Bf is insecure about his looks and penis size?
my bf went thru this. he was in the football team and a school president so it surprised me when he kept asking me "is my size small? what is normal to you? how would you like it?" i lost my virginity to him so i dont know about different sizes with different pleasures, ive always been happy with his "simba". he only started noticing his was a bit smaller than average when a few positions didnt suit us but ive never cared. i gave a classmate a bj before we dated so my bf would ask me constantly "is his bigger and longer? was the bj nice? do you want me to take supplements? should i shave?" i would tell him "hey look, i dont judge sex based on sizes. yours is well-shaped and ive never seen such a nice-looking penis. i used to fear penises and think they're all ugly thanks to google images. if you think "simba" is embarrassing, what about my "madonna"? yes i shave but she has hairs too and i dont even know how she looks like. i bet she's all wrinkly and saggy. do you know that it bothered me the first few cunnilingus and i am still shy about it? i dont compare so i dont know about others. i have sex with you because you turn me on, not because the whole idea of penetration turns me on'" i even googled penises to convince him "ugly ugly ugly ugly ugly creepy ugly weird gross ugly ugly ugly" and it went on for about 6 months. im not sure what made him stop. but if im right, probably because i started giving "simba" more attention: i started stroking when we're watching the tv and go "he looks nice and madonna wanna say hi", i'd kiss it every now and then with or without clothes, i'd offer bjs, play with it or i'd bite my lips and flirt when i saw him naked.. sometimes i'd even surprise and undress him out of a sudden, just to spice things up.
I'm ridiculously insecure about my looks?
I wouldn't feel bad for a few reasons. 1. Your looks are just handed to you at birth. Sure you can maybe dress nice or where make-up to look a little better at times. In order to have great T'n'A, you must have good DNA. Sometimes in life you have to play the cards you were dealt. And since you can't change it, there is no point in worrying about what is beyond your control. Just remember to breath and that stressing out about it won't make you better looking. 2. If you are skinny, I doubt you have that much to worry about. Unless you have some seriously messed up teeth (which can be fixed) you should be fine. Being fat is much worse. There is a saying guys have: "You can feel fat but you can't feel ugly." 3. You are just in high school. A lot of girls develop later on. I remember in middle school one of my friends brothers told us to be nice to ever girl, because a lot of the ugly ones turn out to smokin' hot. I have found this to be very true. 4. Just remember that the images you see of perfect super models are an illusion to make you feel like sh*t so you will buy some cream to put on your face. Those people have trainers, great genetics, and the help of photoshop. 5. Probably the best reason not to worry is that if you aren't that attractive now, it means you won't have everything handed to you and won't turn out to be a total b*tch. But if you still feel bad, you might have depression, so don't be afraid to talk to your doctor or a friend about it.
I feel very insecure about myself all the time. My looks bother me and I fear rejection and disapproval and harsh comments by people all the time. What can I do to correct this?
There are things you can not change.....especially when it comes to your looks......Instead of thinking how to become pretty/beautiful....think how can you enhance your personality.....once u have a strong personality , nobody is going to even bother how u look like....Put an effort on things you are talented in....be it sports...art...or academics.Something which is in your hands......Sachin Tendulkar had he not been an incredible batsman nobody would know him.....Did he achieve that with his looks??-NoBharti (The Comedian) known by most of the people...Is it because of her looks??-No not at allMy suggestion to you is instead of thinking and worrying about your looks (something which is not in your hands) start working on your personality (something which is in your hands). Love yourself accept yourself for what you are.....instead of bothering yourself and indirectly affecting your looks......Be confident...it will make you presentable....once your are confident....people will start showing confidence in you....which is a good motivator And for your beauty tip.....open your hairs....it makes you look better and always wear a smile on your face.....:)
I'm feeling insecure about my body?
I've been thinking about my body lately. I'm a 15 year old girl, I've certainly gained weight over the past 3-4 years, and since I used to be shorter and a LOT skinnier, my friends and mom have clearly noticed my weight gain (actually everyone has) and sometimes they sort of remind me that. Not in a bad way, but I still don't really like it since my friends are still skinny and their bodies almost haven't changed since back then, they've only gotten taller, but their still slim and they look absolutely gorgeous. I'd easily say I'm jealous of their bodies and feel that guys would prefer them over me anytime (they also have a lot of guys that like them and I don't). Don't get me wrong - I'm not saying I look bad or anything, but I can't help but compare myself to them since they are my three best friends, the people I am around the most. I'm a little bit chubbier than them, I'm definitely not fat and I'm not skinny either (like them) usually they call me (and I consider myself) "normal" weight. I'm 5'4 and weigh 121 lbs, and I'd consider myself average looking, although sometimes I look at myself and really think I'm beautiful. I have brown eyes and a very interesting nose, it's not long, but it's also not snub or anything, I can't really explain it, I have small lips (which kinda bothers me) but in general I think I have a good face. My body is not very fit, but it's not very loose or anything like that. I try to stay positive and tell myself good things, but I'm insecure.
What's your biggest insecurity?
I am very afraid of judgement. Always have been. I love to sing, but I don't sing for anybody because of it. I have trouble being myself and don't do a lot of things because of it. I also have a lot of trouble around boys. I am just really shy around anyone I would consider being with and I have a lot of trouble talking to them. I'm also worried about not being accepted with my friends because I am not as willing to do all these things that I know we shouldn't.
TEENS: help me please, rate my looks...?
on a scale of 1-10 in my profile picture? I've been feeling very insecure lately (long story), and I wanted to know what you fellow teens think. Oh and I am 12, turning 13 in May btw, so keep that in mind while rating. And if you give a low rate, please say why, and if you give a high rate, than please say why also. Also, how old do I actually look? Sorry the lighting isn't all that great in the picture. Thanks, and be honest! Love you all <3 BQ (teen guys only): do i seem dateable? I seem shy at first, but when you get to know me i am outgoing and funny. and i also have a bit of a British accent (do you like accents?) thanks again
Do guys mind a little bit of a belly?
I talk for most guys here when I say I prefer curve girls to super skinny and that is the same in the tummy department. I hate a proper flat tummy, in fact any girl with better abs than me just isn't right haha, but honestly much prefer a tumm with a bit on it that a flat one and I am not alone so please dont worry you sound great as you and shouldnt change anything :)