I Am Not Happy With My Life .

I'm not happy with my life!?

Happiness, like every other emotion is a choice. I think you need to revise through your priorities. Why does your best friend hate you? Hate is a strong word. Since he/she is your BEST friend, the feeling should kinda be mutual dont you think? The only way to make things right is communication.

I'm sorry about your dad and you are def still very much a kid. Stay that way! There's no hurry to grow up. Siblings are always tough, I know how annoying it can get when you are accused of something you ddnt do. Dont let it get to you. Its not even worth it. Ignorance is bliss.

I made a mistake during my early teens, I took all the problems I had in life and put it before my studies. Never, do that. Dont deal with problems that arnt yours. What are your priorties? what is expected of you? at your age, what should you be doing?

Most of the time, its the negative thought that ends up being followed by a negative action. Dont dwell on things so much. Fix the stuff you can fix (dont leave it to tomorrow), dump the stuff you cant do anything about. Worrying gets us nowhere. Treasure the things & people you have in your life. Dont take them for granted.

Be in control. You can control your actions. The question is, do you want to? Why arnt you responsible? Do something about it. We cant wish to be confident or wish to smart. Its a learning proccess that causes the change. Since you say you're irresponsible, learn to be responsible. Be responsible for your actions, admit to your mistakes. No one is perfect so dont get upset with the flaws.

Honesty, Sincerity, Understanding and Communication is what keeps friendships & relationships going. If people cant love & accept you the way you are, they arnt worth it. I am losing friends myself, its not something Im proud of but well, people do change every single day and thats often beyond our control.

I've seen your video on youtube and believe me, the last thing you are is ugly! come on! You're beautiful! Every chance you get to see a reflection of yourself, tell yourself you're beautiful. One fine day, you'll actually believe it :)

Take things one step at a time. Life isnt perfect, its filled with uncertainty and infact its pretty sucky but it still goes on. People come in to this world and die everyday and life still goes on. Do what makes you happy, be the person you wanna be and leave the rest to the one above.

God Bless

I'm not happy with my life so far....?

I'm 14, but I'm not "happy". I'm not bullied and I have a pretty normal life. I have above average grades and I have no pressures from friends or family. But I'm just not content with my life, I want something more. I hate having the same schedule of waking up at 6, going to high school, doing hw, and going to bed. It's boring. I find myself crying myself to sleep often about it. I don't know what to do.

I am not happy with my life because I'm not famous. Pleeeaaassseeee help!?

This isn't a huge issue and you shouldn't hate your life because you're not famous. Everyone wants to be noticed and everyone wants to feel admired, loved, and appreciated. I don't think your depression, and yes, you show signs of depression, is stemming from NOT being noticed, though it is a factor. I would like you to think about your life so far; what have you accomplished? You're 18 years old, heading off to college, and though it doesn't sound big, it is. Do you know how little people make it to college and how many people don't even graduate? You say you don't have any talent, but talent isn't just about preforming; be an artist, a writer, give inspiration to others! People become famous because they do what they love and they do it well. I'm not saying you have to be the best in whatever it is you decide to do, but completing your education is a huge first step.

Also, if you don't enjoy it, don't do it. And you DO deserve recognition, everyone does. There's nothing wrong with being a normal person, in fact, just about every famous person you see today was once a normal person and still are. You shouldn't say you hate your life because out of thousands of other people that could have been born, you were the only one that was. Take advantage of that! You only get one life, if you want to be famous, be famous!

I Am Very Unhappy With My Life?

I am 18 and live at home with my parents and sister. I just graduated high school and I am going to community college in the fall. I have no motivation to do anything so all I do everyday is sleep and sit doing nothing until it is time to go to sleep again. I've been diagnosed with depression, I'm taking meds which helps. But I'm very unhappy with my life. I want to move out, for example but I don't think I can get a job that pays enough for me to be able to move out. I don't have any friends so I can't get roommates. I'm so tired of living like this. What I really want is to get a job (I've applied to a few places), move out, and begin a new life. My therapist told me to make a plan and that he would help me with it, but I'm afraid there is nothing I can do right now that could change my life. I can't live another day this way, I need change but I don't know what I can do. Any advice? Any help? Please?

I'm not happy in my life....! I need your help?

First of all...as you can see by the answerer who recommended illegal drug use...illegal drugs fry your brain and ability to think straight. So that is NOT the route to go.

Everyone has problems and many people go through slumps, especially at your age. It's hard to get motivated when you are not really sure what your life's path should be. At your age, it is time to look into everything to find out what does get you excited and motivated.

If you really don't have any friends, join clubs, take some fun classes, get a part-time job doing something you might be interested in, volunteer!! All these things will take your mind off of your 'stressful' life and get you out there meeting people and finding out who you really are.

Perhaps you have already outgrown your old friends and it's time to meet some new people and shake things up a little. All of the above mentioned will help you circulate socially, and discover new venues and friends. Give it a try.

While I agree, professional help or a hotline where you can talk to someone immediately is HIGHLY recommended, I just think you need a change of scenery to get you out of this depression.

I am 40. I still have my moments. And when that happens, I take off for a couple of days to some new event or city to discover, to get my head back on straight, meet some new people and find a few new adventures.

19 is a confusing time. Don't let the normalcies of 19 turn into a tragedy. Get out there and LIVE YOUR LIFE!!

A busy life is a happy life?

i live a very dull life.which is sad for somone as young as me. i think so much crap when i'm bored and i get depressed when i spend my days doing nothing and being called a loser by my sister. i am thinking of getting involved with so many things. i want to be swamped w/ so much activity that i wount have time to think so much. i am pumped, i'm already in school, but i want a job, i want to join school clubs, i want to go out more and do fun things. does busy really equal happy???or is that just my mentality and take on things???