I used to have so many friends but now I am lonely. What should I do?
I wish I had better news, but this only becomes more difficult as you get older. Once you’re done with school, it becomes more difficult to make friends. The friends I confide in most are the friends I made at school. As you work more and change jobs, you sometimes never see co-workers again….even though you saw them every day for X amount of years. Everyone’s priorities change because everyone is on a different path. It is okay though! First, don’t look to others for fulfillment. Do some self exploration. What do you enjoy doing? What are your hobbies? What activities are you interested in? Create something new, and here you can open the door to make new friends. You have to find a commonality with others. Even if you’re not ready to really commit to anything, you can dip your toes in the water. I mean, if you’re artistic, try painting and photography classes, etc. If you enjoy or want to start running, search for running groups online. It’s easy to become lonely, but it requires work and consistency to meet new friends. You’ll see that many of the people you meet are in the same boat and can even introduce you to new friends. Enjoy your life, whether it be alone or with friends. If you don’t like what you’ve chosen, just change your direction, and try something else. Hang in there!
I'm 16 and still don't have a girlfriend?
I'm turning 16 on the 10th and I'm a girl I really don't know how u feel cause I have alot of friends everyone knows me but if they stoped talking to u out of know where then they were never your friends in the first place and trust me if I was u I would want to wait to have sex with a girl I ruined my life not waiting I wish I would of waited and done it with the right person to don't be sad that u haunt done anything yet and holding a girls hand doesn't mean anything you'll find someone someday that really likes to be honest I rather go out with a guy who's a virgin and hasn't done anything then go out with someone who's done it with everyone I hope I helped u but if u want to make friends go on twitter go on facebook and talk to the people at your school get to know new people dot be shy if u need any more advice don't be shy to ask my Facebook is jandira deburgo don't be afraid to inbox me and ask for advice
How can I get into a new group of friends?
I am 16 years old and a junior in high school. I'm a bit socially awkward and shy in some situations, especially around girls. I rarely go out, even though i really want to, and am always left out of social events. As of right now, i dont really have friends that i can hang out with outside of school. I used to have friends that i hung out with, but i realized that they arent good friends at all and i want nothing to do with them anymore. I talk to a lot of people in school, but cant make the transition outside of it. there is one group of people that i know really well, but i never hang out with them outside of school and on weekends. i really want to join this group of friends, because i think i fit in with them well. What can i do to hang out with this group and be more social on weekends and go to more parties? PLEASE HELP ME, it would mean so much
I am extremely shy and have no friends?
I am a 16 year old girl and I am extremely shy and when I'm at a lunch table, when the people I sit with are done eating they don't even ask me if they should wait.. They just get up and leave.. I feel invisible.. I really really want a friend but I am super shy and I can't just go up to someone and start talking because I go to a small school and everyone knows I'm shy and they act like I'm not even there.. No one even cares or knows how I feel.. At home I'm really talkative but everywhere else I'm not.. I want to be very talkative and have lots of friends.. I am sad all the time and I feel like crying all the time.. I used to have 3 friends then I moved and I was only friends with one friend then she left me and probably thought I wasn't cool enough and now my two other friends go to my school now ever since I started going there, they act like they don't know me and I'm nothing.. It feels like no one cares or knows how I feel.. How do I become my happy old self and make friends.. I really want to be happy again.. :-(