I farted in front of my friends - How can i get over it?? im so ashamed
We all have flatulence throughout the day; and depending on our digestive system; what we ate, etc., it can be minimal or more pronounced. Stop kicking yourself around the block for something that happened without you forcing it to happen. All one can say at the time is, "EXCUSE me!". You're making much more out of this than they are; but, since you're so upset. . . for the one gal who is your close friend; just talk to her and explain how embarassed you were and how it still bothers you, and that you are sorry it happened...and then forget about it! If she is as good a friend as you claim her to be. . . she is not going to punish you and/or stop being your friend. As far as the other two....there is nothing to do. By the way. . . being male or female has nothing to do with it. . . both genders pass gas. It's just that most guys think it's funny. . . whereas women don't.
I'm ashamed of my boyfriend?
Im 14 and my boyfriend is such an amazing person. He takes me on cute dates and always tells me im beautiful and buys me gifts. He loves me so much, and I love him too. But alot of guys tell me they want to get with me and stuff like that, and all my friends tell me im too good for my boyfriend just because he isnt good looking. I dont know what to do, Im not really ashamed of him I just dont like people judging me because I'm dating him.
My best friend is embarrassed of me when we hang out with other people.?
Well the part about her acting different when she is around her other friends...is beyond wrong...like she really should just be HERSELF all around..i mean i wouldnt want my bff to be all cool with me when its just us and then when she gets around her other friends she will start acting all BRAND NEW(different)!!!So you should tell her how you feel about that and mabe it could resolve that issue:) Okay and the whole party situation:GIRL DONT EVEN WORRY ABOUT THAT:)Because if she says she is your BESTIE like you say she says then, Really I wouldnt worry about that!!!And if she does start to become friends with the other girl again....then dont sweat it...just go out and find a new bud:)Then your friend will relize that she misses you alot and hopefully she will want to start hanging out with you again:) BUT GOOD LUCK WITH ALL OF THIS:)
I am jealous of a friend who married someone rich. I am ashamed of myself for being jealous. She appears with the best brand of clothes, and has holidays in amazing destinations. It makes me feel life is unfair. What do I do?
I am a reasonably rich (not dirty rich) guy currently enjoying a sabbatical of sorts and here are some of my candid observations:Since time immemorial women have tried to marry into riches … your friend seems to be no different. It is a rational thing to do and I am not against it. But it just doesn’t come across as very human. Though I understand women’s need for security and a good life far outpace’s men’s focus on such stuff (at-least in my limited experience and interaction with both sexes).What you probably do not realize is that despite all the show off, even in rich families, there are lots of issues. For example, if she married an heir, then currently nothing will be in his name - and getting stuff in his name will take him his lifetime due to family politics. My sis married an heir and 25 years later they still don’t have anything much in their name.If she married a self-made rich guy … then she is probably better off. But I’ve seen such types philander a lot. And their wives stick to their sides despite their philandering because they (the women) get used to the comforts. The whole relationship of marriage gets reduced to a transaction.Life is not all about money - though money is very, very important. And going only by superficialities (which is what other people want us to see) is a recipe to misery.Brands, vacations, etc. etc. are all non-sense. You really don’t need all this to enjoy life. Once you have a basic financial base (say, your own place and enough income from your investments so that your job becomes redundant - the latter being more important than the former) then your health, your vitality, the strength of your relationships contribute much more to happiness.
Is it okay not to have friends?
It is absolutely OK and I’ll explain why. Definitely, I’m not a psychologist, but I can speak for my own experience as an introvert and not having any friend. Till I turned 40, I felt ashamed of not having friends, because I felt it was kind of a moral and social obligation for anyone to be considered “normal”. But then I got rid of that complex and I got convinced that I enjoyed life a lot on my own. You see, I’ve always had a very rich inner world: I love reading, going to the theater, to the movies, and above all, music is the most important part in my life, so I enjoy tremendously going to concerts two or three times a week. All these activities, I do them by myself, I don’t need anyone to share them. More than that: I don’t need to talk to anybody about what I’ve just seen.I also play the piano and write novels, and these two activities make me feel so fulfilled that I don’t have time to hang out with friends. Also I go to the gym every day because I love to live healthy. All this might sound odd or sad to a lot of people, but believe me if I tell you that I am so happy with my current life that sometimes I can hardly believe it.Just one more thing. What allowed me to get rid of that feeling of being ashamed for not having friends was a book by a spanish psychologist, Rafael Santandreu, whose motto was: People just need two things in order to be happy: food to eat and somewhere to sleep. Any other need is an artificial need. So I realized I didn’t need friends to be happy and therefore, I hadn’t to feel ashamed of that.
My best friends saw me crying and now im embarrassed...?
im 13 and in 7th grade these guys are like my siblings. So i went to a senior graduation at my school and all the seniors are my best friends... So i cried. which i never ever do. And my senior friend (Lets call him Matt) Came to find me. I saw crying..hard. and he's only seen me cry like once. And he got really worried so he got our other senior friend (lets call him Tom) And they both came to me. Matt pulled me into his lap and tom held my hand and gently stroked my check. Ann, what wrong? Tm asked me. And i really didnt want them to see me crying.. But i told them and they both gave me lots of love and said it'd be ok. But im really embarrassed that i cried in front of them... and wy did matt just hold me? it felt really nice to be loved but do they think im week now? i've always been tough but i've always been Matts and Toms little girl. Or little sister. please no hurtful answers... thanks, Ann
I think my friend is embarrassed by me?
This is probably a bit long but it would be great if you can give me some advice? (10points) So basically me and my friend are both 18 and we have been friends since about age 13 i think. I've aways been the 'odd one out' to everyone, never really fitting in or being first choice etc etc but i just got on with it. But i've always felt a bit odd with her sometimes. She wont ever mention me on facebook, she wont ever take pictures with me, on instagram or anything,she wont ever directly say to anyone that i'm her friend etc etc (it was my birthday last month, she took pictures of us all but didn't put them anywhere socially but she puts her other photos on of her and her other friends) Best friends have lots of sleepovers correct? I've lost count the times that she has stayed at my house/eaten dinner/come over yet i have slept her house only once? She lets other people stay at her house but not me? What i think could be the reason behind it is that i'm ugly and fat. (It sounds childish.....) I have very low confidence being the weight i am and i'm a comfort eater whereas she is a healthy size 6/8/10. She can wear the hot short dresses, she can go out clubbing etc but i can't cause i'm too embarrassed of how i look. I think she's embarrassed of me because of the way i look. I'm the 'fat friend' She's constantly telling me she loves me (obviously in a friend way lol) and that i mean a lot to her and that i'm her best friend. Yet why does she not want to ever mention me/take pictures with me or anything? I mean she won't even invite me to her house? I just need some advice........ should i tell her my feelings? Should i just get on with it like i've done for all these years? (it's just as i'm older it's getting more upsetting idk why) I just don't get why she is like that after being close friends for over 5 years :(
My 'best friend' humiliated and betrayed me infront of other people!?
Hi! I have this secret, the thing I did and that I'm ashamed of and I haven't told anyone about it. Two months ago my 'best' friend broke into my facebook account and found out about it. Since then, she was acting a bit weird, but I always taught, that is because we had a lot of exams and studying to do. Once, she made a performance, she was all serious and stuff and she was acting like she did that thing, that I did.She was 'telling' me that she 'did' it just to see my reaction about it. And I acted quite normal about it. In saturday, we had a party at her house and she was drunk. I don't know how, because I drank waay more than her and I was sober. So, on that party of hers, she told everyone about my secret. I was feeling ashamed, guilty and humiliated. After that, some other friends came to me, saying that they knew it already, that she told them because 'she needed talk to someone to understand me'. I don't get it. Why didn't she talk to me first instead of talking to our very talkative friends?! We were best friends for 2 years! And when she was saying that, she felt proud of herself because of doing it. She acted like she's better than me. She's very competitive type and I never had problem about that, except now, when she told my secret because she wanted to have attention. I guess that is the reason of her betrayal. I don't know what to do. When I tried to explain it to her, she didn't believe me! And I am/was her best friend!! I was so mad, but this is our friendship we're talking about. Shall I forgive her? And I feel so ashamed about my secret. I know that we all have secrets, but there is no manual to tell you how you should behave after public humiliaton. Help, please! P.S. I didn't tell her about my secret, because she's extremly judging person and I was really ashamed of it.