's either "her way" or "no way" and she's a total buzzkill for everyone. Now I don't know how to tell my best friend who iv'e known since I was 11 (we're 20 now) that his girlfriend is a controlling B**ch. They've been dating for two years now and have lost all of their friends besides me because no one wants to spend time around them and they are always together 24/7. What should I do?? tell my best friend that his girl is a B**CH?? I would normally not get involved or care but he has been my nest friend for years now I kinda and I care about him and know his girl is long term trouble .
I absolutely hate my best friends boyfriend!?
It's obvious this guy is a complete douche. First of all, you need to tell your friend EVERYTHING. All the feelings you have about him, how he is separating you and your friend and all the bad things you know about him, hopefully, this will show her how much this is hurting you. Also, ask her why she is with him! If he is taking her from her own family then you need to say that family come before anything. If that still doesn't work maybe actually talk to her family about it. If it is causing havoc in her family ask if her mum can try and persuade to either break up with him, or at least lay down some ground rules about their relationship. If they are STILL together and making everyone sad/annoyed maybe as a last resort, tell your friends father about all the bad stuff this guy is. Fathers are generally very protective of their daughters and he of all people should be able to talk some sense in to her or give 'Bob' a stern talking to about how he is treating your friend. I hope this helped in some way :)
Why do I hate my best friend?
You cannot hate your best friend. f you hate her, she is not your friend.That’s the truth but reality is somewhat more layered. You can feel hatred for someone who has the ability to hurt you and nobody can hurt you more than someone who knows you well. They know where your weak spots are and they know how to push your buttons. Giving them knowledge gives them power. Understanding WHY you hurt will bring you far greater wisdom. With maturity, I have learned to welcome pain because I understand that growth without pain is not possible. When you feel hatred, choose to respond in love. It’s amazing how things change when you do this.
A song about hating your ex best friend?
I absolutely hate my ex best friend. She did me so wrong. We used to be close like sisters. A matter of fact we hung out a lot and people actually thought we were sisters. I loved her with all my heart but the feeling wasn't neutral. She played with my emotions this whole time and we been best friends for 3 years. I opened up to her and told her everything. So basically i just need a song that i can relate to about this situation. And by the way I LIKE RNB AND HIP HOP MUSIC :)
What should I do if my mum hates my best friend?
This certainly brings back memories. From the time I was five, I became friends with a girl that lived a few houses away from my own. Although she was 4 years older than me, we hit it off immediately and spent all our play time together. I was the youngest kid in the neighborhood, and there wasn't a lot of kids close by so pickings were slim! My mom didn't like her from the get go. I continued to play with her while my mom constantly was telling me to find another best friend. Mom would never give me a reason why she didn't like my friend, even as I got older. My friend was not a bad influence in any way. In fact as we got older into our high school years, I was probably more of a bad influence on her but it was all pretty minor stuff. Our friendship continued, Mom continued her dislike although she gave up for the most part on trying to break up our friendship. There were still times she would get on my back about our friendship and would “forget” what my bff’s name was, calling her “"That girl.” Its been fifty years and she still is my best friend.When I got older, I was told a story by one of my moms friends that when they were kids, my mom wanted to become friends with her really bad. This girl was five years older than her so I guess my mom, at that young age, thought it would be cool to befriend her. She would run after her trying to get this girl to like her. They did finally become good friends. I thought I was on to something there but they became friends so it wasn't like she was playing the “"I couldn't have my friend so you can't have yours” game.So to this day I'll never know what my mom’s hang up was. To answer your question: if your friend really is a good person, a good friend, has good values and morals, and isn't a bad influence on you, allow the friendship to continue. Mom’s can be like customers. They aren't always right.
My best friend hangs out with someone I hate?
My best friend of 10 years has recently been hanging out with someone I absolutely can't stand. The said person she's been hanging out with used to be friends with us both until she did something really awful and mean which stopped us from talking to her for a few months. Recently my best friend has been talking to her alot, joking with her and texting her. My best friend knows of my feelings about this girl and she still hangs out with her which really bothers me to be honest but I haven't said anything. I feel like this girl is trying to steal my best friend from me... What do I do?
What should I do if my best friend hates my boyfriend even if I'm so kind with hers?
Do you have any ideas as to why you feel your best friend dislikes/hates your boyfriend? If not, then you need to sit down and have a hear to heart with her about it.For the most part, people aren’t going to have such strong, negative feelings about another individual unless there’s something about that person in their personality or behavior that would be adverse enough to cause us to feel that way. Now if your best friend was single, I feel that would explain a lot as to why she could potentially have some negative feelings towards your boyfriend, as she’d probably see him as taking away time you would normally spend with her and could potentially be envious of your non-single status and bemoaning her singleness. But since she has her own boyfriend, you may need to take other things into consideration.Maybe the relationship she has with her boyfriend is not quite the same level as the one you have with yours. Perhaps she sees things in your boyfriend that she finds lacking in hers and perhaps that could be a reason for her resentment.How does your boyfriend act when you are both hanging out with your best friend? Is he easy-going, fun, talkative, and good-natured? Or is he silent, unsocial, or acting like he doesn’t really want to be around her? If he’s potentially acting in a certain way that could be a turnoff to your best friend, you need to confirm if in fact, this is what’s bothering her to see if that’s what’s causing the dislike on her end.Is it possible that your best friend and boyfriend may have had some kind of altercation that you are unaware of either before you got together or during?There could be a myriad of reasons why you feel that your best friend may not like your boyfriend but the only way you’ll know for sure, is to schedule some one-on-one time with her to discuss it.