My mom is so mad at me and I'm scared, what do I do?
Just calm down.One time, I didnt speak to her because I was too busy with my phone and she got so mad she started to grab my phone and threw it on the floor— with a touch of grounding me for weeks.Also, similar to your case, she tried to call me many times when I was hanging out with my friends and I forgot to call or even text her where I was. She was so pissed.Another, when she called me on my phone waiting at the driveway while I was too busy at school talking with my buddies— she threw a fit saying why the heck was I being insensitive and not caring about her texts and calls.Trust me, kiddo, it wont last long. Let her calm down. Do not engage by talking back— it will be worse. Just listen— do not spite.And like I said, calm yourself down.She just loves you and if she didnt— she wouldnt have gotten mad. She reminds me of my mother— they are both the same.
I'm scared to ask my mom for pads?
Ok so I got my period and I have a lot of supplies. A couple days ago, I put all of my supplies in these container things out of their original boxes. So that makes it look like I have a lot of supplies. But really I have the same. Also, my mom told me that she saw the boxes and that "I won't use all of those until I'm in high school" I'm in 7th grade. And I only have two brands of pads right now but it looks like a million. And I want to try out different brands to see which ones i like. And so I'm scared to ask my mom to buy me more brands because I know she'll say" you have enough already" and stuff. Please help?!?!? Also, I want those wipes because my discahrge and blood comes up to "places" and I want to be clean so how do I ask for those?!?!? Btw we r going to the store in about an hour to get our nails done so I would like to get them then.. Thanks so much!
What do I do if I'm scared of my mom?
Whatever happens, don't take it to your heart. Your mom might have gone through some rough experiences in life that might have scarred her. You should not let the same happen to you.You might be hoping that someone will save you. That someone is you. You have to make yourself strong. Let her scold you. Let her shout at you. You have two ears for a reason. Hear nice things twice as loud. Discard things that make you unhappy.Whatever she wants you to do, do so with a smile. Even if it is a forced smile. With time, she will become confused by the change in you. She'll struggle to find faults in you.Break from the monotony. Take your family out on a small trip or even a movie. It will help take your mind off things.There must be someone who she listens to. Call them and explain your problem to them. Note - Won't work if they have a tendency to favour her. They might be able to convince her.Be patient.Gradually, things will change for the better.I believe in you :)Go and make things better.All the best :)
I'm always scared my mom will die?
Hello Izzy, Since the death of your cousin was so unexpected it probably is bringing up many other fears. Your cousin was someone you loved and thought of being in your life for a very long time. So the fear of it happening again is in your mind. It will wear off eventually, of course you'll never lose the love and memory of your cousin, just the fear of losing your mom. When my dad died I was six years old, I remember feeling that I would lose my mom also, being that young and not really understanding death was hard but I did soon realize that my mom wasn't going anywhere. In fact she is still here today, 40 years later! The only thing I regret is not telling my mom how much I love her. So lately I tell her as much as possible. So no worries OK? Just let her know you love her, although I'm sure she knows this already. But if feels good for both of you. Take care Cella
I'm scared to tell my mom i got my period.?
i'm not scared, its just i dont know. i dont really like talking to my mom about that stuff. and i dont want any answers like oh dont be shy. that doesnt help. i'm 14 and weirded out by telling her. ?? and suggestions??
Is it normal for me to be scared of my mom?
It depends on your Mom's behaviour. If she is manipulative, abusive,/tries to hurt you… then yes. Fear is you body and subconscious trying to protect you.But if the fear is based on your behaviour, such as a fear of disappointing her, then probably not.Some fear is instilled into children as a disciplinary toolSuch as “just wait until your Dad gets home!”Plus, families are NOT democracies. Your mom is NOT your friend. She takes care of you, is responsible for you, should love you unconditionally. You should be raised in such a way that your parents both like you AND love you. As a parent, I can tell you its a fine line. And frankly sometimes parents are just too overworked or tired to raise kids to be, well, not a brat.So if YOU are raising your mothers ire, change your behaviour so she likes you…at least until you can move out.If she is being a psychotic, and is physically harming you, tell an advocate, such as a teacher or policeman. There are protective services out there to help, in most countriesGood luck
I'm SCARED To Ask My Mom for Makeup? Age 13 1/2?
Heyyy everyone! So I'm 13 and a half, turning 14 in just a couple months after Christmas!! :D I've been watching "makeup tutorials" on youtube ever since my last birthday!!!. My mom is pretty strict. My dad doesn't care lol. My older sis doesn't wear makeup at all, but I think she wants to wear makeup (she keeps bringing up the topic). I just wanna wear mascara, a TINY bit of eyeliner on my upper lash line, and an eyelash curler. Maybe a milk eye pencil; it might come in handy! :) My mom only wears foundation and that's pretty much all the makeup we have in our house. I've been digging through her stuff to see if she has any leftover mascara samples, but nope. All trashed. It's pretty awkward and scary asking my mom for these things, especially since she doesn't want me growing up!! You get me right? :O Little girl forever... Except these days, she keeps saying that I'm acting more mature than usual hahah So Should I ask her for Halloween? Er.. Christmas? Nahh, not christmas, no, not on that public list! Tips? Help? Anything is great!! :D ~Desperate teen who wants makeup!
I’m scared of my mom. Something is wrong. What do I do?
Listen man, I’m asian and my mum is much crazy than that. (use to atleast). Having an emotion problem doesnt always mean she has a disorder. Sometimes all these people need is someone to tell them how to control those burst of feelings. Maybe she’s going through some things you arent aware about or maybe you are the headache causing all this. Either way, find the root problem and fix it. You can’t just judge a person on the height of their crazy.If I saw someone frantically crying in the street and laughing at the same time for one I cant just be like, “that bish needs to go to a mental hospital, she’s having a mental break down.” I don’t know where or how she got to that or what happen so I cant.Just like I cant just tell you your mum is mental. You know your situation better than anyone else here. Again, find what’s triggering the problem and from then figure out whats that problem and fix it.if she’s really mental I think you’d know. She wont need trigger words like hey mum your useless ill go to my dad now. She’ll trigger herself from memory or so..but I’m not a doctor so best to go see one.