Why do I feel jealous when my girlfriend talks to other men?
Its because you are INSECURE. And to be honest, we are all humans. So , NOTHING WRONG IN IT. ITS IN OUR NATURE. NOW how to overcome it ? How about some reverse psychology.Speak with other girls, make a strong friend circle which includes women. It will help you in the long run.Well relationship with friends or girlfriend is like investing in stock market and creating a diversified portfolio with number of stocks in different sectors instead of one particular stock. If one stock goes down other stocks can help you to cover up losses.Imaging "A" is your girlfriend with a probability of .5 of dumping you.She speaks with 5 guys on an average.You try speaking and making friends with 7 to 8 girls, to keep you on a safe diversified zone. Appreciate there ability, there intelligence, qualities but never hit on them. Girls love to have friend zoned committed guys like you. Never flirt , keep your character intact. Just never ever flirt with them!! Express at times that you miss your girlfriend, she is talking to other guys and makes you feel insecure, get some emotional comfort from your female friends. Automatically you will observe you have a space full of good female friends, and you are giving less time and space to your girlfriend. She will understand , she will miss you, she will feel insecure too. Now if she comes back its your gain, your favourite stock in which you invested have actually given you profit. Worst case - she didn't feel jealous, dumps you, goes out with another guy. Well the other stocks in your portfolio, that is your female friends who knows how honest you are when you are in a relationship will automatically come to your rescue. be a man and cry like a bitch in front of one of them, tell them how your ex has played with your feelings, at least 90% chances are there that out of those 8 girls one girl will fall for you. P.S. - often look out for proper timings, like break up of one of your female friends at the same time of your break up. Remember the 2008 recession ? Leyman brothers got bankrupt, imagine the stock market crash, just imagine how rich people are who have invested then. its similar, support and comfort each other after break up, good times are ahead. Even in relationships.
Do some girls get jealous of handsome men?
I notice this with my friends sometimes, they try to put down really obviously good looking guys even when the guys arent doing anything to them. Like if the guy walks by us, they'll say his ears are kinda wierd or make some comment about his face, or say he's a 3 even when the guy is a 9/10. I don't get it. They never call a guy cute. Me, personally..I enjoy the view.
Why do guys get jealous when a girl talks to guys?
yeah so this guy i am talking to... um i said we should be friends and i think he likes me too much. i told him "you like me more then i like you, so relax lets be friends" it seems he understands but i've noticed its not getting to him. i told him "haha i get to meet people" cause i told him i go to this place to study all week, cause he asked 'are you always studying there?" i said 'yes its cool you get to meet people" he said "oh.. well dont talk to too much guys.. i will get jealous.." i said "Well i am not doing it on purpose. i am just friendly" he said "yeah well, guys wont think of it that way because when they see a gorgeous fun, and cute girl talking to them they will want you." Why would he admit this
Do guys get jealous of other guys handsomeness and good body like girls do?
That depends. Not to sound cocky, but since I've got an athletic body, I constantly hear "Damn you Luffy, and your big biceps/triceps" or "Damn you and your 8 pack abs". All in all though, when they get jealous, they get motivated. In a positive light, it makes them better. Now, these are only people who are committed to working out to say that to me. In other words, in 3 weeks, I could be the one saying "Damn you" to them because there motive is to beat me. It's competition. It's also very friendly, never spiteful. This is cause our bodies are something we can work with. Now, I've met some boys who are spiteful, but that's cause they have no chance of getting a body like mine because they just don't put any effort, so they become bitter and jealous out of the spite they have for their body, and in turn, they blame others, for either setting the bar too high for them, or their parents for feeding them fatty crap when they were a child. This is a rare case, but a lot of unhealthy/fat boys will have this mindset if they are too lazy to do anything about it. It's correlated with their self-esteem I think, and their views of the world. As for handsomeness, that's something most men can't work with. We're born with a specific bone structure, and we refuse to use make up to make us look better. For instance, the boy my ex is now dating is more handsome than me, cause he's got the long hair and the girly face, while I on the other hand have a more manly face due to my thick eyebrows. Apart from that, I know for a fact my body is better than his cause I have to condition it for martial arts and stuff, but that becomes irrelevant because I know he can always work on it as well. So in the end, in terms of jealousy, if we were to be, facial features such as hair or eyes or things that we cannot change are greater than overall body.
Why are black girls so jealous of white girls & always talking bad about white girls? No other race talks about white girls as much. so why?
Why is it just black girls that constantly talk about white girls & they keep mentioning that white girls are ugly & white girls look plain & boring compared to them? I never see Asian girls or Hispanic girls constantly talking about white girls all teh time & always talking smack about white girls. So why do only black girls do this? Is it cuz black girls are secretly jealous of white girls? Is it cuz black girls dont have good hair like white girls? cuz black girls have that nappy afro hair that no one likes & it looks like nasty pubic hair on their heads, GROSS! & black girls always wear fake EXPENSIVE wigs & weaves & use dangerous damaging hair relaxer chemicals to have white/Asian/Indian(etc.) hair textures. & black girls can never go swimming or get their hair wet like white girls do, cuz black girls dont want to mess up their expensive fake hair. So why is it mainly black girls always talking smack about white girls? I swear I never see Asian or Hispanic(etc.) girls talking smack about white girls & their features. Its mainly just black girls. Even white girls never talk smack about black girls features. When was the last time u seen a white girl call a black girl "nappy headed"? LOL! Never. White girls dont talk smack about black girls, cuz white girls arent jealous of them.
I'm a girl, and I'm jealous of guys?
(Sorry if long) I'm a girl and I am SO beyond..Oh..my..god.. BE-YOND jealous of boys, I can't even explain. I want to be a boy so badly, I'm tearing up at this moment just talking about it. Instead of being attracted to a gorgeous or cute guy, I get extremely jealous because I want to be them. I hate being a girl so, so, so much, hate is not even close to describing the amount of hate and how much I do not want to be a girl. I imagine myself being this particular guy I want to be, and when I snap back to reality I just start crying hysterically. No body would understand, I can't talk to my parents because they would be against me even dressing or changing into a boy all the way. How do I know? I gave them little hints like "what would you do if I wanted to be a boy?" and their responces said it all. I hate that people say to me "Omg you're such a pretty girl!" or "You are so pretty" it makes me hate myself even more I want to be a handsome/cute guy! Not a pretty girl.(And no, I'm not bragging about my looks, because that is deffinantly the last thing I'm doing. I don't even want to be a girl! Let alone brag about my looks of being a girl.) I refuse to go anywhere where I have to wear a dress/skirt, and all I do is stay in the house all day and go on a chat game and pretend to be the guy I am on the inside. I don't wanna go out because I feel uncomfortable in my own body. If God loves me so much, why would he make me a girl knowing every single freaking day I'd be suffering being in my own body? It's like some sort of cruel joke.I pray to God almost everyday asking, Why did he make me this way? Why would he do this to me? What was it that I've done so wrong that he wants me to suffer EVERY SINGLE DAY?! Please don't give me any mean responses. I'm looking for help or maybe someone who's similar to me to tell me how they feel, or tips or anything please. I'm so desperate for answers. And don't say "You should love being a girl! you can carry a human being in your body for 9 months" and etc. No, I disgusts myself knowing I can do that. Not saying that IT'S disgusting but it's disgusting for me myself because I feel it's not right. I'm not meant to be a girl, so what boy would find that enjoying?! So, no that does not make me feel happy about myself at all! Someone please answer it would mean everything to me.
My girlfriend calls other guys hot and it makes me jealous. How do I deal with my jealousy?
Jealousy is always caused by Scarcity.When you feel like there is a limited quantity of anything, there will be a feeling of envy or jealousy. Much like how some of us are jealous of someone owning a limited edition toy or being paid more in a company (finite resources).When you look at relationships the same way, you will realise that all jealousy stems from the fact that you think this girl you are in a relationship with is the only one for you. This perception is very understandable and can be blamed on tunnel vision (We normally don't open ourselves to interlopers while in relationships, hence we pay less attention to them) and romantic comedies.So, what you can do then can be divided into two broad directions that are ultimately related:1) Convince her that you are scarce and therefore stop her current behaviour2) Convince yourself that she is not scarce and therefore stop jealousy from your end foreverIn 1, the steps to take would be adapted from the method you would use to get a really good job. Search for Ramit Sethi and iwillteachyoutoberich for more information how to get a job. His free material would be enough for this purpose.Then, adapt it by finding out what exactly your girlfriend wants in a guy and acing it. Alternatively, you could do the roundabout and go spend some time and money reading up on female psychology, dating, and Pick Up techniques.In 2, you would need to realise that there are 7 billion people out there. If she is 1 in a million, there would be 3500 of her out there (Assuming half of us are female).How you would do this is to realise this concept via finding your self worth. There are tons of material out there for this topic ranging from religious texts to self-help books. I won't promote any since you could just google for them.However, in the end, you might find (as I did) that you need to do 2 before you can achieve 1. And also, no one source (except perhaps Ramit Sethi) could pass as an absolute authority on any subject so make sure you do sufficient testing and be open to many points of view. This is absolutely vital. Especially the testing part.Remember that nothing worthwhile was built in a very short time and without some effort, so please keep your need for instant gratification in check. It might take you a year or two (I took three) to get it, but I promise you that it would be worth it in the end.
I'm jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends. Is this wrong?
Just a year back I went through almost the same situation as you are in. My girlfriend was talking to this guy who I assumed was her friend since they went to the same school and she told me it was just the new guy at her class they were just friends. Long story short I spoke to the guy and amazingly he was not the "new kid" and was infact my girl's ex who was trying to get her to break up with me. Even though I was really mad at her and wanted to break up with her for lying to me but I didn't because I knew she choose me over him anyday. Fast forward 6 months and we were still together and everything was fine except we didnt see each other as much since we both had finals and I had to focus on soccer. She was talking to 2 guys and just like last time had me convinced that they were just friends like "brothers". But I had my doubts and one day I pretended that I found out something about her from somebody she was good friends with. I told her that I knew she was cheating on me (though I knee absolutly nothing). She obviously denied ever cheating/lying to me so I was like fine then let me see your phone and after telling her I would break up with her if she didn't, she gave it to me. Ha and surprise surprise there was messages from one of the guys i shr talked aboout and the message said how beautiful and "perfect" she is anf hrle was asking her to come over. Also when I checked her snapchat story there was the guy, laying on a couch together with my girl at getty party (get together). To this day that picture is pinned in my head. As much as I loved her and STILL wanted to be with her, I knew what bad for me and I broke up with her. Moral of the story: Your girl is always going to end up with the people they told you not to worry about. I learned the hard way. If she doesn't understand how much you love her and won't stop something that you're uncomfortable with then break up with her bro because she don't deserve you. Just tell her that "I'm gold but you want silver and that's fine go get your silver."
I get jealous when my girlfriend say some celebrities are hot ...?
sometimes my girlfriend tweet things about justin bieber and other celebrities saying that they are hot and these thing and she freaked out when a celebrity wished her a happy birthday and i get jealous :/ she have never told other people that im handsome or hot she have never bragged about me to other people :( now she is so far away and i miss her so much i told her that i dream about the day we will meet when ,, but once she tweeted about the things she want to do before she die she said meeting justin beiber and one direction :( am i creep or sort of dumb :/ ? should i tell her :(