I Am Planning To Go To Boracay Island With My Boyfriend

After four years in a relationship I'm losing interest in my boyfriend. I think I don't love him now. What should I do?

I am amazed at the response to this question..I mean seriously I can’t believe so many are trying to ascertain the fact that you should break up with him. First of all, let me clear something for you.A relationship is not a fancy thing used as a means to pass time. Seriously what do you expect from it? If you think that the spark is lost rethink on the statement itself. It is called a spark because it is never meant to last forever. Coming to the losing interest part, you have known him for 4 years man..you must know him inside out by now. Okay lets say, you found someone “interesting” again. What then? Can you guarantee that you will never lose interest in him? What is your other alternative then? Find another?Think rationally..relationship is a responsibility, a commitment given by each of you to each other,assuring that one will stand by the other through joy and sorrow. Relationship is a mixture of emotions and feelings, and he has invested all his feelings, channeling every bit of care and affection to keep you happy. And here you are blatantly telling that you lost interest in him, just like a child loses interest in his/her old toy.Go ahead and tell it to him. He would probably be shattered, he will probably plead you, try to rationalize all your feelings, defend what you have shared for four years with each other: and then all of a sudden you would probably find him more annoying and get more cruel in your ways to convey your message. In the end he will back off with a smile on his face respecting your decision with the only consolation that you will probably be happy without him in your life. But every night before he goes to bed, he will have a smile on his face as a result of all the cherished memories and also a tear drop rolling down his cheek at the same time.If he is really loyal to you and if he really cared for you, don’t let him go. You don’t know painful it is to break up without a valid reason. You will probably pray to god that even your worst enemies should never go through something like that, if you get a taste of what you are about to bring upon him.

I'm worried I've already moved too fast with my boyfriend. What do I do?

First, a more descriptive question (e.g. what it is that’s been done too fast) would assist in the quality of answers.Second, ‘doing things’ is a sideshow - the relationship is really about your emotional connection with him, and someone bored with their boyfriend or vice versa likely hasn’t achieved that, or has been with them for many years, or probably both.Third, what you perceive to be ‘too fast’ is likely to be slower than what he thinks is ‘too fast’. This is of course speculation based on the lack of description of the boyfriend as well, but most guys view the formalities and waiting as obstacles, whereas most women view them as necessary steps that should not be violated.