I’m so insecure?
It’s like certain features on me makes me insecure. I legit don’t feel pretty at all. I mean sure i take good pictures here and there but i’m just so freaking ugly .. I’m 14 and i have so much acne.. Like no seriously sooo much. I been dealing with acne since like 3rd grade!! and it haven’t went away. it’s getting so bad that i even took acne pills and nothings working! It’s so bad that around my mouth and nose it’s very dry and leaves my skin red and itchy and also dry peeling skin! ;( My acne problem so bad that pimples are on my upper back and on my chest :( .. There’s not a day i don’t have dried up blood on my face from my pimples. Then my nose is so big.. I even had somebody tell me that “ Your nose is big as **** from the side...” I feel so bad... I’m just so insecure about myself .. Acne && my nose plays a huge role in making me insecure.. Lots of more things too but these are the top :(
I Feel So Insecure..So Ugly..What Do I Do?
I would really like to see a picture of you in order to really be able to help. But, your hair try cutting off the ends, dead ends cause your hair not to grow. Believe it or not, cutting hair does make it grow faster. Two different color lips, try wearing lipstick, or two different shades of lipstick. I am sure you already tried that, but that is all I have. Your snout! If it is true then the only thing that could help is plastic surgery. Bowlegged, wear pants, or long skirt. Keep up the meds, suicide is not an option. Seek help from a medical professional, not online. Last but certainly not least. God does not believe in Atheism, you should not either.
Why are girls so insecure and feel ugly?
why? we all are beautiful and unique. i don't get it! my friend is GORGEOUS, she is so insecure with herself, she has it all the body, the height, everything else. i see it all the time on myspace and HERE. saying they're not happy, they're ugly. and even comparing themselves to their friends. why? why are girls like this? i got to admit, i feel like it i'm worthless at times but it's not to the point i preach about how ugly i am or whatever. but why!
Why am I so insecure about my face?
Because you either did not learn to like or accept your traits (“I have X and that’s horrible. I wish i had Y”) — meanwhile someone out there has Y and wishes to have XorBecause you believe beauty is something you are undeserving of, therefore your mind automatically finds a connection between your face and ugliness (“I am ugly, and I have X, so X is ugly”).orYou have a biochemical imbalance in your brain, likely due to lack of some neurotransmitter such as serotonin or GABA. Which means that you might never feel fine with your face, and this is something you’ll need to be ok with. I for example have very low levels of serotonin, which leads me to have a very severe and specific type of anxiety disorder. I’m OK with the fact that I am anxious and I live with that pretty well. I can absolutely never be OK with the event that triggers my anxiety, it does not matter how much you ask me or I try (without the use of medications). Think of this as peanut allergy. You can never eat a peanut and be fine, but you can be fine with the fact that you have peanut allergy and you just avoid it by replacing it with something else.orSome other reason. People are complicated and there are literally hundreds of possible reasons for almost anything you and your body can do.
Do ugly women feel insecure about their ugliness?
I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder which means that "ugly" means different for different people. But with our society advertising different concepts of beauty endlessly, I think every woman out there felt insecure at some point.There's a lot of things out there that make women feel insecure about their looks. There are the really obvious ones like weight loss or beauty product commercials but there's also the stealthy ones that just put women in an uncomfortable spot. For example, I try to dress up and look nice everyday. But some people would tell me "I like you natural". On one hand, that sounds like a nice thing to say because it lets me know that I don't have to put effort to look pretty. On the other, it's pretty insulting because it rejects the effort I've put in into making myself look good and feel good. Whenever I hear that, I just thank the other person and then tell him/her that I enjoy putting make-up on and nice clothes to imply that I'm doing it for myself and not really to please anyone. Bottom line is, even if I feel good about myself and think I look pretty about what I wear, there would always be someone that would not appreciate it as much as I do.I also come across so many websites that compliments women who read a lot of books, or are into other "nerdy" stuff like video games and comic books. Most of the time, it's those posts titled "20 things men like". I think this shames women with other interests. On top of that, it makes women feel that unless they are a certain way, they wouldn't find anyone who would like them which is a really shallow idea. They could be pretty but if they're not into comics? They could be really smart but what if video games are just not their thing?Our society constantly makes women (and men, as well) feel that they're always inadequate. The only way to defend yourself from that is to be comfortable with the things you like and do the things you love no matter what anybody say. It's easier to brush off haters when you love yourself. Better be your own thing because no matter what you do, you can't please everyone.
I feel so insecure and ugly without glasses?
I'm 17 and I've been wearing glasses since I was 6. I am too comfortable in my glasses and I feel so exposed and insecure without them. I feel that my big and flat nose is exposed :( Recently, I got clear contacts and I don't even dare to wear them out :( Although when I'm doing sports and my glasses are so annoying, I still refuse to wear my contacts. I feel like I'm wasting my money!! :( My mum told me I'm prettier without glasses but I just can't believe her :( I tried taking pictures of myself repeatedly, trying to make myself feel better, but I just cant help but feel even more self-conscious. I went on Instagram and felt even worse :( I feel that my friends are all more beautiful than me... I'm not going to post pictures here because I see there's no point in doing it. People are gonna say I'm ugly anyways... For those people who are satisfied with the way you look, how do you do it? How do you be confident of how you look? Please help me!!
I'm so insecure of my face features..?
It really hurts when you live in a society that accepts one type of beauty I really hate my nose and everyone keeps reminding me it's big I'm and a little girl that's really broken and can't find herself... I don't feel confident anymore I feel I lost hope on my features I feel really ugly and I'm just 14...some one help
I feel so ugly and feel so insecure about myself. I just don't think I'll ever get married one day, because I think I look ugly. Do you believe in true love?
You know whom your question reminds me of?John GreenAllow me an introduction (just in case you don't know him)Yes, This guy. He is the author of 5 novels till date out which one is 'The Fault in our Stars' which has been turned into a major motion picture and so has 'Let It Snow'. 'Papertowns' and 'Looking for Alaska' are about to follow suit. This guy, along with his brother Hank Green, have a Youtube video blog (vlogger) which has millions of followers!!!This is what he said in an interview when asked about his childhood:Q. What was your childhood like?A. I was extremely fortunate. My parents loved and encouraged me; my brother was empathetic and supportive; my friends (when I had them) were lots of fun without being too dangerous. That said, due to some malfunctioning brain chemistry and also due just to the nature of being a person, I often felt isolated and alone and scared. I was quite nerdy and dearly wished that I could be popular. I think I was quite difficult to be around–my insecurity and anxiety made it difficult for me to have straightforward, engaging social interactions with anyone, and I was really super self-absorbed. Sound familiar?This guy made the best of his alone time. He read. He gobbled up books. And now, he is writing them. Ha!And now, I have a major celebrity crush on him. No, not his looks. His brain! I read one of his novels and He's Awesome! Now, for your true love question... John Green got married in 2006.So, i hope it helps.... :)And if you want further reassurances about your future and stuff, you can always look up 'Megan Fox or 'Oprah Winfrey' in Google :)PS: that being said, i am 17 and felt the same when i was 14. And trust me when i say it, the world gets better when you grow and start investing in what you think is right :) ... Cheerios!
I feel very insecure and ugly. How do I become more attractive?
before i start the answer , i do not think instagram should be priority of your judgement because the people out there look different on a whole different level. :) and i do not mean beautiful. instagram should not be your body goals, we donot want you to look like a giant, thin ,weird cupcake.I relate to this question on a deep personal level. My high school was filled with nightmares.i was not a pretty face ,had my head dunked in books, was a pretty healthy girl ,was and ideal kid for parents , but the outside world does not work like that .i had confidence issues and so i was not a teacher’s pet either. I blamed all of that on me not having a pretty face, and not knowing how to do makeup or me being the heavy kid in the block . I got everything on track after my high school.i started doing yoga . it is the answer to all problems in life. i have transformed my heavy built body into curves to die for. yoga gave me positive vibes . its a long process but the results will have you amazed. you will follow a diet while doing yoga that gives your answer for your acne.I would never suggest home tutorials for make up , because its like sorcery. i guess knowledge of using a mascara is more than enough, you do not have to learn winged eyeliner . fairy eyeliner or ninja eyeliner.i started taking care of my hair , we will find n number of tutorials online to give your hair a new look. You can go all natural for nourishment and its cheap , you can follow home remedies .Trust me on this , having good hair makes you look 50 % prettier. This is again a huge confidence builder.i have confidence now i do not have any kind of insecurities, have friends for life . i do not know if others find me attractive , but i am dead attracted to myself. :D. its like i can marry myself.Saying that, it is important to have a good soul,irrespective of a good face or body .Remember nothing is more shitty than a beautiful girl having a bad personality.thanx for reading.