I am all alone I really need someone in my life, what do I do?
Thanks for the A2A...Don't act desperate. The more you think like this, the more you'll feel depressed. And you'll end up living a regretful life.Stop being needy. This speaks of your low self-image. Rather learn to respect yourself. You've come alone in this world, and you'll also go alone. In the meantime, people might help you in your struggle called 'Life', but they are certainly not going to fight it for you. You've to do it all alone. So get up, stop relying on others, and give 100% of yourself to this life that you've got.Find out your passion, and keep yourself busy at it. Forget about everything else, and let your passion kill you from inside. Be so busy at it that you can't even find the time to feel lonely. And for this, you have to love the subject and have the desire to learn it.And lastly, but most importantly,learn to enjoy your own company. Be your own best friend, share everything with yourself. You'll never know the magic of it if you don't do it. Don't feel lonely when you are alone, rather accept this alone-feeling and enjoy with yourself. And if you speak of a relationship, you also have to be strong enough to support your partner. You have to be self-dependent, then only you can hope for a right partner. So stop having these BS feelings, work on your weaknesses, and start doing something productive from today. It will be hard at first, but you'll be able to do it if you try. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
I feel so lonely, depressed and suicidal. Help?
You should talk to a therapist. Everything in life is temporary. We've all been in bad places in life but they do make us stronger if we strive to make ourselves feel better. I can't resolve your problems for you, but I know they're there and weighing you down. If it is something that is still going on try to distance yourself from it if it's possible. If it's something that occured in the past, try cognitive behavioural therapy with a therapist. You're worth much more than you think and you're NOT alone. You're beautiful from the inside and out and people do care. Just take Yahoo Answers for example, we're people too even if it's just a text written on your screen. We're people that have all been through things and we as a human kind care about each other. I don't want you to commit suicide, I don't want you to feel sad. Nor do people here, or people in real life that love you. Your friends or family, we ALL care. Just reach out and keep holding on. There will be change when you take action, there will be hope if you allow it to be. Like you did just now, you wrote this question in hopes of feeling better, and I genuinely hope we've helped you. P.S Here are two quick tips to feeling better almost immediately: Fake your happiness. Try to be happy and do things you normally would not. It doesn't have to be something big, just say "Good morning, you look great!" to somebody, and that sort of thing will definitely brighten your day. Don't listen to depressing music. It will affect you, try to listen to upbeat music and most likely you'll feel better then as well. Good luck!
I am feeling very insecure, sad and lonely! Please help?
I am very uncomfortable with who I am and I do not like these feelings inside me. I hate looking at myself in the mirror, i know that I am not really ugly & it isn't an issue with anybody but I just cannot stand the way I look. Mainly its my hair... I got no fkn idea what to do... My problem is that I am kinda scared to try new things. Especially when it comes to my appearance, I don't know why this is but I also know compare myself to others and feel bad about it. But there are sooo many better looking people that me out here in this world. I'm afraid my appearance does not suit my personality. I think I have deep unhappiness feelings inside me about who I am and how I am as a person and I think now I am so comfortable and familiar with this bad feeling about myself that If i just want to do something about it, I just feel more humiliated. I dunno -.- Im a 17, male Single and have been for ages!!! I think I am bi... I don't really know! I don't wanna be bi but like, meh who knows! I wanna be with women, but i am sick of doing all the chasing and getting rejected somewhere along the line. I have quit. Should I wait for someone to chase me?
I am so lonely and depressed?
I"m a guy, 19 years old and I hate the way my life is right now. My first year of college just ended and I can't get a job anywhere because i have no expierence and never worked before. I have applied to so many places and got no response back, not even one interview. To this day I'm still applying. Everyone including my family looks at me as if i'm worthless and shouldn't even be alive because I'm not social, i'm not materialistic, i don't have a facebook, i don't have a girlfriend, and i don't work. They always tell me to make a facebook to speak to my friends. But i don't even know who my friends are anymore. They always ask to me don't you have any friends. My friends in highschool ditched me and don't care about me anymore even my best friend the one person who was dedicated to achievement in highschool now drinks and does drugs. They won't speak to me because I'm not a partier. Its really sad. Even my own brother, the person i wish who would actually care and understand whats going with me would instead of laugh at me and try to make himself look good in front of everyone else. All he cares about is partying and his girlfriend who doesn't even like me. My parents care and do whatever they can to support me but i'm the type of person who is independent and would rather live on my own. I feel like sometimes my cousins and everyone else talks about me behind back which is really wrong and think I'm stupid because I'm not like them. Its rediculous, my parents won't even let me dorm because they think its a waste of time and money. So now my parents are wasting time and money for me taking a train to college everyday which is a two hour ride.
I'm so depressed and lonely.?
Hi guys. So Im a 19 year old female and I'm so sad and lonely. I don't have 1 friend. I'm inteoverted and even though I'm nice to everyone and get along with coworkers and stuff, I just can never seem to connect. I've joined 2 cheerleading teams in the past year and quit them both because I felt like a social outcast. It seems like everyone these days seems to only care about snapchat, partying, and how they come off to everyone else. Being alone makes me so sad, ive thought about suicide and spent countless hours crying because I just think about how no one would truly be affected if I wasn't here anymore. I probably wouldnt ever commit suicide because I tried to hang myself once and got way too scared to "kick the bucket". I'm also on medication for depression/anxiety but It only seems to work for th anxiety. Anyways, (sorry for my mini vent lol) I guess the real questions here are what should I do? Will I ever make friends? I've tried stepping out of my comfort zone and be more social too many times but it just doesn't work. Will i ever have anyone?:-( are ther websites/apps to meet friends ? (Not a significant other)
I'm lonely, sad, broken...and tired of people hurting me. HELP ME PLEASE.?
I force smiles every day when I go out. Everything thinks I'm alright...but I'm not alright. I feel torn up inside. I'm tired of people hurting me, playing with my feelings, rejecting me...I don't trust anyone. I was abused when I was younger sexually, physically, and emotionally...and the pain of remembering it is still here. I just want someone to love me. To need me and to want to be with me. I thought I had found that...but I was looking in the wrong place. I looked for it in a guy, and for over a year I thought he loved me (yes we were together.) He told me he did, showed me he did, in every way. Then he broke my heart. Before he came along I was feeling so broken. I had no one. Then I thought he'd be that someone who would love me. And he just took my heart and broke it. I don't need a lecture on not looking for love in guys...I've learned my lesson. But now I've got no one. I mean, I've got friends...but they don't understand, and I don't want to scare them away with how I'm actually feeling inside. I just feel like no one really cares that much, and no one understands. I know I shouldn't pour my heart out on an answers site...but there's no where else and no one else. I used to be suicidal...I have OCD so I'm not sure if that contributed to the suicidal thoughts, but ever since this guy completely tore my heart apart they've been coming back again. What can I do? How can I fix this?