I Am Very Unhappy With My Life?
I am 18 and live at home with my parents and sister. I just graduated high school and I am going to community college in the fall. I have no motivation to do anything so all I do everyday is sleep and sit doing nothing until it is time to go to sleep again. I've been diagnosed with depression, I'm taking meds which helps. But I'm very unhappy with my life. I want to move out, for example but I don't think I can get a job that pays enough for me to be able to move out. I don't have any friends so I can't get roommates. I'm so tired of living like this. What I really want is to get a job (I've applied to a few places), move out, and begin a new life. My therapist told me to make a plan and that he would help me with it, but I'm afraid there is nothing I can do right now that could change my life. I can't live another day this way, I need change but I don't know what I can do. Any advice? Any help? Please?
I am very unhappy with my job and the way I am treated at the company by the CEO. I am stuck in the rat race. What do I do?
There is no guarantee that the new job will be better than current one. You should not depend only on luck.You should professionally do you job and do your best on whatever you do. You are hired to do so.I would not move to the new one If I don’t have proper plan and high possibility to get into better position and be able to manage my own lifeIf I don’t escape, I might have nervous breakdownNo one can harm your mind if you don’t allow toYou should start having solid plan for transitionWhat kind of job that you would love to do?What kind of work environment that you would be happy to be in?What is the lifestyle that you would like to have?If financial commitments and family are depending on this incomeWhat else you could do to increase the income?What are those other work you could do to generate incomes?Can you manage financial commitments so that it’s less or more manageable?Can you manage the financing of your family?I am stuck by the rat raceYou need plan toward your financial freedomIt’s to be able do what you love and don’t have to worry about working for living - How could you do that?
I'm really unhappy at school, What should I do ?
I'm fourteen and I have hated school for the last 3 years, but I REALLY can't stand it at the moment and I feel depressed. I don't have proper friends and a lot of people people tend to avoid and intimidate me, I have never been called 'weird' or 'strange' and usually try to fit in as much as possible but It doesn't seem to get me anywhere. School started again after the holidays last week, and I only attended twice that week,also, I wasn't there today and I'm not planning on going tomorrow... thankfully I am away on holiday from Wednesday to Sunday and so won't have to go on Wed/Thurs/Fri. My Mum got in contact with the school on Friday so My guidance teacher is aware of my unhappiness but I don't really think the school can help because they'll just do the usual 'Oh, go back and we'll see how you feel.' which means things will just go back to where they where. I am in all the top classes for my subjects (credit) and I'm fed up of the pressure oh having to do well. I fell out big-style with my mum today so as a consequence she has sent me to my dads which has made matters worse (now that he is involved). I have tried to persuade my mum to let me move school but she said It's not worth the hassle, I've asked to be home-schooled but mums away at work most days and we are on a tight budget and can't afford tutors...I'd love to go to a boarding school but money-wise it's out of the question! Any advise would be really helpful! Thank you.
How would someone feel to die very unhappy?
How would someone feel to die very unhappy?This is a curious question—perhaps I’m missing something. I’m sure such people would feel unhappy.Many people experience unhappiness at the point of death for an enormous range of reasons. Perhaps they feel that their life was meaningless. Perhaps they are dying alone and regret that they leave no loved ones to regret their passing or to remember them when they have gone.Others may be unhappy because of the loneliness, the sadness, that will impact on a loved one who will now live alone.Few people welcome death—except, perhaps, those who beslieve they are transitioning to a “better world”—yet many face it with equanimity. I saw this first-hand during my months being treated at a cancer clinic. So many people, and this includes a couple of children who hadn’t yet reached their 10th year, were stoic in the face of death.Death is inevitable. It is a fortunate person who can look back and think, “I’m satisfied.”
I'm very unhappy... Could it be because of the people i'm around?
You are suffering from your disfunctional family. The one place you should feel secure and loved is at home, but it's more stressful than school, so you are sad and fearful all the time!It is common to feel you are to blame when parents are fighting, and they don't help matters complaining to or about you. So first, please remind yourself, every day, that you did not cause the unhappiness at home. Your parents are responsible for the home life of their children, and they are not to force you to be the peacemaker or counselor to their adult problems.Second, your friends can be supportive, but they are not equipped to deal with your pain, especially since they have their own issues at home. And your boyfriend may be supportive, but it's unfair to expect him to cheer you up. His role is to provide respect and compassion. and love.So where do you turn? A trusted adult; maybe a teacher, counselor, or minister...is who you can talk to for advice on coping with the situation. Maybe your family has had problems all along, and now you're old enough that they don't shield you from it. Or maybe something changed to stress everyone badly. Whatever. The point is that you can only change yourself, so that's what you need to work on. Change your expectations . Change your reaction to your parents. Change how you Eat, sleep, excercise. Look outside the home for "safe" people...ones who are empathetic, kind, compassionate and will listen as much as they talk. You might get job doing something that helps others. Just don't keep silent, and don't listen to anyone who doesn't empower you to greatness!
I'm very unhappy with my penis size and don't know what to do.?
my penis is about 5 inches long and has a girth of about 5.5 inches. I have never had any problems in bed and I've satisfied all of my women. I can go 4 to 5 times a night due to my high libido. These things are great helps me to have confidence but my below average length has always bothered me. My current gf said my penis length is below average but I'm by far the best lover she had. I wish I had 2 inches more. I'm quite overweight and have a fat pad above my penis. If I lose weight it may help visually but in actuality it would still be 5 inches. What should I do? Should I get a surgery to help gain the 2 inches I really want or what?
I am feeling very unhappy and lonely. What should I do to cheer myself up?
Girl, you need to find your own happiness.You need to find peace in your solitude . I say so because it is better to be in your own company than to be with people who are not worth enough or have no wisdom at all. I am not saying that people around you are stupid, they might be or they might not. But you need to give importance to yourself rather than people around u. Start learning music, play violin , you are in the woods .. go for photography .. give wings to your desires , do what you always wanted to do.... you are young.. Don't inhibit yourself from trying out new things. Concentrate on your studies. Don't think you have to study very hard,, but think u are fortunate to have this opportunity rather than an obligation. You will do better. :)You own the remote control for your happiness , don't hand it to anyone else. Believe that. Lastly , this stage is a temporary in your life. You are not going to be in it forever. So relish , enjoy & learn. Make every moment of your life a memorable one so when you turn back the pages u are mesmerized.