I am almost 27 year old male that is a virgin not by choice, and want casual sex, but don't know how to get it?
First, I most say being a christian played a big role on the reason why I have holded out so long on having sex, but now I don't really care if I wait out for marriage to have sex, but I still have some serious issues. One is the fact that I also have social anexity disorder, and I have a lot of fear, thoughts, worries, and get nervous when talking especially to women on my personal time. Second, I have pretty much been a work, school, go home type of guy since I became an adult, so I never really got to hang out, date, or hook up with women, and learn how to find and get what I want in my personal life. So what I am trying to say is although I am 27 in age and in the mind on everything else, I am almost like an 18 year old in maturity of understanding how to find sex for myself. I am on a adult dating site, but nothing seems to workout for me so far. In this point of my life I am just looking for casual sex, not any serious relationships, marriage, kids although I would like to have some in the future. I also am a guy that can be shy around people I don't know, and I never really got to have a lot of fun like most people do in their teen and twenties. But being a virgin is starting to bother me the older I become. So do anybody got any advice or ideas for me?
Is an 18 year old woman dating a 24 year old guy considered unusual?
You're talking about a gap in age which, on average, is possibly the most important six year period of personal growth and development. This is typically when young adults determine what career they wish to pursue, the first time living on their own, and away from home. You're going to experience more in the next few years than ever before. No one goes all-in when they go to Vegas on their first hand; don't get any crazy notions the first boyfriend is the one and only… 99.9% chance it's over in a month.You're going to get your first opportunity to see what characteristics/traits you want in a guy. He's not going to cut it; learn from every guy you date what you absolutely MUST have in the guy you marry, and things which are NICE to have. Only you can decide what are your dealbreakers, and what you're interpretation of Mr. Right works for you. All I can tell you is don't settle for the first guy to look your way.As for this guy, maybe he genuinely likes you; however, if i were your father I'd seriously question why he's not dating a girl closer to his own age. There's usually a decent reason why he's with you, and skipping out on nightly outings with his bros.
So i am 22 years old, married and i have one son, I am in college right now in my sophmore year but im at a jc?
"...well i could have been 19 and pregnant with no husband living off your tax dollars ...." No, you could have been responsible for family-planning, birth-control, and had an abortion. You chose to have a child instead. "His is starting to affect my marriage in a really bad way." Because you are making it do so. You are unhappy with your life due to your life choices. These consequences are your fault due to your choices as well, not just his. This actually has very little to do with your marriage and a lot to do with you. Your prospects as a single-mother are not good and the attitude that "I can do better" is poisonous. One partner in any relationship could always 'do better'. You don't want to divorce (kudos to you, at least you're not a QAB) so stop thinking about if you would do better elsewhere, with someone else, or if you had made different choices in the past. You can still decide on what choices to make for the future. If you can make ends meet on his salary then do so while continuing to go to school (as long as the degree is worth it - what are you getting a degree in?) 15 credit-hours in night-classes in addition to mother and wife is a very high work load. You need to make time to spend with your husband, talking, going out, having sex, etc... If 15 is too taxing, drop back to 10~12. You can take classes in the summer as well to make up the difference and stay on track.
Why am I, as a 14-year-old girl, only romantically interested in men 10-25 years older than me? I’ve never once been interested in someone remotely my age.
I cant answer for you personally. All women are different. What I can do is offer you a bit of the “dont do what I did" schpiel.At 18 I married a man 12 years older than myself. I was in no way ready to be married and after having a beautiful - healthy - amazing son I ran away and got a divorce. I was insane and stupid. I was also very fortunate that my ex husband continues to be an amazing man who single parent raised a son that I'm proud to call mine. I never missed a visit, but I was a weekends only mom. That son is 25 now.Next I turned 21 and drank. A lot. And I got married again (in vegas, on a drunken bender). This one was 10 years older than me. He was a hitter. Divorce 2.Next, I met a married man 19 years my senior and fell in love. We spent an amazing year together. He went back to his wife.At nearly thirty (27) I met my now husband. We are only 6 years apart. He is devoted to me, he is kind and funny. He indulges my whims and my fits and starts. I exasperate him. We've been together for 15 years or more and i will spend my life with him.So, the moral of my story… wait, enjoy a few older men but dont rush to marriage and being a grown up. When you are finally ready, really ready, look nearer your age. Look for shared experiences. An older/younger can work long term, But most often it does not.AND until you are of age, assuming you are in the states, you can get an older man in a lot of trouble (jail bait!). If you arent interested in the boys you know, wait a few years, or meet new boys. Just please dont misrepresent yourself to a man who can go to prison because you like older men and said you were 18.
Can a single fat girl get into Vegas Clubs? urgent!?
Hi Sam, You have 'nothing' to worry about...Las Vegas doesn't "screen" at the door (choose who gets in and who doesn't based on looks/style of dress, etc) like many clubs are famous for in New York, Los Angeles, etc...beyond dress code (major clubs don't allow jeans, tennis shoes, work boots, tshirts, etc). Because the major clubs are inside Vegas resorts...they aren't allowed to 'offend' people by such biased rules...with that said...they can and do play 'favorites' with the "connected" or "hot" crowds...but that is a small percentage of people. MOST people are going to get into a club by way of... *Waiting in the 'general admission line' and paying the standard cover charge (girls: $20-30, usually $20) *NOTE* VIP Line Passes tend to run $50 per person, per club...usually. Vcard 'can' be a better deal, espcially if you visit two or more clubs! *Getting in through the VIP Line... 1) Bottle Service, typically $300-$500 per bottle minimum and/or a two bottle minimum depending on the night. Some nights have a $2,000 minimum. 2) Casino Comp (they spent/lost enough in the casino that casino marketing it covering their bottle service or admission costs...typically no wait. 3) "Connections" get them in...friends of owners/managers/promoters/etc...gets you in, but not with comped bottles/liquor (there are ways to do that too!) 4) Special Deals...like the V-Card you mentioned. It does work, and has been in Vegas for quite a while. Just not well-known. The Vcard comes with passes (one per club) for VIP Line and Comp admissions, as well as special drink tickets, etc too. You may know that already, but if you visit our/my website, you'll see we have a 'special price' for them. (Usually at $100 each, our pricing starts at $85 and gets cheaper with volume purchases!) If you'd like to reach ME directly, click on my profile here and send me an email...I'm always happy to help people 'figure out Vegas'...and of course help with Hotel/Air/Tours/shows/Clubs or special event/convention management, etc...lol, it's what I do here for over 15 years.
Married Man wants to take me to Vegas, should I go?
I work in the fashion industry, theres a designer there whos 40, im 25, hes married. We've been flirting alot, he asked me to dinner, i said ok, he said he wants to take me to Vegas to stay at a 5 star hotel and we dont have to have sex, hes going there for a fashion show and said we could have fun, going to shows, concerts, etc..hes a nice guy.. I like him but im kinda scared about going,, what should i do?
Single Women on Cruises?
i go on a cruise every year. im 20 years old and a girl, i know that every cruise ive always been with my cousins my age and we always end up partying and hanging out with a group of guys. carnival is your best bet for the age! all these people giving you advice saying things like "girls dont go on cruises to meet guys" and other negative things. are probably in their 50s and would hate to think about their daughters meeting guys on the cruise. i mean its not like girls go out of their way to meet guys on the cruise, it just happens. like you said, go have fun, scuba eat and drink and go to the ships clubs and you will have a good time no matter what.