Im really worried about my husband =(?
My husband is 38 yrs old & is in relatively good health, i.e. good weight, normal blood pressure, physically active etc... For about the last month he's had "pressure" on his testicles & the skin between the scrotum/balls & the anus He thought maybe he had a lower hernia but the doctor said it definitely wasn't & he was sent to a gastro dr. ASAP b/c of his discomfort & b/c he had blood in his stool (not noticeable blood-they did a swab test that's how they found out) Well the GI "probed" his butt & my husband was in pain from that & the doctor felt "lumps" so he has him set up for a colonoscopy appt tomorrow - the initial consultation was about a week ago but now his left "ball" is noticeably swollen compared to the other & he's really uncomfortable, laying down, sitting, standing, ..... Im really starting to get worried - his colonoscopy is tomorrow so please no"ask a doctor" responses as that is an obvious given Please if anyone has any idea what the problem could be or has experienced this themselves or know of someone who has please let me know! thanks
Worried about husband's life!Pls Help.?
Hi I need help and advise from those of you who are patients of Ulcerative Colits.My husband has been a patient of this horrible disease for almost 4 yrs.He was taking Melasazine but he had a severe flare up and couldn't be controlled.His doctor has now put him on steroid- Prednisolone.. this is his first time with the steroid.Doc said because of the bad side effects,it should be used for short term.Prednisolone has shown great improvements and his doctor is slowly decreasing the doses.What I am worried about is that his doctor said once the steroids are stopped entirely, its possible that he may have a relapse again and he may have to start Azathioprine(Imuran). His doctor said there's a slight chance of getting skin cancer and other diseases with Imuran. can any of you pls tell me if any of you have been on these 2 drugs - Prednisolone and Imuran..and if anything horrible has ever happened to you? I am really worried about my husband since my future seems a little insecure with his disease. What about the life expectancy of patients with this disease? I really hope everything turns out fine with my husband and with those of you who are also patients of this terrible disease. Pls also let me know what other things are helpful with this disease.
Husband broke down crying today really worried about him?
My husband is not the person to cry at all he is usually a happy smiling person no matter what. Our 5 year old son has lukemia he was in remission untill recently and he is back in the hospital. My husband went to go stay with him this morning and he just saw how sick he was and my son asked him if he was going to die and he didn't know what to say and when he came home I was there with our two other kids ( 1 and 3 months). He just broke down crying he didn't even say anything. I know our son isn't his only problem he works a lot its really stressing him out he also travels for work. I'm just worried about him like I said he neve cries for the eight years I have known him I have neve seen him cry. It just breaks my heart.
I think my Husband is mentally ill, Please help me.?
Im gonna give you a brief break down of me and my husband. I am worried and scared, to the point I don't want him to come home anymore, I love him so much but for some reason he has changed. I am 27, he is 29, we have been together for 9 years and married for 2 1/2 years. When he was 26 he got put on a course of anti depressants but decided that he was not going to take them no more and stopped them, from that point he has turned into a nightmare because: * He does not like to socialize - either going out of having people round. * He does not like me going out - apparently he says we should spend every second together. * He moans about 90% of things I do, e.g. i have long dark hair and if 1 of my hairs fall out when i have just cleaned the living room floor, I get called a dirty B***ch, and that I have not cleaned up properly. *He is obsessed with cleaning the car, and oh god if i get it durty im called everything under then sun. *When he goes in a mood and I say anything to him, he either pushes me of out the way, or throws things (usually at me). *He always has to be right, even if I can prove he is wrong, Im in the wrong for mentioning it. *EVERYTHING is always my fault, and he always causes agruments. *If we do go out he deliberatly goes out of his way to try and embarass me by saying stupid comments. *It was my birthday yesterday, and he wrecked that (every year is the same) 4 friends come round, he did not talk to them, he kept the football on all night, he made rude comments about the buffet food I had cooked, and then kept saying I was the only sado who likes to celebrate her birthday with friends, *He moans we do not speand time together. When we do spend time toghether Im constantly on egg shells, and to be honest his idea of spending time together is sitting on different sofa's watching some violent film. * We have not had any sexual contanct since May 2008. *Ive walked in on him masterbating numerious times. *He always tells me he loves me, but never shows it *When he calls he is the nicest person on the phone, but not in person. Please someone tell me what they hell is wrong with him or is it me. Im at the stage now im prepared to give everything up (including my life) as I cant take this crap for much longer.
What is this on my tes*icle? It pains too. I'm worried, please help.
The growth on your scrotum has to be examined to reach to a diagnosis . From the picture you have shown following differential diagnosis can be kept :Genital wartInfects sebaceous cyst / folliculitisPyogenic granulomaCutaneous hornSCC…..You need to see a doctor for sure, complete examination and history need to be taken to reach to a diagnosis . Dermoscopy can also help. You may also need to get it biopsied. Either go to a dermatologist or a surgeon .There are lots of good government hospitals/ medical colleges where you don't need to pay money and you will get the best counselling and treatment .Take care !!
Should I worry if my husband is making friends with a woman I don't know?
Yes, you should worry. You must ask him to introduce them.Mind it, every new relation is started by friendship.If you are insecure. You should resist your husband to do friendship with female friends. You must talk about your insecurities. After marriage, there's no need to conceal about friendship.Firstly you should work on your insecurities. Trust is vert important in every relationship.If everything is fine and you like and know his frankness, also not feeling insecure, only then you must be okay.PR@TIBH@
Should I worry that my husband doesn't care how he hurts me or is not talking about our issues?
Dear questioner,First of all, wouldn't it be necessary to ask whether he is really that sensitive that he can see your troubles before he can think of adressing them?Maybe he is tied up with his own set of issues.And has no space to accommodate you. Do you really know his state of mind?I would suggest you to rather take a step back and before coming to any conclusion. Understand your husband. We often don't understand the other end of the story.Rather if really you need to worry then worry about your dependency on him for undertanding you.Why have you given him so much power that he can hurt you? That you consider those issues important that he doesn't have may time for?Can't you see your priorities are all wrong?I would suggest to step back further and understand yourself.Quoting a famous mystic and also the top Quora writer Shri Acharya Prashant Ji he says…“Find an absence of love, understanding and peace in your relationships? Its only because your relationships are devoid of a spiritual base.”Give your husband and yourself the chance to give your relationship a spiritual base.And spirituality is nothing but Science turned inwards according to him.Come and join for some clarity for your relationshipCall: 9999087117Email: requests@advait.org.in
An astrologer predicted that my husband will die this year. Is that true? Can someone help?
One of my close relatives was an excellent astrologer. Whoever visited him got 100 %true predictions. He never charged money as he believed he was earning enough as a financial consultant. 5 years back he predicted that as per his astrological chart he would die at the age of 72 due to severe illness. A week later he enjoyed a vacation returned home safely had a hearty dinner and went to sleep. He never woke up. He was 60 when this happened. Doctors said he passed away in his sleep painlessly. Now this made me believe that life, death or any other event is only in the hands of God! Whether to act or react depends on free will exercised by the human being. If you live in a family at different points of time people will experience different ups and downs. Please don't bother! Pray to God, have faith and move on. Astrology is a vast science, very few have complete knowledge of it. You may be surprised quiet a few predictions have gone wrong for me! I place my faith in my Guru and God! only. Please consult a better astrologer whose predictions don't induce despair! There can be nothing worse than losing hope because of a negative statement. Why live in fear of an event that may not take place as predicted? It is said in scriptures that those who place faith in God and surrender to him are protected souls! So please ignore predictions like these!