Have you ever loved someone so much that it made you cry?
*sigh*I’m going to go on record to say that I’m a bit embarrassed about this. I know there will be some people (if anyone reads this) who will say I shouldn’t be embarrassed. I’m sure there will be people who will think I’m some kind of wuss.Oh well. Here goes….If you follow me, it’s no secret that I love my wife, so it shouldn’t be a surprise that this answer is about her.Our wedding day, despite some minor issues, was a great day. The setting, reception, the food: all great. The moment that stands out the most to me, however, was our dance.Our song was “Everything” by Lifehouse. It’s a beautiful song. It’s also a fairly long song, especially for a wedding dance. My wife looked into my eyes and sang that song to me as we danced. I remember thinking how lucky I was to have someone who clearly loved me so much. You could see it in her eyes. Later my wife told me that one of the women who worked the reception even said that she’d never seen a bride look as happy as she did.Fast-forward to the following night after our wedding. I was having trouble sleeping and then my mind decided to play the cruel trick it occasionally likes to do, and started thinking dark thoughts. Some of those thoughts touched on what I would do if I lost my wife. Some thoughts touched on the fact that I didn’t deserve her. I kept replaying our dance in my head and I kept seeing her beautiful face singing those beautiful words to me. I saw the love in her eyes and the smile she wore as she sang.I don’t deserve a love like that.I don’t know what I would do if I ever lost her.Eventually those cruel thoughts overwhelmed me, and I started to cry. I cried pretty hard. Hard enough to wake my poor wife who was sleeping next to me. Of course she asked what was wrong and I had to explain why her new husband’s pathetic sobs woke her from a perfectly good sleep.Like I said earlier, embarrassing.In the end, I am who I am. I guess there are worse things than being capable of intense emotions.Now if you’ll excuse me, I just knocked my chocolate, creme-filled doughnut on the floor, so I’m off to the bathroom to cry.
If you could tell your ex one last thing, what would you say?
I am really thankful to you for teaching me some of the finest lessons of my life.You taught me how great I look. It was you who made me feel wonderful. After meeting you I realised that “Beauty is not how you look. It's about how you represent yourself.”It was the relationship with you that taught me that sex is not a necessity in any relationship. Your relationship can survive without even hugs. We never hugged or kissed each other, still we were together.It was you who taught me that looking in your partner's eyes is the sexiest gesture you can pull off. It's amazing gazing continuously in the eyes of your loved one and talking to each other, without uttering a word.It was you who taught me that you should be ready to make some extra efforts to make a relationship interesting. From love letters that we passed secretly to phone calls that we made even after knowing the worst outcomes, I remember everything.Finally, it was you who taught me that if you want to stay happy in life, learn to detach yourself from the people who are gone.Thanks once again for the most important lesson of my life.You left, and I cried for days. I waited for you, for months. But, you didn't appear.And when I heard about you after a long, it was about your engagement.But, by then, I was emotionally stable. I just smirked. That's it. I didn't laugh. I didn't cry either.Your absence made me stronger. I hated you for few months initially. But, then I placed you as one of the most beautiful parts of my life. I don't hate you anymore.You were amazing. I respect you, still, for all the love and care that you showered on me.I had many questions for you. But, I don't want answers anymore.Some questions are better unanswered.Some paths are better unwalked.Thank You. May God Bless You, And Your Husband.
I'm depressed and I can't trust anyone. I'm so tired that sometimes I'm thinking about death. I need help but how can I trust them?
The WORLD as I see itIt is the title of the book written by Einstein in1953.This title of the book reveals Everything you are Looking for but wait i said if You are Looking.By this I mean is that You must be ready and willing to come OUT of the Problem. See our problem is that we start to romance with our problem. It seems like we want to come out of the problem but we are very attached to the problem.Back to TITLE of the book…see we have two sights….one the EYE SIGHT and the MIND SIGHT.Eye sight is physical….the problem…what we are seeing…but Mind sight is how represent things to ourselvesThe problem may not be the real problem but our REPRESENTATION of the problem to ourselves… The Way You See itif you don’t detach yourself from the problem…it will affect your thinking process…and every thing seems flawed…but actually it is not…you would be acting under the problem.So let me tell you…i am selling or may be telling you the cause..the root of your problems and then you can try other things likeWriting down your problemDiscussing this with a responsible and caring personsee related videosjoing social groupsSo basically these will change your thinking process…so you will have to grasp the fact that it is THE WAY YOU SEE ITand then take action…if you like to solve the problem by playing Games…you can read my answer to one of the question…i have written it thereKNOW THYSELF
It's been 2 years and I still love him. I thought that time would heal things, but nothing is getting better. I want to die because I can't imagine a life without him. Should I?
Hello everyone, it’s the question writer here. I’m not sure how to communicate with you guys anonymously, so I did this … I hope it’s okay.I wanted to thank you all for your kind words as well as reassure you that I am okay. Of course, I am focused on my own endeavors all the time…I don’t actively spend time dwelling on my ex when I know that I could be doing something more productive. But there is still pain on the inside that is slowly eating me. The circumstances surrounding our breakup were complicated. He wanted to be with me very badly but his parents wouldn't approve of my race (they’ve never even seen me or know anything about me except that I’m not of the right race), which was very humiliating and made me depressed, not only over my broken relationship, but over the state of our world. I used to be quite naive in regards to issues of social divisions, but this experience has given me a rude awakening.I loved him to pieces. He was my first love and the first person that I “liked.” Consequently, I don’t understand the concept of “getting over someone that you love.” It seems strange to me. Of course the concept is indeed a thing that can be understood, but it’s taking me some time, that’s all. I can acknowledge that he is not perfect. In fact, he most definitely does not have the qualities that I look for in a partner (even you can tell this quite easily by noting his fear of his parents…).Anyways, I’m not sure what I am getting at. I’m okay, but I’m hurting and I’m trying my best to recover, but it’s hard. Thank you for your help, you guys make me feel like I can do it.
My dog just died:::pls. help?
Oh Sweety, I'm so very sorry. I can imagine how badly you feel. I've been there several times and it's never easy. I think if you wanted to stay home from school tomorrow, your mom and dad would both understand. You need time to grieve and time to cry. I've had to to work crying over a dog once and wish I would have stayed home. It's not east. Cry all want. I know that this is easy for me to say, but try to remember the good times and the happy memories you had with your dog. Your dog will live forever in your heart and she will always hold a special there. For now, you must also remember that your dog isn't suffering and she's probable with the dogs that I've had who are waiting for me at the Rainbow Bridge and that they are all playing and running around together until we see them again. I'm going to give you some links that hopefully will help you through this difficult time. The first two links are for The Rainbow Bridge and the others are sites where you can place a free memorial for your dog. Again, my sincere condolences.
I feel so empty without her, what now..?
It takes time. I lost my "once in a lifetime, never have another one like him" gelding Nov. 18, 2000. I still have a hard time when it gets close to that date. Have his halter hanging on my computer table, and his picture on my desk (and framed on a wall, and in my wallet, and countless ones in my scrapbook). It hurt like hell to lose him, and I was ready to give up the whole thing too. I still get a little choked up when I see a purdy grey with a long flowing mane and tail, but in time, another horse could really help you to ease your pain. I've ridden several since I lost Ghost, but finally, almost 8 years after his loss, I've got two that I'm really enjoying. One is a big goofy grey gelding. Not the fastest guy in the world, but he oozes sweet. In your pocket, wants to be your best buddy in the whole world. The other one is faster, and fun, and I like to give her more credit probably than due and figure that she knows that I saved her from being shot and fed to lions, but she's just pleasant to be around. As for what to do with your momentos, you might try going to a hobby store, or perhaps find a place on line....anyway, I've seen custom frames that are deep enough that you could perhaps use the blanket as a backdrop, then mount her halter, bridle, etc in a sort of collage. Then there's a glass front to protect it. I had all sorts of ideas for Ghost's halter, but it's still hanging here. One insensitive friend suggested I just pry his name plate off and keep that, and reuse the halter, but I couldn't do it. Besides, halters aren't that expensive, I've paid more than that for less meaningful decorations. Best of luck to you.