I am being blamed for something I didn't do!?
At my school there has been a nasty writing on the wall with a list of me and my friends name saying die in hell. I was in the toilets before the incident and I lied 2 times to the police why I was in the toilet saying the teacher sent me. They looked at the CCTV and i appeared I was in the toilet for 5 mins. The only reason for that was because of my period and a number 2. The police now think I wrote the things on the wall and I didn't. She might give me exclusion and I'm scared what my parents will say as I am an A* student and have never had a detention. Please help!!
My parents blamed me for something I didn't do?!?!?
Basically I came home early and for some reason my moms computer screen was broken like actually smashed. I had not even known and my mom came home and saw it and came into my room and shouted at me. I told her I didn't do it because I hadn't and the only person who could have done it was my younger sister (who is 14) who got angry at my mom. She went over to her friends in the afternoon but was here for the whole morning and it was only her so it was obviously her. Yet my mom is blaming me and has grounded me. Even after I've told her it was my sister she shouted at me telling me that I was accusing her when I looked like I was 'lying' and now I'm grounded for a month for no reason....what do I do????
How do you cope with being blamed for something you didn't do by your best friend?
Honestly if your bestfriend cannot listen to your side of the story and trust you or atleast try to figure out what happened and connect the story etc.You need to get out of that unhealthy friendship. You might be like “Shes not always like this" yea mine wasn't either but yet she was like that when times weren't like she wanted and she was comparing me to other girls and their bestfriend. You can try to work it out but one of you both is bound to end the friendship. Mine left me because she thought I was lying to her (I wasn't she was just insecure) and she made up rumors and I got through it like a boss and I have a new bestfriend and were going for 4 years and this up coming week it's our girls night out:)…There's really nothing you can do except talk it out and listen (Mine didnt wanna listen which was another reason to why I got tired of it) You're bound to get tired from expectations and stuff you didnt do or aren't.Sorry if it doesnt help much but it really depend on how you both talk it out. As well I would get lowkey blackmailed and I'd follow along because I didnt wanna lose her until I snapped one day and my Inner bitch came out. You dont deserve her attitude at something you didnt do and you dont deserve her Bullshit side of her story if shes not willing to hear you out tf because shes not being fair and if shes that pissed at something you didnt do then she can go fuck herself because you're not to be blamed for something you didnt do.
When did you take the blame for something you didn't do?
Those were early years of our married life. Eldest son was only one year plus but he was aware of our enmity with lizards. They were not allowed to stay in our house. He brought news through body language that we had one hiding in drawing room. I was duty bound to go on offensive right from the word go. Shooing out was an option only reluctantly afforded by wife. So, objective was to go for the kill in true sense.Initially a broom and a long rod were the weapons used (later I thought it safe without long rod). Wife used to leave us not being able to witness (may be because of spine tingling). There was a bang. I noticed that the only vase there was somehow brought down perhaps by Saqib (my son). Bang brought her back to the drawing room. I knew I could never convince her that the lizard was at fault. I did not want to lay blame on the little one. I PICKED UP THE COURAGE TO ACCEPT THE BLAME THAT ‘PERHAPS’ I HAD ACCIDENTALLY DONE THAT.. . . . . As compensation, I not only killed the lizard but saw another one and killed that too. That mitigated the loss and the next day vase was replaced with a better one. . . . . . No one knew how liberal I was in taking the blame!Thanks for a2a.
A song about being blamed for something you didn't do?
Here are a few songs: Everybody's Fool by Evanescence Thank You by Simple Plan Never Take Friendship Personal by Anberlin When You're Around by Motion City Soundtrack
Getting blamed for something i didn't do?
it sounds as if you were "falsley accused" , sorry for that. but, from the way it sounds, you have a very understanding and caring father. #1 you didn't get punished (which most kids would), #2 he was also worried about the fact that you might be mad at him. sometimes, parents are done with a subject. kids have a tendency to talk/argue it to death, and us a parents finally say enough is enough. he thinks you did it, you say you didn't. it is time to agree to disagree. just drop it, and if it happens again, then you should stand up and make it very clear you did not do it.
Have you ever taken (or gotten) the blame for something you didn’t do?
Yes! Multiple times but I’ll never forget the one time it happened during high school football.So I was an actually pretty great student in HS, and therefore didn’t get along with quite a few of my football players who kind of labeled me as the nerdy jock type. Well one of my teammates had his phone come up missing before practice.And of course he decided to tell coach that it was me and that he saw me take his phone and put it in my backpack.Well Coach didn’t really do any investigation and I remember being called up after practice was done and told that stealing wasn’t allowed on this team. So I was told to get on the goal line and be on my stomach.I knew that meant one thing: bear crawls.I think I ended up doing 350 yards of bear crawls before I just collapsed from exhaustion and throwing up. So I got up and went back into the locker room where everyone was gone with the coach behind me.Because I knew I didn’t do it I asked if we could take a quick look in my teammates locker. And lo and behold the phone had fallen behind the locker in the little crack between the locker and the wall.Coach treated me to dinner on him, and I remember my teammate have a couple days of bear crawls for his false allegations.Karma can be swift and just sometimes!
How can I prove I didn’t do something that I’m being wrongly blamed for?
I’m going to assume that if this involves the law, you got a lawyer, and you’re working through it with them.But in the rest of life - the social, familial, workplace aspects - you may not always be able to prove your innocence.Sometimes, it takes God and years and living in a way that proves you to be an honest person.I know it’s frustrating. I’ve lived for weeks now getting blamed on several sides for something entirely out of my control.One could say I opened the door; it’s true, I did. But a baby kitten knocked on the door and I invited it in. The stampede of elephants that followed was entirely unforeseen. And it hurts to be treated like I put out stampeding elephant herd bait and hung it from the highest tree.But when you’re feeling misunderstood, you have to put your feelings aside. You have to see how things appear to others. Sometimes you can even identify how they arrived at the conclusions they did.You reject your feelings of hurt and betrayal and misunderstanding - something I cannot do without God - and you live your life doing your best.Do your best to live in a way that makes it crystal clear you are not the type to do what people are assuming you did.And leave the rest to God.