I'm tired of being nice to everyone but everyone hating on me, I have suicidal thoughts because of this?!?
The thing is I'm a really nice person, not trying to sound conceited or anything, I don't like seeing people hurt at all. I really care for others. Anyway, in my last school I was severely bullied so moved schools and at this new school people I don't even know hate me because the girls in my last school told them all these lies about me. I don't gossip about anyone or anything and I'm very shy, but some random people give me dirty looks and most boys have treated me horribly, and some girls have been so mean. What hurts the most is that all the people who have been mean to me I treated nicely. Even when they're horrible to me I continue to be nice to them, and I wish I wasn't. I wish I could be meaner to them like they are to me but I can't, it's just not who I am. One bully today was moaning about not being given enough meatballs so I offered her one, I have no idea why and I instantly regretted it. I'm a very sensitive person and cry every night. I lock myself up in the toilets in school and just cry. It really hurts because I've been through this and coming to new school I'm going through the same thing again. I just want to be stronger and meaner to people but I can't. It hurts so much I have suicidal thoughts. Please, how can I stop being so affected by this? Thanks so much!
Why are some people hated for no reason?
I remember talking to my cousin about this. We were talking about making good first impressions and how to “allow” others to grow to like us.The reality is that many people ,if not most have very large insecurities. Mout humans on earth act a specific way because of a specific reason. We are taught habits by those around us and very commonly..act accordingly.People that you've encountered in the world , and during your life on earth, will seem to at times hate you for no reason. I'm sure we can all think really deeply of instances in which we havery either mistreated someone without really stopping to think “why” ..People have issues. They've had experiences. They've had bad and good experiences in life and these experiences (good or bad) , along with the perception or point of view they've had at that time, will deeply impact their ffuture reactions to stimuli.Let me give you an example.Let's say there is a woman who is a janitor at night at an office building . She works hard every night to being home the bacon.In her past..she's had a trauma in her life by a specific man. Let's say it was her boyfriend of her childhood. He ended up dumping her and leaving her abandoned with 2 children. This is an example of an extremely traumatic event which shapes her future.Let's say this man /ex boyfriend had red hair and brown eyes.She's most likely going to react very emotionally to men with brown eyes and red hair because in her mind,she associates these features with her trauma.Do you see? Some people will always hate us because they may have had a difficulty in their past and tend to feel immense pain when those memories are brought back to the surface. Sometimes it's so simple as how you look…or the manner of being. They can trigger emotions deep down eventually effecting how we treat others.I hope that helps!
I hate my dad for no reason at all?
1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you responsible- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also. There are 3 types of abusive people/parents. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great on being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. They tear you down to build themselves up. Abuse causes all known so called Mental Problems. BP OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud in that there is no medical science in what they do. They do not draw blood to test for imbalances. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them. Contact- Child Protective Services online- not a cure but keeps you safe. Your parents need to forgive the past. Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies". Talk to me. I have some questions for you Source(s): Experience with people feeling better on a repeated basis.
How do I stop being hated for no reason?
There are a few things to consider.Why are you hated?How can you stop being hated?Oh there's no reason?There's always a reason.Humans “hate” each other for a few reasons.This person does not mesh well with my personality. I.e. Interacting with them is unpleasant.This person is alongside me in the social pecking order. I need to assert my dominance.This person is not useful. Therefore I will dispose of them (drive you away)(This probably isn't all of the reasons.)Either way you are likely to fit in one or more of these categories.For example you could have an annoying tick that is proving annoying to everyone. Therefore they make fun of you/hate you because they don't like your tick.You could be in the same place as them and they want to assert that they are the best person here. ( Biology, evolution, I am the best person to make babies with, blah blah blah)Or you could be a person that isn't very useful to their overall environment. Why keep a person who just lazes around doing nothing?All of these could be reasons. I can't really give you further advice without being given further information. However there are a few things to note.I have found myself to dislike you by the way you asked the question. It feels like a person who is not willing to take a deep look at themselves, and instead has perceived a fault with everyone else.If these people don't like you then avoid them to the best of your abilities. You can probably find others that are somewhat good company.
I am sick and tired of my husband, I hate him!!?
so what is your question? should you leave? maybe you should be asking "why should i stay".
Why do girls always hate me for no reason?
I'm so tired of it all. I was severely bullied in my previous school, then moved schools. For the first two months it was great, then I just became an outsider. I'm a very caring and kind person, I was brought up by my mother to be kind to others. In fact, I'm even nice to the people who are horrible to me (which I really hate but I always do it regardless), offering them things when they need something or consoling them when they cry. I don't know why I'm like this, I just took it from my mother. I'm also quite shy in this new school, I was louder in my previous school but I'm very quiet here, I've been here for over a year now. Anyway, in every school I go to certain girls always seem to hate me. This one girl criticizes everything I do, is always trying to find flaws in me, and even dissed my father's job as a gynecologist in my face. Then this other one is always talking about everything I do, and she'll give me dirty looks for no reason at all, and she always has a smile on my face if something goes wrong for me. There are plenty more who always seem to gossip about me and make it obvious they dislike me. I cry every night about it. I don't fit in at all. I'm never invited to any parties. I've even had suicidal thoughts when I think about how much of a loner I am, and always will be. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm never mean to anyone, so I don't know what I've done for them to hate me. I spend ages thinking about what I could've done to annoy them and I can't find anything. Why is this, and how can I cope with it? I also apologise about this. I realise I'm dwelling in self-pity here and may come across as self-centered. I know there are people less fortunate than me and I feel for them & pray for them. Thanks for reading & answering, God bless!
I'm tired of being different from everyone else? Help?
I've always been the girl that everybody hates for no reason >.<. Boys on my bus hate me because I tripped over their backpacks one day. Ever since then they've called me "Emo B****" Or "Scene ******" or even "Goth Girl". I never did anything to them on purpose. And after I tripped over their backpacks I even apologized a million times. No one really likes me because I look and act different from everyone else in my grade. Everyone is the same. They all wear Hollister& Abercombie(I hope I spelled that right..). Kids make fun of me because I'm not the same. I have 2 friends and neither of them go to my school. I'm really tired of people making fun of me for expressing myself. How can I get them to stop? By the way, I don't talk to anyone so please don't say "Talk to them!" because if I do they'll just make fun of me for trying. Thanks in advance, guys.