My older brother read my text messages...?
so I let my older, 23 year old brother use my phone to listen to music while he was doing some things and I forgot to take it back to him and so this morning he tells me he read ALL of my text messages to my friends and he starts asking me questions about the stuff he read and says that if I ever need to talk to someone he or his girlfriend are there for me and I lied about some of the stuff like my friend texted that when i let her borrow my phone or whatever. He believed me because i am normally a good kid but I'm really pissed of and upset and i feel betrayed. Is it wrong for me to be annoyed and wanting to get back at him back for it? Do you have any ideas on how i can get back at him for it? . p.s. i'm 15
Make my brother feel guilty?
My brother did the same to me my whole life, until I moved out. He made my life hell and my parents just let it happen. Even now at 30 years of age he still torments me, my children and husband. Still my parents say nothing. I do not talk to him associate with him at all. At family gatherings we pretend him and his family are invisible. You should just ignore him now, to make it easier on you, so maybe when you guys grow up you could be close and not harbour any resentment toward each other. Ignore him and everything he does, it is alot less stressful then letting it get to you. Maybe one day he'll grow up and treat you like a sister :)
I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my older brother. I walked out and refused to respond to my apologizing brother and girlfriend. I feel betrayed. What do I do?
If there's one thing we can rely on in life, it's that people will hurt us and vise versa. I've often wondered why the word betrayal is used in regard to cheating. This isn't, after all, a POW selling out his buddies that he shares a cell with. It isn't Montezuma opening the gates of his city so Spain could slaughter and enslave his people. It isn't a dirty business deal where someone loses millions. No. It's sex outside of the relationship.Being cheated on hurts, but I am reluctant to put it on par with betrayal. It is rather a broken agreement between two lovers…a lie of omission. You agreed to only share your bodies with each other and she failed to keep her end of the bargain. End of story. You can either forgive her, change the terms of the agreement, or dump her.Your brother, on the other hand, is treading in some serious waters of betrayal. Now you're undoubtedly thinking of all future family functions until you're old and grey, right? Will he be poking your future wife in the laundry room while everyone sings in the dining room as little Billy blows out his candles? Yikes. No bueno. Your brother, in my opinion, is the most distressing character in this story because he not only broke the “bro code” but he humiliated you and you can't just never see him again. I mean, you could try, but we all know how family is and they probably won't go for that. Even a brother locked up for murder gets a sheet cake at mom's house when he makes parole 30 years later.So my suggestion is to sit him down and lay into him. Express your feelings and don't hold back. What he did is what some would say is unforgivable, but I believe that everyone has the potential to commit sin and course correct. Ask him why he did it. Chances are he'll say “ it just happened, I didn't plan it”. In which case, you're going to have to compare his excuse to past behavior. Is he usually impulsive? Does he hold a grudge against you from childhood? Is he jealous that you have a woman and he doesn't? Get to the root of the issue and cut that sucker out so something new can grow. Letting this fester will cause undo harm to yourself. If all else fails, tell him he owes you one punch, preferably in the jaw or the gut if he hasn't been working out much lately.
Feeling guilty about yelling at my little sister?
im 17 and my little sister is 6. our parents have had to be out of town a lot because there was a really big family emergency that they had to go deal with and its out of town so i have been in charge of my sister while they are gone. she has been having a lot of anxiety with all the stuff that has been going on and she really misses our parents so she has been really clingy. a couple of nights ago i had my girlfriend over and we were in the living room and my sister came in. i told her to get out and she did but then she came back so i told her to leave again and i was getting pissed because i havent seen my girlfriend in a long time so then when she came in the next time i lost it and screamed at her and told her that i didnt care where she went as long as she stayed out of my way. i guess it doesnt sound that bad but i guess to an already upset 6 year old it was pretty scary. so now she isnt talking to me and i feel really guilty. i tried to apoligize but she wont even look at me and i feel really bad, so what do i do to make it better?
How does it feel to be betrayed by someone whom you trusted with all your heart?
I will make it simple, so that it is easy to follow. Look at the following image: Now you know, there is nothing called "Right or Wrong". Its called being different. Or may be incompatible. If you are trying to run a Windows software on Mac, it won't work. Not because Mac is great or Windows is bad. But because of incompatibility. So chose one side whichever you want to. But stick to it. NO-MATTER-WHAT. NO-MATTER-WHAT. And I do not mean you should constantly think of your brother and how he treated you. Instead of going negative, you can stop at Zero. When I don't like anything, I call it unimportant, and I behave as if that thing or person do not exist. You must have observed a computer works on Binary. But it still can do wonders. Moral is, keep the choices in your life as binary as possible. Important-Unimportant. Yes-No. Done-Not Done. Accept-Change. etc. Your life will be wonderful.In short, Accept it. Or forget it. But stick to it. That's it !I hope it helps !
Should I tell my brother his best friend and i made out?
if you feel guilty then confront the problem at hand. i think you should tell your brother; he is your blood and family. he might be mad at you, but that beats having a guilty conscious