Trouble with my best friends sister?
i think she likes you, or thinks your hot and wants to do stuff with you. but as you said, she is your best friends sister, i know im not a guy but i was pretty sure that your best friends sister was off limits. honestly, leave it. if she keeps acting that way, try to ignore it but if not talk to her about it, say your not interested or something. your friend will be with you for life, and she will just most likely move on to the next guy leaving you alone and friendless (only said that cuase she sounds/ you said she is kinda slutty. most slutty girls who act like that move on once they have "concurred" the guy)
Lately I've been having trouble talking to my best friend. I can't find anything to talk about. Why is this happening despite both of us having a lot of common interests?
I think some friendships just naturally end. Especially when transitions happen. During my transition from middle school to high school I noticed that many friend groups from middle school kind of drifted apart. Things happen for reasons(or at least I like to think so) Don’t be to worried about it. Just let things run it’s course.But if you are really set on keeping this friendship maybe you just need to rekindle it. Perhaps you have not been hanging out as much as you used to. Set up times and meetups with this friend. This will show them that you really value their company. You could get coffee, go to the movies, etc.Really though this could just be a phase. Maybe you are just going through a period of disconnect from eachother. Don’t worry about it:) If they are a true friend they will stay being your friend. Sometimes things just happen.
I am having trouble with my best friend last summer, we were so close but now she ignores me. I have given her time but I don’t know what to do. I want to be friends but I don’t know how. What should I do?
Try and talk to her. And be honest, tell her your sorry and you want to make up. You know, what you just told us, you dont know how, you want her to stop ignoring you.
I got my friend in huge trouble!?
So, there was that party one of my friends was doing. I am 19, so I didn't had a problem going even if it was a school night. Allthough, my best friend is 16 so he had to ask for permission before. His dad was very negative, thing I get now, and he didn't allow him to come. I wanted him to be there, so I told him to lie to his dad and tell him he was going to sleep in my house so I could help him with a project he had. His father let him eventually, and we went to the party together. We had fun untill some guy took a selfie with us, and put it on Facebook, tagging our names. Unfortunately, my friend's dad saw this and he become very angry. He called my friend, yelling at him, and like 40' later he was there and took my friend back home. The next day, I tried calling my friend, texted him,but nothing. I went by his house, knocked the door, and his dad opened the door, and he told me to get in, in a kinda angry tone. I apologized, and said that it was all my fault, but I don't think he was relieved with that. Then, I talked with my friend a little and left. My friend is grounded from everything for 1 month and he is not allowed to leave the house for anything expect school. His dad said I am allowed to see him, every Sunday for an hour and so, thing I am grateful after all I did. I am an asshole, and I know my friend is suffering. I know it seems I am a bad influence, which may I am, but is there anything I can do to help him?
What are the problems of having a best friend of the opposite gender?
OMG! this is the question I was looking for.Thanks for A2A.There's many problem but will explain only a few of them.We're in standard 5 but not in same school ND we became friends as she was my neighbor.We're celebrating 7th anniversary of our friendship and somewhat I noticed that many of my friends have crush on her (boys obviously). She is beautiful, intelligent, sports girl and social too. So, from my experience, I have had theseProblems list:Everyone will assume that she is your girl friend, though there’s nothing like that in between us.If you are in college, you’ll have to face A-Z complements like “your friend is beautiful, could you intro me to her,from when you both are in relationship etc.You both spend a lot of time together, go to night out, new places and some times share bed (No lovemaking) but there could be a situation of unconsciousness.Like in same gender, we share everything with our best friend but in case of apposite gender, there could be odd in sharing internal manners like ‘how often you masturbate in a week’, ‘have you ever been in sexual intercourse’ etc.her boyfriend could feel insecure and sometimes he may questions her about you and same conditions applied to boys too.these are the common problems that mostly happens in best friend of apposite gender.Days, weeks, months and years will pass and you both will see many changes in between both of you and there will be a day of your turning point when you will have to make a priority, like best friend or your life’s goal (could be anything).I’m not saying final cut, but naturally you choose which one should be prioritize. I’m not criticizing anyone, friendship is really beautiful, great experience.She got married and have a baby of 2 years and still she is my best friend but as I said, priorities has been changed for me as well for her too.
I am having problems with my friend. She is awesome, but she recently got a boyfriend. I just miss the way we once were. She's all over him and her other best friend. What should I do?
The fact that she got a boyfriend recently, says quite a few things. Just remember in the beginning of any relationship people feel the need to be around each other almost all the time and this can carry on well into almost 3-4 months of dating and then it begins to cool off and they slowly "return" to you. If the first few months have already passed, talk to her about it. Tell her you don't feel she's giving you enough time or honoring the friendship the way you want it to be honored. Most importantly, don't get cold/annoyed with her because that will just put her off completely. Speak clearly and address the issue at hand.As far as hanging out with another friend goes, this is bound to happen at any time. Sometimes you swing between poles of best friends. You feel close to one or the other, or sometimes none. It's happened to me several times where I'm close to one friend for a couple of months, but then closer to another for a couple of months. The best thing you can do in this situation is, ask her to meet up with you or spend time with you. If you can stomach it, ask her other best friend too. Who knows what a couple of interactions between the three of you could lead to?I hope this answer helps you and you can take the steps necessary!
How do I fix these problems with my best friend?
Super-cliche answer coming up, but the truth is, if she's really your friend, this will pass. She's not going to throw away her best friend because she had to go to work. Eventually you two will get to talking and you'll explain that if you had to answer which is your favorite thing to do: go to work vs. hang out with your friend, you'd obviously answer the latter because, duh.She'll still be defensive even though she knows she's wrong and didn't need to blow up in that way because she doesn't want to look stupid but you're sympathetic to the fact that hey, it's your birthday, we had plans. Your expectations were not met and as a result, she felt bad. Shit happens. It wasn't your idea to plan all of this and then leave her hanging at the last minute because, duh. That's just not cool.If she's your friend, it'll be water under the bridge soon enough. If it never happens, congratulations, you just lost a fake friend.
What’s up with my best friend?
Okay so, I have been friend with this girl for a year (I am also a girl) we are best friends only because she kind of rushed the friendship because of home issues. I just found out that she might be bisexual from another friend and I’m totally okay with that! The only problem is that she took one of my sweatshirts to wear to bed because my scent calms her down and she shows up to my house unexpected and barely hangs out with anyone else and gets upset when I do. She always talks about how she wants to live with me because her mom is crazy and how I’m the only one who makes her happy, and whenever she sleeps over she wants to share a bed but I kick in my sleep and like my space(it’s the same with everyone also). Ok anyways I just need clarification does she like me? Is she obsessed or something? I really want to keep out friendship but she just seems a little too attatched.
Im having friendship problems.. HELP!?
ok well i have been having a rocky friendship, between my bestfriend and my ex bestfriend, i ABSOULUTLY HATE my ex bestfriend and my bestfriend has like every class with her, i cant help but to get extremly jelious when i see them together, or talking. i trust my bestfriend but i think i need to kno how to trust myself, sometimes when my bestfriend is over and were bored she send text messages to everyone in her phone contact and my ex bestfriend is part of it, well she sends something back and then they start texting, i get extremly jelious and worried, my bestfriend says that she hates her and everything, but when i see stuff writtin on her hand by my ex bestfriend gets me soo mad but i dont say anything, i act like it dont bother me but inside im melting, i cant help but to think of them 2 becoming friends, or something i need to kno what to do, and FAST this is realy concerning me.