Everyone thinks I'm dumb. My parents, my best friends, and my teachers. How can I prove them wrong?
Start introspecting. Check what is it that's missing within you. Find the key and start working on it. Let them feel you're dumb, it's okay. The most respectable person is the one who works hard and is dedicated. He who works will surely achieve. Some people have natural talents. They needn't even work for being successful. But there's no thrill in that, is there? Have a pinpoint focus. Be involved and engrossed in your work. Make every cell in your body hungry on achieving that goal of yours. Attaining something after being completely hardworking has a pleasure of its own. You wouldn't even need the validation from those kind of people then. You'll anyway be happy on reaching that goal. And even they'll respect you obviously, for your achievement. It's very admirable when somebody breaks all odds and wins. Do it for yourself, you needn't prove anybody.
How to not feel annoying and useless?
Hi. I have this problem with my optimal self. When I'm alone I actually like myself. I like to think I am smart, I'm definetly not dumb.. I think I am a good person and my thinking is ok to me. But as soon as I find myself surrounded by people and say something that people don't like or is weird I feel really bad. I find myself annoying and unwanted at times and I don't know how to stop feeling like that. I have a lot of friends but one mistake makes me think im a looser and lame. But im not the kind of person who has to do everything that others like, Its not like that. I have a feeling Im not this person and I can't be who I am when I'm by myself. I want to like who I am and I don't want to be embarrased by the things I say even if they are dumb. And the things I do right don't matter to me, Its just the small things I do wrong and than think that everyone thinks Im lame.. I dont know if anyone understands but I wanna know what others do with this kind of feelings..
I need help... wat r sum good quotes ?
i hav used this one once but i need new 1s - luv 2 sum is the best thing in thier lyf....but 2 me its jus hard find these days i need sum more lyk this thnxs nd happy thnxgiving! =]
Please help me. i hate my mom with all my heart.?
i'm a visually impaired girl, I have got my bachelor degree in law but i haven't been able to find a job yet and i live with my mom. however my mom is the best example of an idiot cruel woman. she always insults me such things "you are useless", "I should leave you then you'll end up begging in the streets.", "i never wanted to have a girl like you.", "you should go and kill yourself, you deserve nothing but death.". she humiliates me and makes me cry almost everyday with these words. I feel helpless and it's been for a while that i'm thinking of committing suicide. at least when you die, no one humiliates you. please give me some advice. i feel helpless. my mom is an idiot and you get no result of talking to her, i don't know what to do. i'm just tired of my life.
I want to die because of severe acne! Please help me!?
Please take time to read this I don't want any of you saying, "You want to die because of f*ckin acne?" That's sooo immature. Yes! I know! It's just that it gives me a lot -- I mean, a LOOOT! of pain in the *** everyday!! You won't understand because you have clean and clear, flawless skin! You're born with it! And you don't know how it feels to have such gross face and you won't be able to almost everything!! You can't look people in the eye, you can't wear anything you want, you can't have a lot of friends, and YOU CAN'T EVEN GO OUTSIDE EVERY F*CKN DAY!!! I just hate my life! I wish I didn't even exist! I also blame God for this, but I know it's wrong and I know He understands me. But I'm still hoping that one day He will have mercy on me!! I know I always think about negative shits. But you can't blame a person who suffers from ACNE-HELL!! I sometimes think of positive things too, but whenever I look myself in the mirror and see people with flawless faces, I hide myself and just cry. :(( (and now I'm crying while typing and saying these things to you guys). It's just that I'm hopeless. I thought just by sharing this to you guys will help me encourage and be more confident in myself. Oh, and I have been with hundreds of Dermatologists. My parents are striving to find money for my face. And I feel bad for them because they spend thousands for this ****!! Why do even acne exist? They don't bring happiness in life! They bring death and hell! Sorry 'bout my words. I just can't help my self. I sometimes feel I'm useless, because I know I have no purpose in this cruel world, all I can do is just hide myself at home, especially in my room. I have poor social life and faith. I'M JUST HOPELESS! Anyway, I guess this is because it's hormonal? Hormonal acne cannot be cure, right? *sigh I guess, there's nothing I can do but wait for a miracle. I'm 18 by the way, a Girl came from hell. :((( *cries
My boyfriend is going away to college. How can I not be worried about us?
I agree that this can be worrying. After all, who knows what he'll do when you're not around? Since you wanted a female opinion about this, here's mine. It's true that girls will definitely go for him but that should not be the problem if you really trust him. I don't know what kind of guy your bf is, but the only thing you can do in this relationship is trust. While it might seem like a hopeless case to most, I just want to encourage you that if BOTH of you work at it, you will make it. My bf and I experienced the same thing. it's probably worse than your situation cuz he went out of the country for college. Hello, mysterious foreign girls~ LoL. The only thing I can do is to truly trust him and I did. Of course it's no harm to check up on him every once in a while just to make sure ;) or to make yourself feel better, but dont overdo it or you'll sound over possessive and controlling. We've been going out for 3 years now. 2 of which he was away and things are still going great. To those who think that he's probably playing me and i'm an idiot, I know he's not and i have confidence in him. it also sums up to what kind of guy he is, and how well you can prove yourself to him that you're the best among the others. All i can say is that if you put faith in him, and if he loves you, he will live up to your faith and trust in him. still, you shouldnt worry. If he does hurt you, just know that there will be guys out there who can treat you better. It it didn't work out then it wasn't meant to be. One more thing, ask yourself if you can truly handle it and trust him. If you spend more time worrying about him than loving him, perhaps it's not a good idea to go long-distance. Do read what the other answerers say. :) I think they have some good advice there. God bless~ =)