My 19 year old son is dating a 40 year old woman. What should I do?
Be happy for him. If not, you will lose him. At 18, he makes his own decisions!I knew of a 15 year old male, dating a 45-year-old woman with a 6-year-old daughter, back when I was 16 years old (years ago). It lasted total about two years. She taught him everything sexually, everything! Eventually, he left the older woman, went back to high school and dated (having no sex, just kissing) a girl in his own grade. If the boy’s parents had interfered, he would have ran away. They bit their lip and he eventually made the right choices on his own. He was underage and the older woman could have gone to jail! However, the male still would have ran away, even with his lover in jail. He was terribly in love with her, when they were together, or at least he thought he was.We need to remember that it wasn’t all that long ago when society married 16-year-old boys off, and many undeveloped countries have boys as young as 12 go fight in local wars.I’d say ask yourself if your son is really being taken advantage of? In his case, he is over 18 anyways. Ask yourself if you want to be the one still standing with him when all is said and done? When that lady and he are over? If so, smile big and pretend not to hate it, and learn to take one day at a time. You will be okay and so will he.
I slept with a woman 30 years younger than me. She's even younger than my daughter. Is this immoral?
I feel like I can have some pretty good input seeing as how my husband is 23 years older than me. But first let me give you some backgroundWhen I first met my hubby I was a hairdresser and he used to come in and have me cut his hair. I actually thought he was younger than he was, I was shocked when he told me he was 42. I was 19 at the time and thought, “well that's that, he's too old for me.”After a few more haircuts and him being stuck in my head no matter what I did I decided “fuck it I'll give him my number and see what happens.”We ended up just clicking and being inseparable after one time of hanging out at his house, yes we did have sex for those of you wondering and it was spectacular!neither one of us wanted a relationship. We both had our hearts broken and at one point or another and said our relationship was just a casual one. It broke my heart but I understood his reasons. Age wise I'm right in between his kids so you can imagine the anxiety that created for him.After seeing each other for a while we realised just how compatible we actually are and how well we balanced each other out. he told his kids and family about me and lucky me THEY WERE MORE THAN ACCEPTING. THEY JUST WANTED HIM TO BE HAPPY.Then came time to tell my mother, that didn't go over so smooth. In fact I ended up breaking things off for a couple of weeks because of my mother's reaction ( she loves my hubby now though) I was so broken, I immediately knew I made the wrong decision and ended up telling him that I missed him and just wanted to be happy so we got back together and it's been one great adventure and learning experience.So my answer to your question : NO IT IS NOT WRONG. IF YOU GENUINELY ENJOY EACH OTHER'S COMPANY KEEP ON KEEPING ON! You never know what you could be passing up!
Insomnia-I am a 43 year old woman, I can't sleep and I've tried everything...benadryl, unisom, melatonin, vale
rian...cutting out caffeine and nicotine-bought a new bed, sheets, have a white noise machine. I am miserable. I tried talking to my dr. who put me on lexapro and that isn't doing anything. Help me, especially if you are a 40 something woman and found something that works. Thanks
Why so much heartburn lately? I'm only 23 years old!?
I am an overweight 23 year old female with slightly high blood pressure. I have lost 20 pounds over the last 2 months. I am not taking any medications and I have been on a low carb diet for about 2 months now. I also go to the gym 2-3 times per week and work out for about 45 minutes to an hour. I started that about 2 months ago as well. I smoked for the last 4 months but I am quitting and have not had one in a few days. Here is my problem. For the last 3 days I feel like I am having almost constant bad heartburn, bad nausea, and lightheadedness and I have no idea why. I eat right and I exercise regularly. I am overweight but I have never had any problems except for slightly high blood pressure since I am overweight. What could be wrong with me? Why did this start suddenly? I am worried I'm having heart problems from exercising or something. What do I do to stop this daily heartburn?
20 year old and still a virgin?
You haven't said whether you _want_ to lose your virginity and/or have a girlfriend. That would make a big difference. If you don't want to, then you shouldn't. It would be a great insult to a woman if you dated and/or had sex with her just to keep some guys from giving you a hard time. I am 38 and a virgin, because I'm unmarried and I have class (as do the women I've dated). It doesn't "haunt me"; what would haunt me is if I 1) fathered a bastard child with a woman I no longer get along with, 2) picked up an STD and spread it to someone I care about, or 3) made a girlfriend (or myself) think the relationship was more than it really was (which has happened anyway). A likely reason these guys are giving you crap is because they don't feel confident they acted wisely (nor should they). The next time they do that, tell them that if they give you crap, that means they're making it their responsibility to do something about it, i.e. hook you up with someone suitable. And if you feel bad about your present & past decisions, look at people who chose otherwise and lived to regret it.
Will I feel pain if I commit suicide by Jumping from a really tall building?
Contrary to popular belief, not all people who commit suicide are infected with mental illness. Sometimes giving up is the only thing left to do. I've tried other alternatives like prayer, counseling, talking to friends and family but none of those things change a bad situation into a a good one. Okay, so now your all probably wondering, "What could be so bad that you want to end your life?" I'll give you the short version, starting from the beginning. When I was about four I witnessed a lot of physical abuse between my parents, my dad used to beat the crap out of my mother. Eventually she left him and married my step father who was also a woman beater. When I was eight, he killed my mother and then himself and he did both right infront of me. I still have nightmares about it. I'm 29yrs old now and this event has affected me, my entire life. Growing up, I bounced between family members. Not a lot of consistancy and no one ever loved me the way my mother did. I hated sharing other peoples parents because I was never equal to their children. I started having sex when I was 16 strictly for the purpose of getting pregnant. I wanted a baby so I could have someone to love and someone who would love me! But years of trying, even when I was 26 and engaged . . .I never conceived. Still haven't. (The engagement didn't lead to marriage as expected.) Recently, I've been plagued by a series of bad events. I lost my job, then my apartment and now my car. I've been sleeping on my aunts sofa for the past 7mths, unable to find employment in this dead-end town. I have nothing. Absolutely nothing. I'm a 29yr old woman, unable to have kids. I don't have a job or any money, I honestly feel like I don't have mcuh of a purpose in life. There is truly no point in me being alive. Everyday I think about killing myself and at least once a week, I walk to a parking garage, take the elevator to the 9th floor which is the very top, at least 60fth high and I try to convince myself, to just do it! But I haven't. It's like, I don't even have the FN courage to end my misery and just kill myself. I guess I'm afraid that it'll hurt. Can anyone tell me, do you think I'd FEEL IT if I jumped from 50 or 60 feet?