Ever had a guy say he can't live without you in his life?
Have you ever had a guy say he can't live without you as a part of his life? My ex did, and I thought he was so romantic. I guess, in theory saying those words is romantic, but my ex kind of ruined those words for me. The first four months were amazing. He said he loved me, that he couldn't live without me, that I became his life as soon as we met. I really thought I loved him back. I felt as if I needed a break. I told him that no this was not a break-up, that I just needed a few days on my own, to clear my head. I guess I felt as if it was going too fast, he's a couple of years older but I was not even 17. At that time I practically lived with him. Then he changed, everything did, and I can't figure out why. He called me in the middle of the night for days after that, begging me to come over. Said he was being suicidal, that he knew I had met someone else etc. This was ofc not true. I stayed up late talking to him, calming him down every night for almost a week, but I didn't give in. 1 day he txted me, while I was in class, telling me that he was srsly gonna do it. I left everything and came over. Whn I did that I ended the break. I was never going to break up in the beginning, but when I took him back, I realized I didn't want whoever he'd changed into back. So after a few weeks I ended it for real. I did everything, I even blocked his number. I broke up over the phone, since I had grown afraid of him. When I took him back, I didn't take my boyfriend back; I took back a jealous selfish new guy that didn't care for my happiness in the relationship. The only thing is, I still don't know why he changed. Anyone had this happening to them? Why the hell is that? And I heard from a friend that he still isn't the same, its been months, and that he has grown to pretty much hate women. He doesn't care for anyone anymore. What the hell happened?
I can not for the life of me figure out what this song is called!!!!!! plz help?
It sounds like Tom's Diner by Suzanne Vega
Can not for the life of me find the name of a new country song about a guy helping his friend pick up chicks in a bar.?
None of the lyric sights have it up and I've been all over iTunes and spotify but can't find the song. Its about this guy (the singer) helping his friend pick up chicks. He tells him step one to get out of town, step two find a bar, step three buy the prettiest girl a drink, and then lie like hell to make himself seem interesting. Lines like "tell her you and Kenny Chesney are best friends" and "tell her your father invented the snuggie" are in one of the verses. Any leads would be greatly appreciated. Its been bugging me for about two weeks now.
What should you do when you feel life is pointless?
Before I answer you… what do you really feel like doing right now?For me(on the verge of ending myself), asked myself do I still want to live.I controlled myself to hesitate, enabling rest to rethink and reflect.(upon reasons, be it to live or die)I searched google, and it told me many positive things.(not what i wanted)I searched negative literature to see the author’s point of view.I searched religions and saw their predictions of life and death.I saw philosophies of life and knew for sure, nope, these theories can’t be proven.(our senses might be an illusion: see solipsism)All those years, why did I live? Unconsciously living(yes nevertheless still living), for what?You can see the highest frequency word that is in my answer is the word, I.I guess you can guess it, the truth is everybody is searching and pursuing the purpose of life, but it is just all question based upon I.“I” matters most… do you get it?My life is mine, it doesn’t belong according to the views of my family, my peers, or even my God.I get my say in my life.Reasoning likewise I love life! I love MY life! For me to feel meaningful is to not disappoint myself by slacking off or not trying when there is a chance for success, be it whatever it may be(even if it is researching immortality). To try my best, so that eventually even if I die, I have tried, therefore there is no remorse in this. How cool is it to fight against all odds! People think I am defeated, think my actions are madness, but no…. oh no, I define what is my defeat, what is my purpose in this life, therefore I shall not waver when anybody questions my existence and purpose.That’s just me.Your life, your say. You define what it means to be meaningful or meaningless. What people think does not matter when it comes to your meaning of life. People think you are defeated, if you truly believe what they think, then you are truly defeated. Therefore you are here now, believing in what that isn’t defined by yourself.I am the author of my life. Be it meaningless or not nobody other than myself can judge it. Nobody can define my meaningless/meaningful other than me.So to answer your question:I suggest you do what you value most before your life ends.ButYou are the one who authorize your next step.P.S. Immortality gives meaning when all eventually fades.
I can't decide what I want to do with my life because once I make a decision I think there is something better I was meant to do. How do I solve this?
Do this:Remove infinity apps like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram from your phoneUse a tool like Unroll.me to clear out junk mail in your inboxUse a tool like StayFocusd to block Facebook, Twitter, etcStop watching the news, stop watching tv and start picking up booksNow, why the f*** am I telling you to remove all this crap from your life?Because everywhere you turn, someone will have this grand idea that they made $1,000,000 with or someone will be throwing you the sure-fire next best thing.What they never tell you is the long slog that it took to get where they are and you will look at it and get really excited and then start heading down the path only to realize its actually hard as f***So.What you need to do is first REMOVE all the distractions and connect with who YOU are and what YOU want.When you have a core understanding of who you are...building a business or life is extraordinarily simple.Here's an example...About 1.5 years ago I went through this exact process...everyday I felt overwhelmed with the amount of information being thrown at me.I turned it all off and asked myself what do I want my life to look like and what do I want to give back to the world.Turns out, I really care about 1) being a vegan and 2) helping others people build a business online.I don't care that there are a million other people doing it - I've deemed it important enough for myself to help spread the message to more people that need help.So do that...connect with who YOU are - ask friends and family if you don't know.And get to work doing something that is meaningful for you.Good luck!