What is the best thing about someone born under the cancer sign?
Positive Traits: kind, loving, emotional, intuitive, imaginative, shrewd, cautious, protective and sympathetic. Negative Traits: changeable, moody, over-emotional, touchy, untidy, clinging, unable to "let go," and a tendency to wallow in self-pity. Likes: hobbies, romance, children, parties, home and country. Dislikes: failure, opposition, aggravating situations, being told what to do and being given advice...whether good or bad. Natives of Cancer are probably most in tune with those governed by Pisces, since Pisces is prone to moods just like Cancer, but of a less volatile nature. This is a couple who will find peace and harmony throughout the majority of their relationship. Scorpio, another Sign ruled by the element of Water, would also be favorable since Scorpio is equal to the moods of Cancer and capable of great understanding. Cancer finds the Scorpio depth of character intriguing and will certainly appreciate the rich view of life inherent in the Scorpio nature, to say nothing of the awareness and perception associated with that Sign. This is a couple who will likely provide everything either has ever wanted in a relationship. The physical chemistry here is quite amazing...it is long-lasting and only gets better with the passage of time.
I lost my Build-a-Bear certificate, I don't need the code I would just like the actual certificate! :( Help?
You can always call them and let them know that type of bear, date you'd like on the certificate, and your name and the employee would be more than happy to make one and mail it out to you. I know, personally, the store I work at is very slow at mailing out things. We rarely even check incoming mail. Or you could bring in the bear, they'll pop the seam in the back, remove the "find me" tag (it was the bottom portion of your ear tag that has the same number you used to register the bear on the computer with) and type the number in the computer. If it hasn't been too long (less than 6 months, I believe) your original birth certificate will come up and you can reprint it. They'll then put the find me tag back in and re-sew your bear. This service is free. =D I recommend coming into the store (probably on a Tuesday, Wednesday, or any other normally slow day in retail) as it's always faster and you'll probably have an associate all to yourself to help you if you need anything. Good luck!
Are there any upsides to borderline personality disorder?
I’ll try to be careful because I don’t want my answer to seem flip, insincere, or sarcastic. I was married to a woman suffering from borderline personality disorder and it turned out to be a very disconcerting experience, in large part because of the constant lying and deceptions. And there were her inexplicable money problems, despite her large salary, and lies about the money problems. There was one significant upside and that was the sex. Susan (not her real name) was an uninhibited and incredible lover who climaxed faster and more frequently than any woman I’d ever been with. When we met we were both just turning 50. One of the many things that puzzled me about Susan (when were together) was that she claimed to have been sexually molested by more than one of her (alcoholic, barfly) mother’s transient boyfriends. (According to Susan the first and only time she met her father was when she turned 18 and looked the man up, only to be humiliated by a man who categorically denied any possibility of having fathering her.) Additionally, when we started dating Susan swore that she had only had two previous lovers and that her sexual experience was limited to vanilla, missionary position intercourse. At the time I couldn’t understand how a woman who’d been molested, and who claimed to be so inexperienced, could suddenly turn into a sultry, unrestrained, ravenous, multiple-orgasmic vixen. In retrospect I’m left wondering if anything she said was true. Including the molestation, the inexperience, being rejected by her father, and the multiple orgasms. Still, the sex was real and it was incredible.Addendum: I remember reading about a doctor who compared working with borderline personality disorder patients to ice skating up hill. That really rang true for me. (Susan once bragged that back when she went to therapy she was good at getting the different therapists to talk about themselves.) Breaking up was a heartbreaker because I felt (and still do to some extent) that I was deserting someone I cared deeply about. What finally pushed me over the edge was the sense that I was playing the role of a good guy who swam out to save a drowning loved one, only she didn’t want to be rescued. Instead, she was saying to me, “If you really love me you’ll drown with me.”
You Know Your A Dancer When...?
I have These "you know Your a dancer when" can you add To them??? ... You atomatically stary cheographing whenever you hear music. ...Your dance teacher has set up a bedroom for you in the studio ... You sit in staddle stretch while watching TV or reading. ...You can't resist doing grand jetes down an empty hallway of grocery aisle. ...Every handrail you see is transformed into a ballet bar. ...Your hair has a permanent crease from wearing it in abun or pony. ...Your worst slouch is an average person's best flat back. ...You have more dance clothes than regular clothes. ...Your bedroom is arranged to provide the largest open area possible. ...You sleep with your legs turned out. ...You're not allowed to wear makeup to school yet, but you'r a pro putting it on. ...When snapping a photo of friends, instead of saying "Cheese," you say "5,6,7,8!" ...Your joints crack loudly enough to be mistaken for gunfire. ...A pedicure takes two hours. ...You stand in fifth position while waiting in the lunch line. ...You've forgotten what it feels like to wake up in the morning and not have sore muscles. ...You tape and re-watch episodes of "So You Think You Can Dance." ...For you, legwarmers were always in fasion. ...You've come up with at least three other ways to wear tights besides on your legs.