I'm gonna lose all my friends.?
After months of hoping and being nervous, I got my highschool acceptance letter and immediately exploded with tears of happiness and relief. The excitement was short lived when I realized this was the last year to be with some of my friends. I've been with those people since elementary and although we're going to highschool some are coming with me like my crush and a couple of my guy friends. But I had another thought. What if we just split up. We stop talking and find other people and don't wanna hang out anymore. These are people I've been close with since elementary and I don't want us leaving middle school have to mean the end of everything. My best friend is going to another school tho to. She says not to worry and I'm making way bigger of a deal out of this than there actually is and my mom said it's such a small town we'll probably stay friends, but I'm still scared. I've seen a lot of YouTube videos talking about how you won't keep your friends but I have a lot of friends who went to highschool this year that has. Do you lose your friends? I have no problem making new ones, I just wanna stay close to my roots. Please someone help me.
Should I propose my best friend, I like her but I'm afraid of losing our friendship?
I'm really sorry that she said no. I'd wanted to boost you up & go for it because I too was in a similar situation.She was my best friend for 3 years when I started falling for her. I was too afraid to express my feelings as I thought that this might end everything & she might not even talk to me ever. So I analysed that either ways she's going to stop talking to me. So beford she'd I did it. I cut off all connections from her. She kept on cslling me but I didn't take any of them. She kept on texting me as to what's wrong with me but I didn't reply. Then suddenly she stopped me in college and asked for one last talk. To my utter surprise she confessed that she has feelings for me. I was on cloud 9! I told her everything as to why wasn't I talking to her. We both started laughing how silly we behaved and that started our love story.Unfortunately we broke up last month after more than a year of relationship but I got to learn many things from her. She is the most beautiful girl I'd ever seem in my life & would continue to be so. After a few days we'd even loose contacts but I can't forget her.Cheers!
I'm afraid of being alone and losing all my friends. Why? What should I do?
Why you are "afraid" is irrelevant. That you ARE afraid is the only problem you have. If your "friends" leave you then they weren't your friends. So you've lost nothing. If you know you've done, or are doing, something to alienate your friends then it's all on you.What you should do is memorize, and then repeat, this mantra until you understand it:"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."Thank you Frank Herbert!
Why Am I afraid of losing my best friend?
Firstly , you are not any problem.This happens in almost any relation.Initial days you don't know each other so there is lots to talk about.As time passes you know each other very well and you end up having not much of topics to talk about. It just goes like what else.. Nothing much.This happens with everyone. What you need to understand here is , you are not making your life and being busy. Your friend has his life and he is engaged in his daily routine. Why are you not busy with your works??If your are free , you end up thinking such silly things.Engage yourself and start making better career then you will realise your friend was not becoming distant , genuinely there will be no time to go with same daily routines , if you go for job and handle many other things in life.And also start believing in concepts like friendship doesn't mean 24/7 texting. It is when you meet after a long time and you still share the same bonding with same amount of affection.At your heart you know he will always be there for you. Don't put these kindof inhibitons and spoil your friendship.Maybe you feel this because you are too much dependent on him. Start being independent. At the end in your life only you will be there for you. Start depending on your self. As such there is no problem in your case , you are just insecure. Be cool.You still have great bonding with your friend.Love yourself.Keep smiling.
I'm afraid of losing my best friend. Am I being too paranoid?
Bah, that’s always weird and sad when it happens.There can definitely be lulls in friendships though. A guy who was my closest friend for 2 years knew me better than anyone else, and just this year we grew apart. Conversation that used to flow so naturally had halted and it had to be forced. It was a loss, and I had to grieve over it. I know how you feel, friend. It sounds like you may be feeling anxious and concerned.What you can doDefinitely talk with them about it! Communication is essential for every relationship you make in your life. Just having an open conversation about how you feel. You might start off by saying, “Hey, ___, I feel like we’ve grown apart. Do you feel that way as well?” or something like that. When it’s your own genuine words, people will know and will be able to pick up on it.Tell her how much she means to you. I am not sure if you’re the same way, so I can only speak for myself, but I know for a fact that when I am in friendships I am a very lowkey friend, which means I can go for weeks without talking to a friend, and still feel close as ever to them! This can end up being so extreme regardless of me not being in control, to where it’s an actual flaw of mine. If you don’t tell people how you feel, then they’ll never know.Things to keep in mindIt is an unfortunate truth that no matter how much work or energy you put into something, you can still end up losing it. Losing this does not mean failure! It just means change—and it’s a hard change. Losing your friend for unknown circumstances is a reality, I am sorry to have to tell you that, but it’s how it goes.It’s not your fault if there’s a lull in the conversation—she may be sleepy or may be up to some other things while talking with you.Don’t be hard on yourself if there ever is a lull, lulls cannot always be controlledThink: how many close friendships have you personally ended due to lulls in the conversations?You’ll be okay, friend
Afraid of losing touch with best friend in college?
Why are you writing all this down here? You should say it to him! If you know that you haven't been the nicest then be the nicest and show him how much you want to keep him as a friend. I'm sure he don't want to lose you either. I promise you if you tell him that you're sorry if you haven't been the best friend, he'll understand. Otherwise he will think that you probably always will be the "friend" that's just one of many. Show him that you're not like any other friend. You won't lose him if you're willing to keep touch! Never give up. It seems like nowadays you never lose touch completely with friends because of the technology; Facebook, messenger, Twitter etc. I hope you will work it out! :) Btw. People lose and make friends all the time in their whole life. Some loses more and makes more and some doesn't lose as many and doesn't make many friends. It depends. I've kept my dearest friends from first grade and lost touch with some too but i'm not sorry about that. The friends that you're keeping the longest is the one that's worth having! I've also met many new friends and some are the best. [:
I'm afraid of losing my best friend to someone else, advice please?
Aw, thats sad. The same thing is kind of happening to me. Im in grade 9 :) Just make sure she realises you're still there. Don't fade away. Knock at her door, befriend her mom, bring her brownies and remind her you're always there for her. Maybe become friends with this other girl too! You could be a trio :) Dominate your town, ya know.... But if you don't want to be replaced, then don't! Don't walk away from your position as best friend. Maybe even get her to remind you that you are her best friend, no matter what. OMG, I should start taking my own advice....
I am afraid of losing my best friends due to to my depression, i tend to talk about it with them a lot and I don t want to lose them.?
I know it can be heavy stuff, and i feel like i might be pushing them away, even though they tell me that i'm not gonna lose them. I honestly have no idea what I would do without them and if I lost them it would tear me into pieces. Am i just overthinking things or am I putting too much stuff on my friends shoulders and slowly pushing them away?
She is my best friend. I love her. I am afraid that if I tell my feelings to her, she will never talk to me again. How can I do this without losing her?
Well, if you are saying that you love her then I am damn sure that she must be aware of your feelings, not completely but she must be having an idea. Because somehow with the help of gestures even though we don't want to state something, we does. Make it a bit filmy, write your feelings on a piece of paper and give it to her.Make it as artistic as you can, girls always admire these kinda gestures . On the back of that paper write, even when you can't accept my proposal please do not reject me as a buddy. My love for you emerged when I truly accepted you as my best friend. Love is secondary, affection for you as a friend is always primary. Much love