How do I trust my girlfriend if she seems like she is always hiding something?
How do I trust my girlfriend if she seems like she is always hiding somehing?You can choose to trust her or not. She can choose to be trustworthy… or not . We don’t owe anyone anything unless they mean something to us and vice versa. In these senarios trust is in short supply. This girlfriend, can have your money, time, love, friendship, and respect if you are willing and able to give such things. You cannot give her your trust if you are no longer capable of trusting.Have you let yourself become paranoid?We succumb to our fears in our relationships by being silent. Our distrust manifests into an invisible monster as we forego straightforward communication. Maybe this relationship has been coming to an end since the beginning. You have every right to say, “What the f___ have you been doing? I’m ready to end this if you can’t be upfront.”Outing the dirty laundry instead of letting it pileup in the closet helps us clean up the BS. Even so, we still may not get what we need from the other person. Sneaky SOs may gaslight if they don’t want to breakup. They may continue with the farce to maintain the upper hand.Her: “What are you talking about?”Your choice is to ramble on about how shifty she’s been as she discredits everything you say or…You: “Its over. I’m breaking up with you. I don’t know what you’re hiding. At this point I don’t care.”Her: “I don’t know what you’re talking about I’m just [lie,lie,lie]. Don’t you trust me baby?”You: No.People can earn trust or you can give them the benefit of the doubt. Such reserves can be exhausted as we experience the harsh truths of fallible human nature. If you can’t trust her you don’t need to be with her. We don’t owe anyone anything not even our trust.
My Parents. Spying on my computer?? how do i know if they are watching what i am doing.?
i dont like it when ppl suspect me of stuff.. maybe they should mind their own.. i dont go around looking at wat websites they are on.. I REALLY DONT CARE.. if i am a good student and a good kid then why do they care.. when my mom and i were watching a show about parents spying on their kids computers she just kinda looked at it.. and then carried on.. suspicious???
I am always paranoid that my parents have installed a hidden camera in my room?
Unless you pay rent, it's not your room, and not your smoke detector.
My husband changed all his passwords, Do you think he is cheating??
a man who has nothing to hide hides nothing, obviously he has alot to hide from u.